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Topic: My ex wifes boyfriend....
Jim519's photo
Sun 04/27/08 09:18 AM
I think it's time him and I have a discussion...

My daughter calls me this morning begging for me to come get her. She proceeds to tell me that they always do what he wants to do and not what my ex or daughter wants to do...She is not asking for much...Maybe the zoo, park, aquariam, library, circus...something a little girl would enjoy....Roller skating even?

So far, for the last few months on her weekend they have gone to:

Pro Rodeo/Bull riding

Monster Trucks

Tractor Show/Pulls

Nascar Race

Funny thing is? This is all stuff my ex HATED when we were together...laugh

I will be calling tonight


MarksAlot27's photo
Sun 04/27/08 09:19 AM
laugh laugh laugh

msdestinbooty's photo
Sun 04/27/08 09:20 AM
The new boyfriend sounds like an @sshole

Etrain's photo
Sun 04/27/08 09:20 AM
time to whoop his @ss

link97my's photo
Sun 04/27/08 09:21 AM
Your ex is a *****...mad mad mad sorry dude if you liked that and she didn't like it with you and now she does....I say Hyprocrite (I know it's spelt wrong but I can't spell big words)

Amberdee29045's photo
Sun 04/27/08 09:21 AM
he sounds a lot like my ex......lol

no photo
Sun 04/27/08 09:21 AM
Hmmmm. He sounds like a clod. Good luck for you and your child!! flowerforyou drinker

Jim519's photo
Sun 04/27/08 09:21 AM

time to whoop his @ss


Agreed...it may get ugly

itsmetina's photo
Sun 04/27/08 09:22 AM
Edited by itsmetina on Sun 04/27/08 09:22 AM
i could see why she doesn't like those activities.why not bowling,game places,miniture golf,gocarting,there are plenty of neutural things

Jim519's photo
Sun 04/27/08 09:22 AM

Your ex is a *****...mad mad mad sorry dude if you liked that and she didn't like it with you and now she does....I say Hyprocrite (I know it's spelt wrong but I can't spell big words)


She is an idiot...I didnt like all that, except the occasional race, but she always said she was glad I didnt enjoy those items because she wouldnt go...Now my daughter is caught up in this mess

Etrain's photo
Sun 04/27/08 09:23 AM
that should be a time for your daughter to enjoy herself

Jim519's photo
Sun 04/27/08 09:24 AM

i could see why she doesn't like those activities.why not bowling,game places,miniture golf,gocarting,there are plenty of neutural things


Exactly my point...those are the types of things we do together all the time...

She was in her room behind closed doors calling me, begging that I come get her! But it's not my weekend and the ex said that they had plans...Little did she know my daughter called me and informed me on the plans....Today is the tractor show

No1sLove's photo
Sun 04/27/08 09:25 AM
He may just not be used to kids, and not doing it on purpose. Can you just talk to your ex, and see if she's even aware of what they're doing, and how it's making your daughter feel?

Jim519's photo
Sun 04/27/08 09:25 AM

that should be a time for your daughter to enjoy herself


Agreed! I wish I could just have her 100% of the time

itsmetina's photo
Sun 04/27/08 09:25 AM
tractor show uuuuuuhhhhhhhh no thanks

Jim519's photo
Sun 04/27/08 09:27 AM

He may just not be used to kids, and not doing it on purpose. Can you just talk to your ex, and see if she's even aware of what they're doing, and how it's making your daughter feel?


He has two boys in the same age range of my daughter. It's clear that its about what he wants to do and they follow along...I also put blame on my ex because I know my daughter voices her opinion on these activities...

How does it make her feel? Like she doesnt matter and it bores her

baroosie's photo
Sun 04/27/08 09:27 AM
When its your time to have her, do the things she enjoys....she'll remember her time with you more than anything....

Your ex is probably going thru a "learning experience" and that she'll do alright! My guess is they have no future....

... btw: i'm in the middle of redneck/billy bob land..... THEY SUCK!

baroosie's photo
Sun 04/27/08 09:27 AM
When its your time to have her, do the things she enjoys....she'll remember her time with you more than anything....

Your ex is probably going thru a "learning experience" and that she'll do alright! My guess is they have no future....

... btw: i'm in the middle of redneck/billy bob land..... THEY SUCK!

malibu23wi's photo
Sun 04/27/08 09:27 AM
sounds like the ex's new man is a bit of a control freak...always wanting his way...she needs to stand up for her and your daughter...hope it can all be worked out for your daughter!! she deserves to have fun doing things she wants to do too!! ((hugs))

JadedHeart's photo
Sun 04/27/08 09:28 AM

He may just not be used to kids, and not doing it on purpose. Can you just talk to your ex, and see if she's even aware of what they're doing, and how it's making your daughter feel?


Agreed. I wonder, has your daughter told them she doesn't want to do these things? I have 1 daughter that would tell them outright, but another daughter that would just take it and tell me later. Maybe a discussion is in order ("pleasant" but firm) and if that doesn't work - then kick some @ss. :wink:

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