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Topic: at what point does an action become unforgiveable?
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Tue 05/13/08 11:51 PM
hey jess!!! welcome back!!drinker

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Tue 05/13/08 11:52 PM

hey jess!!! welcome back!!drinker


Hey Gyps...more a passing through.....I dont have a few people's personal mails...and wanted to check in.flowerforyou

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Tue 05/13/08 11:53 PM
probably at the point he threw me down the stairs

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Tue 05/13/08 11:58 PM


everything is forgivable...


but certain actions are sometimes to hard for a person to FORGET


I don't know about that. Looking at that little boy in your pic and i'm sure you love him very much so. As far as action goes. If something were to happen to him, i don't think you would forgive. There are somthings in this world that are not forgivable. Just my opinion.


NOW that is a serious subject..i love my son...
every day i share with him.. I am truly blessed...

you shld see my daughter she is 12 and VEEERY beautiful
cant post her pic on her
the GOONS wld perve her...
her dad is in prison.. hasnt seen her for over ten years..

i forgive him..
i cant live with hate in my heart...

dont say things like that... though..it scares me
angels watch over me and my babies...
keep us safe....
i try to protect my babies..
but they arent stupid..they know the world is full of EVIL..



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Wed 05/14/08 12:23 AM

at what point does an action become unforgiveable? action or comment...


When it comes out of almost ex-wife #2's mouth. laugh laugh

Seriously, I can't say much is unforgivable, but can say many things require immediate termination and not so immediate forgiveness.

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Wed 05/14/08 12:27 AM
well......some of Peccy's questions.....have pushed the envelope...but really nothing is unforgivable if you believe in forgiveness......


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Wed 05/14/08 01:08 AM

When the intention is to harm... the action is to harm...that is unforgivable.



I so agree, especially if it becomes consistent.

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Wed 05/14/08 05:13 AM

best davidben post ever.


laugh laugh laugh

oldsage's photo
Wed 05/14/08 05:16 AM
Everyone has lines that should never be crossed.
When someone does that, I am done.

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Wed 05/14/08 05:32 AM

probably at the point he threw me down the stairs

Ouch !flowerforyou

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Wed 05/14/08 05:34 AM
You dont forgive people for their sake, you forgive them for your sake.

And there are different levels of forgiveness. I have forgiven friends for things and never again thought about it, depending on their actions after the fact.

I think Jonny said it, you don't have to be friends with them after the fact. But you forgive and move on.


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Sun 05/18/08 12:28 AM


at what point does an action become unforgiveable? action or comment...


When it comes out of almost ex-wife #2's mouth. laugh laugh

Seriously, I can't say much is unforgivable, but can say many things require immediate termination and not so immediate forgiveness.
i'll go along with the second half of this ...never had an ex wife lol

deliberate ignorance(oxymoron?), crimes against humanity, ie:Bush
racism, bigotry, discrimination want me to continue???

since i don't believe in god i don't have to be as forgiving as you all make 'it' out to be..... and that's a good thing , because someone has to do the messy work....forgiveness is not tolerance nor is it acceptance, nor is it allowing the 'human' to be 'human'

i don't know what the hell you're actually supposed to do with it!!!
all i know it it smacks of one of those crazy religious principles...that sort of "do as i say, not as i do" retort


forgiveness has a place but in my world it looks different.flowerforyou

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Sun 05/18/08 12:31 AM

silly little blue box...questions are for humansdrinker

laugh laugh laugh

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Sun 05/18/08 12:31 AM



everything is forgivable...


but certain actions are sometimes to hard for a person to FORGET


I don't know about that. Looking at that little boy in your pic and i'm sure you love him very much so. As far as action goes. If something were to happen to him, i don't think you would forgive. There are somthings in this world that are not forgivable. Just my opinion.


NOW that is a serious subject..i love my son...
every day i share with him.. I am truly blessed...

you shld see my daughter she is 12 and VEEERY beautiful
cant post her pic on her
the GOONS wld perve her...
her dad is in prison.. hasnt seen her for over ten years..

i forgive him..
i cant live with hate in my heart...

dont say things like that... though..it scares me
angels watch over me and my babies...
keep us safe....
i try to protect my babies..
but they arent stupid..they know the world is full of EVIL..



living with hate is one thing...but not necessary .... indifference works as well, forgiveness is something that often needs to be done in stages


i'm still in the intro of the manual...lmao

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Sun 05/18/08 12:33 AM

You dont forgive people for their sake, you forgive them for your sake.

And there are different levels of forgiveness. I have forgiven friends for things and never again thought about it, depending on their actions after the fact.

I think Jonny said it, you don't have to be friends with them after the fact. But you forgive and move on.


brilliantly stated....just a few bugs in that one word eh?? (forgiveness):wink: :wink: :wink:

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Sun 05/18/08 12:35 AM


silly little blue box...questions are for humansdrinker

laugh laugh laugh
are you discriminating aliens!!!! GASP!!!

i forgive youflowerforyou laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh :wink:

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Sun 05/18/08 04:57 AM
The day I knew it was over with my ex was the day she kicked me in the ring-dings. She put all she had into it,and connected. I had my fist raised to hit her back, but decided that I'm not "THAT GUY". I walked(hobbled) away instead.
In actions? If a "friend" was found telling lies.

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Sun 05/18/08 05:11 AM
Actually for me that is hard to say. For the simple fact I have never been put in the position that I could not forgive someone in the end.bigsmile

But......now if it involved hurting physically one of my kids or my grand baby. Then ohhh hell that would be the deal breaker!!mad

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