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If I don't have the money to ask someone out, I won't ask. If they pay, it's even better, but I strongly believe you shouldn't ask anyone out if you don't plan on paying. I can see that... and I'm saying... whoever asks should be expected to pay. 
How are we in disagreement?!?  She asked you out, you wanted her to pay... she didn't, I'm saying she should...  bah!
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As a with my loud mouth, I'd say split it or take turns paying. I don't want the guy ALWAYS paying for me. Thats not fair for him and I wouldn't want him to think I'm using him or something. I would prefer to pay for every second dinner out for the both of us and always for myself, why? Because then I can show some of my independence. I've been in relationships where men "tally up" how much money they've spent on me and what they've bought me for gifts and when we have a disagreement, this is brought up..."how can you treat me like this? after all I've done for you? After all the money I've spent on you to show you how much I care?" Blah Blah Blah. Plus the more they spend on me the more I get the feeling they want something in return. Puh Leeeez! I don't need the guilt trip and if you want to show me how much you care, do something that does not cost money, like a well it doesn't matter here what I like but hey you get the idea!
This is why I would prefer to pay for every second outing or meal out, and def for me always! Who made it law that men have to do all the paying? Good luck with what you do with that one! Ha
you go, ella... I'm the same way... but I mostly do it cuz I like to share.. sharing is caring. Carebears care!
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I don't understand why that girl said the man should always pay. By what logic? It hardly seems fair.
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care bear count down .... 5 4 3 2 1!!!
you and i shall stick together on this one then.. ha ha 
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I don't understand why that girl said the man should always pay. By what logic? It hardly seems fair. |
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How come no one is still stepping up and answering who the heck or what the heck made it to be where men should pay?!
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I don't understand why that girl said the man should always pay. By what logic? It hardly seems fair. Ya, if I'm not in the mood for sex, I pay.. then he can't expect it... wait is that prostitution?? |
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I don't understand why that girl said the man should always pay. By what logic? It hardly seems fair. Ya, if I'm not in the mood for sex, I pay.. then he can't expect it... wait is that prostitution?? I hope not because some night I will splurge in hopes I get it back pretty darn good and .......... later back in the room... I mean back at home 
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well, what I read in ur original post or rant.. said NOTHING that she took you out... It stating that you had an "outing" for her friends bday... at the end it said something about you asking her if she could ever pay or if she "could EVER take u out"... so uhm not sure.. what u all are talkn about stating "she took u out" and didnt pay... FYI.. I don't take men out.... Nor ask them out. Nor I never stated it was a "mans JOB" to pay. Misquoted. It is simple manners. This is far beyond roles in dating, but it is so simple. To bad it's come down to money it seems 
Expectations kill everything. BTW I'm not responsible for how u feel.. 
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I don't understand why that girl said the man should always pay. By what logic? It hardly seems fair. Ya, if I'm not in the mood for sex, I pay.. then he can't expect it... wait is that prostitution?? I hope not because some night I will splurge in hopes I get it back pretty darn good and .......... later back in the room... I mean back at home
ha, No I just cook my chicken lasagna... Works better than porn and lingerie....
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I don't understand why that girl said the man should always pay. By what logic? It hardly seems fair. Ya, if I'm not in the mood for sex, I pay.. then he can't expect it... wait is that prostitution?? I hope not because some night I will splurge in hopes I get it back pretty darn good and .......... later back in the room... I mean back at home
ha, No I just cook my chicken lasagna... Works better than porn and lingerie....
but have never seen it 
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ha, No I just cook my chicken lasagna... Works better than porn and lingerie....
but have never seen it
hhhmmm interesting huh? |
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well, what I read in ur original post or rant.. said NOTHING that she took you out... It stating that you had an "outing" for her friends bday... at the end it said something about you asking her if she could ever pay or if she "could EVER take u out"... so uhm not sure.. what u all are talkn about stating "she took u out" and didnt pay... FYI.. I don't take men out.... Nor ask them out. Nor I never stated it was a "mans JOB" to pay. Misquoted. It is simple manners. This is far beyond roles in dating, but it is so simple. To bad it's come down to money it seems
Expectations kill everything. BTW I'm not responsible for how u feel..
Nowadays...Money is everyting
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Edited by
caamken
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Tue 05/06/08 04:51 PM
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so lets look at this simply. this was one instance.
you have dated 24 times hockey games.....movies...........blah blah blah Over what period of time was these dates then does she do anything for you besides go out with you and occassionally spend the night. ex; cook a meal at her home or yours help you wash your car maybe help you clean up your house anything..................... |
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i agree- men should pay
unless you are in a long term relationship |
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well what is long term
cause now a days long term seems like a month we live in such a disposable society |
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i agree- men should pay unless you are in a long term relationship Women work also...They shouldnt "expect" to be paid for all the time.... Isnt dating and relationships supposed to be a partnership? 50/50? Equality from both parts? |
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Edited by
bastet126
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Tue 05/06/08 05:12 PM
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i agree- men should pay unless you are in a long term relationship as a woman, i don't get this. women can make as much, sometimes more than the guy, why is who pays so important. if you care about someone it should be natural to both to want to share in this. JMO
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well, what I read in ur original post or rant.. said NOTHING that she took you out... It stating that you had an "outing" for her friends bday... at the end it said something about you asking her if she could ever pay or if she "could EVER take u out"... so uhm not sure.. what u all are talkn about stating "she took u out" and didnt pay... FYI.. I don't take men out.... Nor ask them out. Nor I never stated it was a "mans JOB" to pay. Misquoted. It is simple manners. This is far beyond roles in dating, but it is so simple. To bad it's come down to money it seems
Expectations kill everything. BTW I'm not responsible for how u feel..
you don't think simple manners would dictate that you pay your own way? You grew up on different planet than I did, I assume. |
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Edited by
kendrab90
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Tue 05/06/08 05:49 PM
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God! i want to marry josh groban and i want to tackle him
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