Topic: waiting
Lily0923's photo
Fri 04/25/08 01:54 PM

it would not be a duty.
what I am saying is if you are willing to get married (anyone) then you should be willing to include sex in your relationship.

I specifically stated that this does not give either person the right to expect sex at any time.

However, barring medical issues, if you are married then yes you should be willing to have sex with your spouse from time to time.


What if the spouse didn't "deserve" that treat? What if THEIR action didn't inspire sexual activity? What if they were lazy/unromantic/went out all the time/let themselves go??

daniel48706's photo
Fri 04/25/08 01:55 PM

witholding sex IS legal grounds for divorce...ohwell


I thnk that differs between states, but could be worng. I DO know most states, you can have an anullment even after several years, if you can prove that you never had sex (thus never consemated the marriage)

daniel48706's photo
Fri 04/25/08 01:57 PM


it would not be a duty.
what I am saying is if you are willing to get married (anyone) then you should be willing to include sex in your relationship.

I specifically stated that this does not give either person the right to expect sex at any time.

However, barring medical issues, if you are married then yes you should be willing to have sex with your spouse from time to time.


What if the spouse didn't "deserve" that treat? What if THEIR action didn't inspire sexual activity? What if they were lazy/unromantic/went out all the time/let themselves go??


as I said, one should be willing to from time to time. However, if you are not acting in a way to inspire sexual urges from your spouse, then you have no reason to expect a sexual response.

And on that note, if your spouse is acting in a way that would make you continually, month after month, year after year, not wanbt to have sex with them, then you should be considering counseling at the very least, as there is obviously something very wrong with the picture.

hikerchick's photo
Fri 04/25/08 01:58 PM
All this sex talk is making me horny.

no photo
Fri 04/25/08 02:00 PM

All this sex talk is making me horny.


Yes it is making me think of b(.)(.)bs.

Of the chest and the clueless male variety

Nickinolosers's photo
Fri 04/25/08 02:02 PM
Edited by Nickinolosers on Fri 04/25/08 02:03 PM
Jesus Mary Cows, said the androgenous human

Lily0923's photo
Fri 04/25/08 02:04 PM

I hope she let's me spank her and pull har hair....then she can go get me a beer while I watch the game


anything for you sugar....blushing

Lily0923's photo
Fri 04/25/08 02:06 PM

as I said, one should be willing to from time to time. However, if you are not acting in a way to inspire sexual urges from your spouse, then you have no reason to expect a sexual response.

And on that note, if your spouse is acting in a way that would make you continually, month after month, year after year, not wanbt to have sex with them, then you should be considering counseling at the very least, as there is obviously something very wrong with the picture.


What if you just lost your sex drive, and everything else in the marriage is fine?

daniel48706's photo
Fri 04/25/08 02:10 PM


as I said, one should be willing to from time to time. However, if you are not acting in a way to inspire sexual urges from your spouse, then you have no reason to expect a sexual response.

And on that note, if your spouse is acting in a way that would make you continually, month after month, year after year, not wanbt to have sex with them, then you should be considering counseling at the very least, as there is obviously something very wrong with the picture.


What if you just lost your sex drive, and everything else in the marriage is fine?


Lily will you please quit trying to dissect my statement? go back and reread everything I have said, and you willsee that I havbe already answewred that.

I do NOT believe sex is a right, under any circumstances. However, if you are going to marry someone, then yes, unless there is a medical reason otherwise, you shuold be WILLING to have sex with that person from time to time.

jtip1977's photo
Fri 04/25/08 02:10 PM


All this sex talk is making me horny.


Yes it is making me think of b(.)(.)bs.

Of the chest and the clueless male variety


B(.)(.)BIES

jtip1977's photo
Fri 04/25/08 02:11 PM
I just had sex with myself......

me2g's photo
Fri 04/25/08 02:11 PM
some people just dont give up no matter how bad they look....yawn

hikerchick's photo
Fri 04/25/08 02:12 PM

some people just dont give up no matter how bad they look....yawn
huh

itsmetina's photo
Fri 04/25/08 02:13 PM
i'm considering sex right nowlaugh

Lily0923's photo
Fri 04/25/08 02:14 PM



as I said, one should be willing to from time to time. However, if you are not acting in a way to inspire sexual urges from your spouse, then you have no reason to expect a sexual response.

And on that note, if your spouse is acting in a way that would make you continually, month after month, year after year, not wanbt to have sex with them, then you should be considering counseling at the very least, as there is obviously something very wrong with the picture.


What if you just lost your sex drive, and everything else in the marriage is fine?


Lily will you please quit trying to dissect my statement? go back and reread everything I have said, and you willsee that I havbe already answewred that.

I do NOT believe sex is a right, under any circumstances. However, if you are going to marry someone, then yes, unless there is a medical reason otherwise, you shuold be WILLING to have sex with that person from time to time.


You have pretty strong view Daniel, I just want to understand them....

So lets say I have a hormonal imbalance (I'm sure that's not hard to imagine) and I just don't want sex (Really hard to imagine) and I just don't want to, should I do it for my partner, even though I don't want to...isn't that being dishonest, and why would he want to have sex with me, if he knows I don't want to with him....

daniel48706's photo
Fri 04/25/08 02:15 PM
I hope that I am in that equation Tina devil

itsmetina's photo
Fri 04/25/08 02:15 PM
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

jtip1977's photo
Fri 04/25/08 02:16 PM
My keyboard is all sticky now

daniel48706's photo
Fri 04/25/08 02:19 PM

My keyboard is all sticky now



ewwwwww

way too much information bro... sicksicksick

auburngirl's photo
Fri 04/25/08 02:48 PM

How ever long she needed if we loved each other .. flowerforyou


Classy! flowerforyou