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I've been involved with a great woman for about 6 months !
Things can be amazing one minute, but suddenly she, for no reason at all has a mood swing. She won't talk to me, she's not angry at me, but other stuff mostly from her past, but she won't discuss it with me. She distance herself from me, and it's impossible for me to help her. I'm ready to let go, can anyone give a valid reason why I should not? |
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The Grudge III
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Maybe her meds aren't working or she needs an increase in dosage.
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Have you talked to her about this????
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Seems like your not important enough to discuss her probs. with you. RUN!
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I've been involved with a great woman for about 6 months ! Things can be amazing one minute, but suddenly she, for no reason at all has a mood swing. She won't talk to me, she's not angry at me, but other stuff mostly from her past, but she won't discuss it with me. She distance herself from me, and it's impossible for me to help her. I'm ready to let go, can anyone give a valid reason why I should not? |
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Maybe her meds aren't working or she needs an increase in dosage. |
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Have you talked to her about this???? |
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you need to talk to her, maybe shes afraid you wont understand
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Seems like your not important enough to discuss her probs. with you. RUN! Okay, straight to you baby ! |
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maybe she's afraid of committment, you have to decide how much you want to put into it and if it's worth it; otherwise move on.
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Move on....
but get some naked pictures of her first and post them here. |
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After 6 months, it's time to share & spill. She may not want to scare you or chase you away because of her issues, but she is doing so already by alienating you inadvertently. Put it to her to spill, so you can decide if her stuff is managable. If she won't, move on.
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Seems like your not important enough to discuss her probs. with you. RUN! Okay, straight to you baby ! If the answer was that easy for you - running to someone else - why bother posting? |
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Don't let go! She need's to develope trust in you. That's hard to do especially when it's something you feel self doubht about, or, insecure about. It's too hard at time's. But you can make a stand about it. Tell her how important it is to you that she tell you. Tell her what will happen if she doesn't open up to you.
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Move on.... but get some naked pictures of her first and post them here. |
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Edited by
wickedlluccy
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Sat 04/19/08 12:24 PM
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Seems like your not important enough to discuss her probs. with you. RUN! Okay, straight to you baby ! If the answer was that easy for you - running to someone else - why bother posting? ....you'll have to forgive her she(jet ski girl) had a bad crash last year on that thing left her w/ a lack of STICKTOITNESSS...or she had a blond moment.... somepeopleschidren |
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Letting go is sometimes the best thing. I would say ease up on the relationship and see what happens. Let her know you still care but need to give her some space and for her to let you know when she wants to see you. It will work one of two ways, it will give her the out she is looking for, not saying she is but just in case and second if she is unsure of you and her relationship or something about it the time away will allow for that to either resolve or maybe come to the forefront as it should be. Hope that helps
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IF she is a relatively stable person, it is a compliment that she even lets you know she is feeling down. What she wants is for you to "drag" it out of her, if she is a strong woman it is hard for her to be weak.
IF she is a crazy psycho-b*tch...run...she's bi-polar. |
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You can either be patient or leave. Only you can decide what she's worth to you.
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