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| Topic: to all you folks that b*tch about 'no reply' emails | |
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this guy just emailed me, very apparant that he's interested..
i was nice, i told him thanx, but that im not interested.. some of you know already, i've got a TON on my plate right now already..i need no one to deter or distract me right now.. he emails back, and wonders if im 'just being nice' and 'age is just a number' and 'must respect the older ones' WTF??? was i not clear enough?? was it necessary for him to have emailed back? |
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he didnt want to take no for a answer.. try blocking him
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Age is just a number and must respect the older ones?????
Um what does he want, sounds like he doesn't want younger women to take his age into account on one hand, but then thinks younger women out to be interested just because he showed interest because of his age????? I don't get it. |
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I guess he really likes you. To bad everything doesn't happen at our discretion.
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Edited by
dae11x
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Sat 04/19/08 09:27 AM
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he didnt want to take no for a answer.. try blocking him Yep, that's what I would do. You don't need to give him a reason why you're not interested. Plus, you were courteous enough to let him know, which a lot of people wouldn't do. |
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this guy just emailed me, very apparant that he's interested.. i was nice, i told him thanx, but that im not interested.. some of you know already, i've got a TON on my plate right now already..i need no one to deter or distract me right now.. he emails back, and wonders if im 'just being nice' and 'age is just a number' and 'must respect the older ones' WTF??? was i not clear enough?? was it necessary for him to have emailed back? So you are the one in a thousand that returns a first contact e-mail... This proves the cliche, "no good deed goes unpunished." |
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Age is just a number and must respect the older ones????? Um what does he want, sounds like he doesn't want younger women to take his age into account on one hand, but then thinks younger women out to be interested just because he showed interest because of his age????? I don't get it. in my profile, i state that i want to find someone close to my age, that doesn't mean i want someone in their 40's.. in my opinion, that age gap is too great doesn't mean anything but..so where he got off with the 'just being nice' crap i'll never know...let alone the 'be nice to the older ones' he's 48...friends yes, but nothing more |
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this guy just emailed me, very apparant that he's interested.. i was nice, i told him thanx, but that im not interested.. some of you know already, i've got a TON on my plate right now already..i need no one to deter or distract me right now.. he emails back, and wonders if im 'just being nice' and 'age is just a number' and 'must respect the older ones' Guess some people just can't take no for an answer...polite or not... The reason I don't bother to respond at all if I'm not interested....I don't feel I need to explain myself to someone I don't know.....  
WTF??? was i not clear enough?? was it necessary for him to have emailed back? |
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HMMMMMMMMMMMM Don't know where my post went...
 Some people can't seem to take no for an answer...whether the response is polite or not....the reason I don't respond at all if I'm not interested...at least to peope I don't know...I don't find the need to explain myself to a stranger....
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LG- the ones who complain about no reply really mean "no, positive reply with naked photos attached"
Anyone who complains about things when it comes to dating (myself included) speaks more about themselves, than anyone else. |
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I know what you mean. I've made it as clear as I know how in my profile and in the topics that I enter that I'm only interested in friendships...yet some act surprised and upset by this when I have to politely explain it again and again in my emails. Ugh! You can't take personally something that I've advertised to everyone alike!!!!
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So you are the one in a thousand that returns a first contact e-mail... This proves the cliche, "no good deed goes unpunished." no doubt...i coulda just deleted the email and never have replied...get over yourself 'mr. be nice to the older ones' |
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You owe him no further explanation.
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sorry you go through that...i feel you were decent in emailing him back...men like that hurt it for us decent ones...i would apologise for him if i could...you are beautiful...block him......and i hope he reads these forums posts....
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I got the perfect solution -- I just don't e-mail anybody first anymore....!
Problem solved! [Sort of....] 
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I know what you mean. I've made it as clear as I know how in my profile and in the topics that I enter that I'm only interested in friendships...yet some act surprised and upset by this when I have to politely explain it again and again in my emails. Ugh! You can't take personally something that I've advertised to everyone alike!!!!
amen, stupidity will only get you so far in life...lol i hear ya lily...like i said, i have too much on my plate right now ya know? |
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I got the perfect solution -- I just don't e-mail anybody first anymore....! Problem solved! [Sort of....]
that'd be the perfect solution, however, i didn't email him first lmao |
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sorry you go through that...i feel you were decent in emailing him back...men like that hurt it for us decent ones...i would apologise for him if i could...you are beautiful...block him......and i hope he reads these forums posts.... thank you |
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i hear ya lily...like i said, i have too much on my plate right now ya know? Oh I know it, in my profile it states in the last line or so, any emails with a "hey baby" feel to it will either be ignored or I will make you cry. ONe guy sent me one that said "Your pictures are hot" My reply was "Oh how I needed those words today, I am so under appreciated when it comes to my looks, all guys want from me is to get to know me, and know my inner person, thank you so much for coming out into the open for me to truly understand the workings of a good man, and know that my personality, my intelligence, my compassion and passion in life isn't all that I have to offer" he replied "what's your problem b*tch?" |
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No response is a response!
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