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whats the max u'd wait to have sex once you entered a relationship? Till marriage. Dayyyyyyyyyyyyyuuuuuuuuuummmmmmmmmmmmmm I'm feeling more and more like a male ho reading this thread.... I'm going to play someplace where the angels dare not tread... |
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 i cut to the chase don't i
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whats the max u'd wait to have sex once you entered a relationship? It depends on which service plan they sign up for. 
That's only a promise, and all too often a broken one. I found that California women don't travel well. For future reference, when traveling with one wife, 2 dogs and 3 cats, sedate the wife. |
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You can go pick up your wings in the second office on the left.... Is this an angel reference or a pigs fly reference...
Y'all can think what you want.. if it makes me a prude what does that make you? D'oh... A male ho??? Or perhaps a normal man with healthy desires and a common sense approach to sex??? Ummm, I don't know... I'm certainly not seeking ascendancy to angel status. That much is a given.... can i help i was raised to respect women for things other than sex? has nothing to do with trying to being a saint.. all i said was id wait 8-9 months before it bacame an issue.. and i also stated that if it was the right woman it could be 5 minutes..  how is that unhealthy or unsensible?
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8-9 months before id start raising the issue.. u prude
hey now.. she asked what how long i would wait.. its not to say i wouldnt stick it after 5 minutes with the right woman.. 
well I hope for your sake you never ever tell her you wanna "stick it"
LMAO... I can HONESTLY say I have NEVER had a 1 night stand.. dont plan on it either.. ive always known the woman for at least 2-3 months.. yeah!! so I move slow.. I want her to KNOW that I want her for who she is.. not what she lets me do to her.. 
wow! we need more like this. thank you.. apparently that isnt the popular consensus here tho... lol
yeah well, just a bunch of sluts here.
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daniel48706
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Fri 04/25/08 01:40 PM
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I agree with you on this one. Someone carnal impulses take over
Exactly.... there were strong feelings before the IRL meet and in person, well...
I think that it was just right. Right. I just think putting time limits on things like this is limiting. Attraction and passion at the beginning of a relationship is rarely a bad thing. Why wait the expected 3 months just for the sake of it? Life is short. 
ok let me ask you this... why are you in a relationship in the first place? Is it because you want to meet mr/mrs right? or is it to satisfy a basic animal need? If you are in it for the right person, then the time frame truly does not matter. If you are in it just to satisfy your basic animal needs (and we are all literally animals, so the need is there) then you have a different answer. Personally, by choosing to go with the second choice of answering basic animal needs, we are falling backwards on the evolutioinary chart. We are reverting back to animalism (doing what is neccesary to meet personal basic needs). By waiting until you know you are with the right person (not neccesarily lifelong companion, but mr/mrs right, then we are at loeast staying put on the evolutionary chart, so to speak. |
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Screw the relationship, i just want sex
 
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i want it all
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I agree with you on this one. Someone carnal impulses take over
Exactly.... there were strong feelings before the IRL meet and in person, well...
I think that it was just right. Right. I just think putting time limits on things like this is limiting. Attraction and passion at the beginning of a relationship is rarely a bad thing. Why wait the expected 3 months just for the sake of it? Life is short.
okme ask you this... why are you in a relationship in the first place? Is it because you want to meet mr/mrs right? or is it to satisfy a basic animal need? If you are in iut for the right person, then the time frame truly does not matter. If you are in it just to satisfy your basic animal needs (and we are all literally animals, so the need is there) then you have a different answer. Personally, by choosing to go with the second choice of answering basic animal needs, we are falling backwards on the evolutioinary chart. We are reverting back to animalism (doing what is neccesary to meet personal basic needs). By waiting until you know you are with the right person (not neccesarily lifelong companion, but mr/mrs right, then we are at loeast staying put on the evolutionary chart, so to speak. Well daniel, I waited 9 months for someone who I thought was perfect...only to find out he was gay.... In that time, there were many others who asked me out...I turned them down... having sex is not a sin.... It is a normal part of a relationship, and if it is important to you... It is important...If it's not important...then what you say stands true... But for most of us, sex is an important part of a romantic relationship. |
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lets respect all opinions.if you are willing to wait thats great.i for 1 will not be discarded for being easy.homie don't play that
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Shouldn't sex be a factor in determining whether or not you would want a relationship with that person? Just asking? no hell no!!!! if a woman ever told me she woudl not date me cause I would not have sex with er, then I would start laughing and tell her right to her face, that she is not the one for me as our beliefs in what constitutes a relationship are way too different. |
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Shouldn't sex be a factor in determining whether or not you would want a relationship with that person? Just asking? no hell no!!!! if a woman ever told me she woudl not date me cause I would not have sex with er, then I would start laughing and tell her right to her face, that she is not the one for me as our beliefs in what constitutes a relationship are way too different. Thank you, that was the funniest post I've read today...
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i'm biting my lip
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till the results from his medical exam and blood tests came back..
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I agree with you on this one. Someone carnal impulses take over
Exactly.... there were strong feelings before the IRL meet and in person, well...
I think that it was just right. Right. I just think putting time limits on things like this is limiting. Attraction and passion at the beginning of a relationship is rarely a bad thing. Why wait the expected 3 months just for the sake of it? Life is short.
okme ask you this... why are you in a relationship in the first place? Is it because you want to meet mr/mrs right? or is it to satisfy a basic animal need? If you are in iut for the right person, then the time frame truly does not matter. If you are in it just to satisfy your basic animal needs (and we are all literally animals, so the need is there) then you have a different answer. Personally, by choosing to go with the second choice of answering basic animal needs, we are falling backwards on the evolutioinary chart. We are reverting back to animalism (doing what is neccesary to meet personal basic needs). By waiting until you know you are with the right person (not neccesarily lifelong companion, but mr/mrs right, then we are at loeast staying put on the evolutionary chart, so to speak. Well daniel, I waited 9 months for someone who I thought was perfect...only to find out he was gay.... In that time, there were many others who asked me out...I turned them down... having sex is not a sin.... It is a normal part of a relationship, and if it is important to you... It is important...If it's not important...then what you say stands true... But for most of us, sex is an important part of a romantic relationship. I agree that sex is an important part of a relationship; however I do not believe in basing the relationship off of sex. Also, just to clarify something, lol I do not personally believe anyone should wait until marriage unless that is what they personally want. Myself, it will be when both myself and my partner are ready and willing, wether it is five minutes, or until marriage. However, I also believe that if you are married, then there is a certain right to expect sexual relations between yourself and your partner (barring medical issues). This does not mean the man has the right to have sex whenever he wants no matter what (same for women, lol). However, sex IS an unspoken commitment when it comes to marriage. So yes, i would be willing to wait until marriage if she wanted to. However, once we were married she better be willing to have sex now and again (again barring anything medical in nature), or there is going to be a very quick anullment/divorce
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Shouldn't sex be a factor in determining whether or not you would want a relationship with that person? Just asking? no hell no!!!! if a woman ever told me she woudl not date me cause I would not have sex with er, then I would start laughing and tell her right to her face, that she is not the one for me as our beliefs in what constitutes a relationship are way too different. Thank you, that was the funniest post I've read today...
lmao, ok I will bite... what's so funny? |
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I agree that sex is an important part of a relationship; however I do not believe in basing the relationship off of sex. Also, just to clarify something, lol I do not personally believe anyone should wait until marriage unless that is what they personally want. Myself, it will be when both myself and my partner are ready and willing, wether it is five minutes, or until marriage. However, I also believe that if you are married, then there is a certain right to expect sexual relations between yourself and your partner (barring medical issues). This does not mean the man has the right to have sex whenever he wants no matter what (same for women, lol). However, sex IS an unspoken commitment when it comes to marriage. So yes, i would be willing to wait until marriage if she wanted to. However, once we were married she better be willing to have sex now and again (again barring anything medical in nature), or there is going to be a very quick anullment/divorce
So part of her wifely duties woulf be to have sex with you? |
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I agree that sex is an important part of a relationship; however I do not believe in basing the relationship off of sex. Also, just to clarify something, lol I do not personally believe anyone should wait until marriage unless that is what they personally want. Myself, it will be when both myself and my partner are ready and willing, wether it is five minutes, or until marriage. However, I also believe that if you are married, then there is a certain right to expect sexual relations between yourself and your partner (barring medical issues). This does not mean the man has the right to have sex whenever he wants no matter what (same for women, lol). However, sex IS an unspoken commitment when it comes to marriage. So yes, i would be willing to wait until marriage if she wanted to. However, once we were married she better be willing to have sex now and again (again barring anything medical in nature), or there is going to be a very quick anullment/divorce
So part of her wifely duties woulf be to have sex with you? it would not be a duty. what I am saying is if you are willing to get married (anyone) then you should be willing to include sex in your relationship. I specifically stated that this does not give either person the right to expect sex at any time. However, barring medical issues, if you are married then yes you should be willing to have sex with your spouse from time to time. |
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I hope she let's me spank her and pull har hair....then she can go get me a beer while I watch the game
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witholding sex IS legal grounds for divorce...
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