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it would not be a duty. what I am saying is if you are willing to get married (anyone) then you should be willing to include sex in your relationship. I specifically stated that this does not give either person the right to expect sex at any time. However, barring medical issues, if you are married then yes you should be willing to have sex with your spouse from time to time. What if the spouse didn't "deserve" that treat? What if THEIR action didn't inspire sexual activity? What if they were lazy/unromantic/went out all the time/let themselves go?? |
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witholding sex IS legal grounds for divorce... I thnk that differs between states, but could be worng. I DO know most states, you can have an anullment even after several years, if you can prove that you never had sex (thus never consemated the marriage) |
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it would not be a duty. what I am saying is if you are willing to get married (anyone) then you should be willing to include sex in your relationship. I specifically stated that this does not give either person the right to expect sex at any time. However, barring medical issues, if you are married then yes you should be willing to have sex with your spouse from time to time. What if the spouse didn't "deserve" that treat? What if THEIR action didn't inspire sexual activity? What if they were lazy/unromantic/went out all the time/let themselves go?? as I said, one should be willing to from time to time. However, if you are not acting in a way to inspire sexual urges from your spouse, then you have no reason to expect a sexual response. And on that note, if your spouse is acting in a way that would make you continually, month after month, year after year, not wanbt to have sex with them, then you should be considering counseling at the very least, as there is obviously something very wrong with the picture. |
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All this sex talk is making me horny.
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All this sex talk is making me horny. Yes it is making me think of b(.)(.)bs. Of the chest and the clueless male variety |
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Nickinolosers
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Fri 04/25/08 02:03 PM
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Jesus Mary Cows, said the androgenous human
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I hope she let's me spank her and pull har hair....then she can go get me a beer while I watch the game anything for you sugar.... |
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as I said, one should be willing to from time to time. However, if you are not acting in a way to inspire sexual urges from your spouse, then you have no reason to expect a sexual response. And on that note, if your spouse is acting in a way that would make you continually, month after month, year after year, not wanbt to have sex with them, then you should be considering counseling at the very least, as there is obviously something very wrong with the picture. What if you just lost your sex drive, and everything else in the marriage is fine? |
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as I said, one should be willing to from time to time. However, if you are not acting in a way to inspire sexual urges from your spouse, then you have no reason to expect a sexual response. And on that note, if your spouse is acting in a way that would make you continually, month after month, year after year, not wanbt to have sex with them, then you should be considering counseling at the very least, as there is obviously something very wrong with the picture. What if you just lost your sex drive, and everything else in the marriage is fine? Lily will you please quit trying to dissect my statement? go back and reread everything I have said, and you willsee that I havbe already answewred that. I do NOT believe sex is a right, under any circumstances. However, if you are going to marry someone, then yes, unless there is a medical reason otherwise, you shuold be WILLING to have sex with that person from time to time. |
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All this sex talk is making me horny. Yes it is making me think of b(.)(.)bs. Of the chest and the clueless male variety B(.)(.)BIES |
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I just had sex with myself......
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some people just dont give up no matter how bad they look....
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some people just dont give up no matter how bad they look.... |
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i'm considering sex right now
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as I said, one should be willing to from time to time. However, if you are not acting in a way to inspire sexual urges from your spouse, then you have no reason to expect a sexual response. And on that note, if your spouse is acting in a way that would make you continually, month after month, year after year, not wanbt to have sex with them, then you should be considering counseling at the very least, as there is obviously something very wrong with the picture. What if you just lost your sex drive, and everything else in the marriage is fine? Lily will you please quit trying to dissect my statement? go back and reread everything I have said, and you willsee that I havbe already answewred that. I do NOT believe sex is a right, under any circumstances. However, if you are going to marry someone, then yes, unless there is a medical reason otherwise, you shuold be WILLING to have sex with that person from time to time. You have pretty strong view Daniel, I just want to understand them.... So lets say I have a hormonal imbalance (I'm sure that's not hard to imagine) and I just don't want sex (Really hard to imagine) and I just don't want to, should I do it for my partner, even though I don't want to...isn't that being dishonest, and why would he want to have sex with me, if he knows I don't want to with him.... |
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I hope that I am in that equation Tina
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My keyboard is all sticky now
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My keyboard is all sticky now ewwwwww way too much information bro... |
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How ever long she needed if we loved each other .. Classy! |
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