I have a question for the gals. What do you think of profile pics from guys that are a little bit on the sexy side. I mean like showing off muscle.

Specifically, if you were seeking a long term relationship would you find this appealing or would you think the guy was just after sex?

How about large visible veins leading to muscles; should a man avoid showing these veins and only show the muscles or can those be sexy to a woman too?

(I need the mind of a woman to answer the questions, I have NP with a woman being in sexy photos if seeking a long term relationship. Love it in fact.)

What do you find the most appealing part of a picture? Feel free to elaborate if you want.

the essay.

I don't care about pictures.

i'll take care of it

*sigh* I'll never get married at this rate. Boo-hoo pass me the spinach!

Honestly, even if I were out only for an intimate encounter, I don't like the supposedly "sexy" crap. I know what I want, with or without clothes on, with or without striking a pose. The guys who put it "out there" are not on my list. But, then, I'm an elderly fart........ And guys who flex muscle kind of look like human ants with all those nasty veins poppin'. And, women, you shouldn't have to put yourselves out that way, either.

Thank you! Excellent answer.

that annoys me

I think it is a huge turn off when a man (or woman) is "exposing". They are on for a purpose and it's not the same purpose as mine. (my opinion). It is therefore my decision to move along.
A sexy man is one that is dressed in a shirt and jeans with a smile and just enough for the imagination to run wild.
There are a lot of sexy, handsome men on this site and they are all "properly" dressed! Imagine that.

Good thing I don't show off anything other than my baby lol.

And as for that I feel a woman is gonna get the point that I have a beautiful baby girl much better if they see her as opposed to if I just type about her in my description.

You don't need to undress to impress Destiny, you're a handsome guy with a sweet personality.

i guess the lesson learned is, although women like to look too, men are the visual creatures. Women need are more about how someone presents themselves than the physical looks in general (I think this also falls under the catagory of "trying to impress her" which is a no no)

What a sweet thing to say! Thank you!



This was interesting to find out like Drivinmenutz is saying. I'm glad I asked and I thank everyone for the responses.

Stimulate my mind, you can have my body.

Touch my soul, and I'm yours forever.

I don't like the muscle pics... What you do for my mind, does way for me than a picture can ever do.

well
I took mine off a while ago, cause i wanted someone to like me for me, not how i look in the pics.
personally i know someday i might get outta shape and all but i'd still be the same person that i am today inside

Like it says on my profile I think of my self as a product. I'm here to sell my self and get a chance at someone's heart. All I need is that foot in the door (and an understanding woman who will accept me for me).

DUDE!!! look out behind you, that lady is about to slam you with that tennis racket!

so well said.

Chest and Biceps...can't get enough

me like bums lol