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LouLou2 Joined Sun 04/13/08 Posts: 1685	Tue 04/29/08 08:17 PM
I'd agree if I couldn't afford it otherwise. I've done this for friends, as in: "Hey, I'm going anyway. I'll be paying for it anyway. Want to join me?". But I'd have to pitch in something...dinner...help with the driving...something!

bastet126 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 15553	Tue 04/29/08 08:17 PM
sure, where we going pec's?

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Tue 04/29/08 08:17 PM
With an actual friend, yes. But, no, not with an acquaintance and especially not a male acquaintance. Those requests creeped me out........ uncomfortable.........

ltlone43 Joined Sat 04/26/08 Posts: 82	Tue 04/29/08 08:18 PM
Depends if the friend is male or female. Sometimes I cannot travel even with my best of friends. They drive me crazy and I just want to strangle them!! But if it is with a real good male friend, heck ya!!! I will even buy dinner!!

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Tue 04/29/08 08:18 PM
I have done that! He didn't want to go alone, and I couldn't afford to go at the time, so he insisted until I gave in. It was just a road trip and a shared room...not bed, but room...so it didn't put him out too much, just meals mostly. We had a blast too.

zanne46 Joined Sun 07/01/07 Posts: 5610	Tue 04/29/08 08:18 PM
I've been invited on trips with my best friend... and yes she paid for everything.. and she didn't expect sex... so the delema of expectation of sex or no sex would have to depend on who is inviting etc...

Smileyange Joined Fri 02/01/08 Posts: 300	Tue 04/29/08 08:19 PM
depends on what you mean by friend??? is sex expected? Sex is expected whether you're on a trip or staying home! that is true but if it was a best friend thing.. just having a good time or the possibility of getting too drunk and....stuff happens...or is it a friend that you already been with or have that tension with? all depends.. i try not to mess up friendships...

Enya Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 2077	Tue 04/29/08 08:20 PM
yea,what 'zanne46' said.............

wanttachat Joined Sat 01/27/07 Posts: 8827	Tue 04/29/08 08:23 PM
nope

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Tue 04/29/08 08:24 PM
Why not? All my freinds went on vacation with me when I won the lottery. Take me on a vaca baby!

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Tue 04/29/08 08:29 PM
Why not? All my freinds went on vacation with me when I won the lottery. Take me on a vaca baby! and those freinds 10 years later still pay for all my meals and gas everywhere I go. We had fun and no animals were harmed, noone got pregnant or arrested.

Sassier2u Joined Wed 10/10/07 Posts: 1024	Tue 04/29/08 08:39 PM
Yes I would go

Cambolaya65 Joined Mon 09/03/07 Posts: 5587	Tue 04/29/08 10:34 PM
yes,then end the friendship upon my return.....

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Tue 04/29/08 11:32 PM
I would have a hard time accepting something like that, but I'm sure I could be talked into it

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Tue 04/29/08 11:33 PM
where we goin ....Pec.......

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Wed 04/30/08 12:09 AM
I would wonder what the catch was ......I dont think I could let them pay for everything.....I'd feel bad.

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Wed 04/30/08 12:14 AM
I would wonder what the catch was ......I dont think I could let them pay for everything.....I'd feel bad. I could JK I would be wondering too

yaya28 Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 1341	Wed 04/30/08 12:19 AM
Nothing is for free!

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Wed 04/30/08 12:46 AM
I would wonder what the catch was ......I dont think I could let them pay for everything.....I'd feel bad. I could JK I would be wondering too Ya.....I know what you mean......but if it were a female I would still feel bad and at least buy some dinners!!

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Wed 04/30/08 12:52 AM Edited by TheShadow on Wed 04/30/08 12:53 AM
I would wonder what the catch was ......I dont think I could let them pay for everything.....I'd feel bad. I could JK I would be wondering too Ya.....I know what you mean......but if it were a female I would still feel bad and at least buy some dinners!! It don't matter to me who it is. I still would find a way to pay for some of it or set up somthing for them latter down the line.