Topic: Can someone help me out
LaughaLittle101's photo
Sat 04/26/08 11:38 AM
Grow a pair dude

Fade2Black's photo
Sat 04/26/08 11:38 AM


yea thanks guys I will just have to move on ohwell


Your freakin hot what are you worried about i bet when you walk down the street you have girls following you....




Just call him the Pied Piper laugh

Dkroo04's photo
Sat 04/26/08 11:38 AM
wow this is really messed up, are you sure she even liked you.

Tanyall83's photo
Sat 04/26/08 11:41 AM



yea thanks guys I will just have to move on ohwell


Your freakin hot what are you worried about i bet when you walk down the street you have girls following you....




Just call him the Pied Piper laugh



indifferent

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Sat 04/26/08 01:23 PM

Grow a pair dude


be nice buddy grumble mad

TheShadow's photo
Sat 04/26/08 04:33 PM
I can like someone in a couple weeks but it takes a hell of alot longer to really care about someone in a couple weeks.

looking at your age and the women that are in that age groop. They will come and go like you wouldn't believe so i wouldn't set yourself up anymore for someone that is still learning about life and relationships. Go out and have fun and in time somone will come along. Hell i can't count how many girls came and went in my life at that age.


celtic_kitten's photo
Sat 04/26/08 04:35 PM

I can like someone in a couple weeks but it takes a hell of alot longer to really care about someone in a couple weeks.

looking at your age and the women that are in that age groop. They will come and go like you wouldn't believe so i wouldn't set yourself up anymore for someone that is still learning about life and relationships. Go out and have fun and in time somone will come along. Hell i can't count how many girls came and went in my life at that age.




you trying to make yourself sound super old or what?? :tongue: laugh

link97my's photo
Sat 04/26/08 04:35 PM

I can like someone in a couple weeks but it takes a hell of alot longer to really care about someone in a couple weeks.

looking at your age and the women that are in that age groop. They will come and go like you wouldn't believe so i wouldn't set yourself up anymore for someone that is still learning about life and relationships. Go out and have fun and in time somone will come along. Hell i can't count how many girls came and went in my life at that age.



And I bet your hair was short too.......... laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh What's happening shadow long time no see.....drinker

Totage's photo
Sat 04/26/08 04:38 PM

Well I have been talking to this girl on here for like 3 weekend and care about her alot and thought that she liked me alot till this morning I saw he might love someone else that is on here and I feel crushed I dont know what to do. I emailed her about 10 times asking her to tell me whats up but she wouldnt email me back. brokenheart

I miss her so much sad



noway The 10 e-mails probably freaked her out a little.

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 04/26/08 04:39 PM

Well I have been talking to this girl on here for like 3 weekend and care about her alot and thought that she liked me alot till this morning I saw he might love someone else that is on here and I feel crushed I dont know what to do. I emailed her about 10 times asking her to tell me whats up but she wouldnt email me back. brokenheart

I miss her so much sad


10?!?

Coolguy81's photo
Sat 04/26/08 04:40 PM
Lesson number one grasshopper

Be very careful with any online relationships. They rarely work, and usually end up in bad feelings. Never ever "fall" for someone online in the course of three weeks. That is rediculous, and setting yourself up for disaster. Id say, write this one off, start over.

Lesson number two grasshopper

NEVER under any circumstances let a woman know that you "like" her first, and actually, for all practical purposes, you should actually stay aloof as long as possible. Women do not like anything that they feel has zero challenge to it. If you fall at her knees, shell use you as a door mat to get to someone who will kick her in the teeth. Learn this and live it. Nice guys finish last, in all cases.

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 04/26/08 04:42 PM

Lesson number one grasshopper

Be very careful with any online relationships. They rarely work, and usually end up in bad feelings. Never ever "fall" for someone online in the course of three weeks. That is rediculous, and setting yourself up for disaster. Id say, write this one off, start over.

Lesson number two grasshopper

NEVER under any circumstances let a woman know that you "like" her first, and actually, for all practical purposes, you should actually stay aloof as long as possible. Women do not like anything that they feel has zero challenge to it. If you fall at her knees, shell use you as a door mat to get to someone who will kick her in the teeth. Learn this and live it. Nice guys finish last, in all cases.


I'm nice and finish last rarely...I suppose it also helps that I tend not to call them 10 times in a small amount of time...

celtic_kitten's photo
Sat 04/26/08 04:42 PM

Lesson number one grasshopper

Be very careful with any online relationships. They rarely work, and usually end up in bad feelings. Never ever "fall" for someone online in the course of three weeks. That is rediculous, and setting yourself up for disaster. Id say, write this one off, start over.

Lesson number two grasshopper

NEVER under any circumstances let a woman know that you "like" her first, and actually, for all practical purposes, you should actually stay aloof as long as possible. Women do not like anything that they feel has zero challenge to it. If you fall at her knees, shell use you as a door mat to get to someone who will kick her in the teeth. Learn this and live it. Nice guys finish last, in all cases.


i do not agree with lesson two - if a guy shows no interest then i move on... i am not wasting effort and time on someone who is not interested... plus i personally like nice guys as long as they are not a pushover - i don't want any crazy guys who are abusive or disrespectful, but i also don't want someone with no backbone

IndnPrncs's photo
Sat 04/26/08 04:43 PM

Lesson number one grasshopper

Be very careful with any online relationships. They rarely work, and usually end up in bad feelings. Never ever "fall" for someone online in the course of three weeks. That is rediculous, and setting yourself up for disaster. Id say, write this one off, start over.

Lesson number two grasshopper

NEVER under any circumstances let a woman know that you "like" her first, and actually, for all practical purposes, you should actually stay aloof as long as possible. Women do not like anything that they feel has zero challenge to it. If you fall at her knees, shell use you as a door mat to get to someone who will kick her in the teeth. Learn this and live it. Nice guys finish last, in all cases.



He's correct on #1 and #2 partially correct but not completely :wink:

Coolguy81's photo
Sat 04/26/08 04:50 PM

i do not agree with lesson two - if a guy shows no interest then i move on... i am not wasting effort and time on someone who is not interested... plus i personally like nice guys as long as they are not a pushover - i don't want any crazy guys who are abusive or disrespectful, but i also don't want someone with no backbone


On the contrary, Im sure, like almost all women, you will spend huge amounts of time on a man who shows you limited interest, and will frequently ignore the guy who calls every day, leaves notes, sends flowers, etc.

This is hardwired in the female pysche.

Nurseguy08's photo
Sat 04/26/08 04:50 PM
Don't get down on online relationships, they can work. I started a great one online that lasted for about three years. But at the same time, try not to put your heart on your sleeve online since it's easy to get heart hammered. Have fun, chat, but stay guarded until you can meet them sometime for coffee or such, then you can get a better read off them.

As for Silntstrnger...

blushing i wish someone would stalk me


Slides his sneakers, trench coat, and ballcap on, let the stalking begin!!laugh :wink:



FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 04/26/08 04:51 PM


i do not agree with lesson two - if a guy shows no interest then i move on... i am not wasting effort and time on someone who is not interested... plus i personally like nice guys as long as they are not a pushover - i don't want any crazy guys who are abusive or disrespectful, but i also don't want someone with no backbone


On the contrary, Im sure, like almost all women, you will spend huge amounts of time on a man who shows you limited interest, and will frequently ignore the guy who calls every day, leaves notes, sends flowers, etc.

This is hardwired in the female pysche.


Agreed...somewhat, not all women are this way. Though I have come across numerous that are. But I have a 3 in a 1,000,000 chance to find my true love...I have a chance.smokin

Dkroo04's photo
Sat 04/26/08 04:54 PM
i bet you still think she is amazing

celtic_kitten's photo
Sat 04/26/08 04:56 PM


i do not agree with lesson two - if a guy shows no interest then i move on... i am not wasting effort and time on someone who is not interested... plus i personally like nice guys as long as they are not a pushover - i don't want any crazy guys who are abusive or disrespectful, but i also don't want someone with no backbone


On the contrary, Im sure, like almost all women, you will spend huge amounts of time on a man who shows you limited interest, and will frequently ignore the guy who calls every day, leaves notes, sends flowers, etc.

This is hardwired in the female pysche.


well since nobody sends me flowers or calls every day or leaves notes, etc... i would not know with any level of certainty... but i had an ex who developed from showing interest into the limited interest and that is a large part of why he is an ex

link97my's photo
Sat 04/26/08 05:08 PM


Lesson number one grasshopper

Be very careful with any online relationships. They rarely work, and usually end up in bad feelings. Never ever "fall" for someone online in the course of three weeks. That is rediculous, and setting yourself up for disaster. Id say, write this one off, start over.

Lesson number two grasshopper

NEVER under any circumstances let a woman know that you "like" her first, and actually, for all practical purposes, you should actually stay aloof as long as possible. Women do not like anything that they feel has zero challenge to it. If you fall at her knees, shell use you as a door mat to get to someone who will kick her in the teeth. Learn this and live it. Nice guys finish last, in all cases.


i do not agree with lesson two - if a guy shows no interest then i move on... i am not wasting effort and time on someone who is not interested... plus i personally like nice guys as long as they are not a pushover - i don't want any crazy guys who are abusive or disrespectful, but i also don't want someone with no backbone

I'd do the same with a woman if she show's no interest or doesn't call you back if you have a DATE WITH HER.