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I never have sex weith a guy on the first date, but maybe the second....just kidding
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Ummm does it not take two to tango? I mean why would you think badly of a person that YOU just got finished sleeping with? That sounds like my whole marriage.... |
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What if you had been talking online, on the phone, etc. for weeks or months before finally meeting face to face? Does that scenario change anyone's answer? Just curious...  NO 
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What if you had been talking online, on the phone, etc. for weeks or months before finally meeting face to face? Does that scenario change anyone's answer? Just curious... me personally, i would want to wait. i wouldnt feel cofortable being intimate with someone ive met for the first time, jmo |
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if you were looking for a serious relationship, and on the first date you had sex, would you think she was easy? and would you want a long term relationship with her?? ive heard many guys say, if she sleeps with you the first night, then the guy wouldnt be interested in a relationship as she appears to be easy and a slut?? the guys who said this said they would want someone with some pride, and wait a while before having sex. 
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Sex and love aren't closely related, often not related at all, and it's a mistake to make judgments about one based on the other.
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i some what agree with that.......but sometimes everything is just right the first night and it happens without either person really thinking about it. Some people just have thta connection. A few of my ex's i have slept with the first night i met them and then backed off till we really got to know each other. Sometimes if that's the first thing you do it makes alot of other stuff that much easier thanks for that opinion. me personally, i wouldnt be comfortable enough to be intimate with someone id only met that day/night. i really am weird because if i think i might really like someone i wait. like i said sometimes you just click so well that it just happens. With my ex wife though i made her wait almost two weeks, she was starting to think i was gay because she tried and tried and i keep telling her no and i thought we should wait. Of course I am single right now so i really don't know the best method one should take 
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What if you had been talking online, on the phone, etc. for weeks or months before finally meeting face to face? Does that scenario change anyone's answer? Just curious... NO
Well of course it wouldn't change your answer...you are all for it!
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I think that sex should be two consenting adults in that moment. It doesn't have a whole lot to do with a lasting relationship.
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Ummm does it not take two to tango? I mean why would you think badly of a person that YOU just got finished sleeping with? im just saying what ive been told. 
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in my recent dating experiences that slepping together on first date ruins the relationship and takes the mystery out of it to experience later as u become ''in love''... and then make love instead of just sex.. i totally agree. good point
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What if you had been talking online, on the phone, etc. for weeks or months before finally meeting face to face? Does that scenario change anyone's answer? Just curious... I THIS IT DOES......ESPECIALLY IF YOU DO NOT LIVE CLOSE BY! |
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I think all relationships escalate at different paces. I had a relationship where we waited months and one that...well, noneya, but it happened much more rapidly. We just knew and were on the same page. Both were long and loving relationships, and the time line to intimacy had nothing to do with their impending failures. I agree with this as well. My original post, I was thinking more along the lines of someone throwing their self at you. In that case, I would have no further interest. If there was a chemistry there and things happened, I would most likely believe that it was meant to be.
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if you were looking for a serious relationship, and on the first date you had sex, would you think she was easy? and would you want a long term relationship with her?? Easy? maybe, maybe not. Perhaps we have something great and why wait.  Perhaps I am fantastic, then why wait? 
Would I want a long term relationship with her? Sure.
I am not going to have a relationship with a woman who won't sleep with me. 
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ive had many guys email me on here, asking for a date, BUT THEY ALWAYS WANT TO STAY THE NIGHT, even when they drive and dont live far away, so i say you can stop in a hotel then, and he says only if you stop with me, and most have admitted to wanting sex on the first meeting, so ive NEVER met any of them.
also some of the posts i see in the sex and dating section leave me gob smacked, and id NEVER even think of dating them after what they say in there posts
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if you were looking for a serious relationship, and on the first date you had sex, would you think she was easy? and would you want a long term relationship with her?? Easy? maybe, maybe not. Perhaps we have something great and why wait. Perhaps I am fantastic, then why wait?
Would I want a long term relationship with her? Sure.
I am not going to have a relationship with a woman who won't sleep with me.
im sure she would sleep with you, but maybe not on the first night |
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I just got into a new relationship and I tell you, we connected right off. BUT I am taking things very slow!! I think the guy respects you more if you don't sleep with them right away! We have been seeing each other for 7 weeks now and I still am making him wait!!
I think even if you have a great connection you should still wait to sleep with them. This is only my opinion, but I agree that good things come to those who wait!! I don't think you are considered a "s1ut" if you sleep with someone the first time you go out with them...just remember, hes also sleeping with you! |
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I just got into a new relationship and I tell you, we connected right off. BUT I am taking things very slow!! I think the guy respects you more if you don't sleep with them right away! We have been seeing each other for 7 weeks now and I still am making him wait!!
I think even if you have a great connection you should still wait to sleep with them. This is only my opinion, but I agree that good things come to those who wait!! I don't think you are considered a "s1ut" if you sleep with someone the first time you go out with them...just remember, hes also sleeping with you! I FEEL THE SAME. |
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i agree a guy will respect you more if you wait. and to me its nice to wait, something to look forward to, if its all done in one night, it takes the excitement away from the relationship. well it would for me anyway.
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