I agree. It's part of working out the differences. It's also working out immaturity. When you're young and dumb you think you can change people. But when you're older you learn that ain't necessarily so.

Now in a God=based relationship, you realize you're giving yourself to that other person and you use respect and commitment to work things out. You may want to change to please your partner or to accept them as they are. God works things out, you're both happy and you get to share that. That'll make things work out wonderfully!