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Topic: why is it
littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Wed 04/30/08 06:53 PM
when you get into a relationship your partner tries to change you into what they want, instead of loveing you for who you already are?

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Wed 04/30/08 06:54 PM
Your new hu?

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Wed 04/30/08 06:54 PM
Is it just me or do you make some terrible relationship choices?

rush2001 Joined Thu 04/17/08 Posts: 2577	Wed 04/30/08 06:54 PM
Is it just me or do you make some terrible relationship choices?

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Wed 04/30/08 06:55 PM
Your new hu? i been here on qand off a month

writer_gurl Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 7673	Wed 04/30/08 06:55 PM
Because they think your a Ken doll and they can do whatever to you....

AngeBrulant Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 3643	Wed 04/30/08 06:56 PM
I feel like only bad relationships do that =/ I understand if there is some blarring quality about yourself that needs some altering. However, it's a two way street, and I think generally good people will change you in the right ways. But the right person will love you for you

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 04/30/08 06:56 PM
I love everyone just the way they are

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Wed 04/30/08 06:56 PM
Is it just me or do you make some terrible relationship choices? i make bad choices thats why i lock myself in my apartment and shut off the world. im tired of drama, lies and games

lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Wed 04/30/08 06:57 PM
I just want someone to be real from the start..IS THAT TOO MUCH TO ASK????DAMMIT LOL

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Wed 04/30/08 06:57 PM
Is it just me or do you make some terrible relationship choices? i make bad choices thats why i lock myself in my apartment and shut off the world. im tired of drama, lies and games You should try a local library, always good women there...go towards the adult novel section, or adult drama...ace.

Sassier2u Joined Wed 10/10/07 Posts: 1024	Wed 04/30/08 06:58 PM
Is it just me or do you make some terrible relationship choices? i make bad choices thats why i lock myself in my apartment and shut off the world. im tired of drama, lies and games Me too

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Wed 04/30/08 06:59 PM
I don't think that people actually think that they can change others. Is just that maybe they themselves need to change something. Or that relationship isn't where they are suppose to be.

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Wed 04/30/08 06:59 PM
I just want someone to be real from the start..IS THAT TOO MUCH TO ASK????DAMMIT LOL i agree

AngeBrulant Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 3643	Wed 04/30/08 07:00 PM
That is such a cute bunny!! ^^ I also hope that everyone can find non game playing peoples of their liking ^^

willy_cents Joined Sat 07/14/07 Posts: 4471	Wed 04/30/08 07:03 PM
I have read considerable analysis that men love women for what they are at the present, and women love men for what they perceive they can become. If true, then men resent the change in women as they change, and women resent men because they do not change to match the women's expectations. JMAO

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Wed 04/30/08 07:06 PM
I have read considerable analysis that men love women for what they are at the present, and women love men for what they perceive they can become. If true, then men resent the change in women as they change, and women resent men because they do not change to match the women's expectations. JMAO Maybe it's all part of comming together as one. working out the kink's. In doing so, we learn tolerancce and acceptance of each other.

willy_cents Joined Sat 07/14/07 Posts: 4471	Wed 04/30/08 07:18 PM
Maybe it's all part of comming together as one. working out the kink's. In doing so, we learn tolerancce and acceptance of each other. I agree. We have to tolerate and appreciate the differences. Imagine being with a clone of yourself....boring

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Wed 04/30/08 07:20 PM
when you get into a relationship your partner tries to change you into what they want, instead of loveing you for who you already are? I think it is because some like to be in control.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Wed 04/30/08 07:22 PM
I make a point of finding someone I like as they are...then I don't want them to change. But they always do.