Okay...I admit defeat. My profile stank. I changed it some but still think it's lousy. I usually write well but am not good at writing about myself. Also, I apparently can't upload pictures either. I went throught the whole browsing, selecting, and uploading pictures but they didn't show. What am I doing wrong? The one on here looks like Phyllis Diller and Attila the Hun's mutant love-child. I don't photograph well...not that I look decent in person! Anyway? Can anyone help me or is it hopeless?

Thank you!

you look great!!

Straight and to the point, looks good. Just close your eyes and type what you feel would be your perfect life or partner

What???? Your profile is short and sweet and your pic is lovely

I don't think it sounds even tolerable... Some of the profiles on here read like mini-novels!

you did fine sweetheart

Mirror is right, looks great! K.I.S.S.

Ever notice how darn hard it can be to write about yourself? Anyway, hang in there. JUST BE YOU!

Laugh a lot and Smile often,

~ Billy D.

It looks good and so does your pic. It is all about having fun.

First, never admit defeat. Your prfile is simply too short. It doesn't deserve the negatives you attribute to it. I like your picture; you look like a pretty woman.

Why not elaborate on your pfofile ... talk about where you go fishing .... deep sea fishing .... out of a row boat ... at the shore?

What kind of dancing do you do ... country, slow, free style, ballroom? How often do you dance? Tell us about that.

Movies? What kind of movies do you like? Action, war, check flicks?

Add the above thoughts to your profile and that will fluff it up and make you more interesting.

No one cares what i say or think. But i think Your photo and profile both are great. If you are not getting the respons you would like try contacting others first, Let them know you are looking. Do a search, Then send them an introductory message, 20, 30 differnt people. you dont need a fancie written letter. jest simple and true. Make this site work 4 U, and it will.

Hasn't helped me any in the past 10 months of being on here...LOL! Maybe you all need to let me know what the heck I'm doing wrong...hahahaha!

Have U tried 2 message them first? It depends on the other people if thay want 2 start something, U need 2 contact the right ones

Here's a good suggestion: don't worry about what your profile looks like. I certainly don't care about mine, I put what makes me feel good on there, because really, that's all that matters. I don't get many girls messaging me, but seriously, that's their loss, not mine, especially if they judge you because of some stupid profile on the internet.

I'll message you

then why not take the advice i gave you?

Please tell me what else we have to judge you by in this situation?