I saw that a guy had looked at my profile so I sent an email to him asking why he didn't say "HI". Well, this guy went on to say he was not checking me out and that I seemed to attract the "holly roller crowd" and blah,blah,blah.. How dare he judge me and anyone else here without knowing us..That just really ticks me off. Needless to say the return email line was a HOT one... Sorry but I just had to vent this....

I have 106 views in just a couple days...only 2 emails..LOL...I let them email first....if they care to know me, then they will.If not then that is ok too...good you stood up for yourself :)

Just curious why you expect an e-mail from everyone who looks at your profile? What if he looks at your profile and finds nothing that interests him? Should he write and tell you that?

No, I don't expect that. It was the fact that he was very rude and impolite.. I don't treat anyone that way.. His whole attitude was way off.

I'm sorry but just because someone looks at your profile doesn't mean they HAVE to send you a message. So he read your profile and decided he wasn't interested in someone as yourself. That's the whole point of a profile. If someone reads it and isn't interested based off the info you have posted, then why should they respond to begin with?

I'm not trying to sound like a ****, but I don't feel you have any right to assume someone should send you a message just because they peep your profile. So in part it's your own fault for getting upset that someone has a particular reason they weren't interested in messaging you.

You have 106 views in 2 days because of the default pic you have... That's just my guess anyway...

I don't assume anything but he didn't have to be so rude. He was judging me and everyone else here and he doesn't even know us.

LOL that pic has been up a whole 5 minutes...LOLOL

Well, I don't know how he worded whatever he said. So I can't speak for his rudeness, but at the same time the main purpose of a profile is to make a first judgement call on weather you are interested in messaging a person or not. In general I may look at 25-50 profiles, and maybe 1 of them intrigues me enough to send a message.

Apparently mine didnt

That's why it was just a guess, because I didn't assume you've had it up for 2 days. I bet if you did, you probably would've had even more than 106 though...

haha, well main reason I looked was to see the pic cause I couldn't make out what the paint was. That's cool it was Libra though. Second, I generally only message people that are local and in my age range.

LOL its really ok...I dont message people first much either..Im actually quite shy (rofl)

Although I don't agree with how he treated you, if you don't expect a person to contact you when they look at your profile then why did you bother to ask him why he didn't say Hi?

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Maybe he took your message the wrong way and thought that you were being confrontational?

Good point, I was thinking that too

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