during the summertime for those who are "solo-ing" it this summer- relationship and friendship wise....if you have some ideas, please post!

become a cougar and go to bars looking for prey????

I tend to drink heavily

i'm hitting up the gyms this summer.......have to get my girlie figue back

how does heavily taste

But I'm not dating....

Excellent idea--i've been going, but I also wanted to have some ideas for other times/nights....I'm getting bored with only doing the gym/book reading thing

reading

Go to a gym, as someone suggested.

Take a high school course, or a college course. They have day and evening classes.

Go to a public park on the weekend and walk around. Maybe you will attract a single guy. But use your common sense; don't go where there are no people.

Visit a public museum.

Go to the library.

Do some volunteer work where there are people your age.

Hit the single clubs; go to the ones that are advertised as dance clubs and charge an admission fee. There are usually a better class of people there, that is guys interested in socializing rather than drinking. But once again be careful; don't go home with anyone or take anyone home.

Buy the local newspapers on Friday. Most have an entertainment section. Look through it and see what is being advertised in the way of entertainment to get some ideas as to what you can do.

Bought 2 books yesterday and I intend to finish reading them right before new school year starts.

fishing!!!! and picnics...
and swimming...

Geocaching!!!
(Although I am not doing it solo )

Hiking, gardening, reading, swimming..if only I had time for any of those things!

Roller Derby...year round...I dont know what sun looks like any more. Ive given up on my tan, and drinking. If I dont meet a man at the rink, Ill never meet one. lol.

working in my garden and enjoying the last summer that I have with my daughter before she graduates high school next year

You could be doing worse things. You are exercising and saving your skin and your liver.

What? Your not going to sit on JSH/OPY 24 hrs a day???
Baseball diamonds ....that's were all the men are!

throw water balloons at strangers...run like hell.

good excercise and you increase your cuss word vocabulary in several languages.

Yea I traded in a life of managing bands (and drinking a LOT) for this. I tried to do both, but you can't do the endurance stuff we do when you are hungover. I just wish my body would get the idea and start shaping up.

I think what you are doing is awesome.