Topic: I accidentally stood up a guy today [[advice]]
Lozer's photo
Thu 04/17/08 07:44 PM
Okay, so I used to go to this Church about
20 minutes from my house..and I met this guy
there, and we became besties..but then I got
heavily into drugs and he stopped talking to
me because he didn't need anyone in his life like
that, and I can totally dig that. He's a huge Christian
and a youth preacher at the young age of 18, and
I might just add that he is gorgeous.

Well, we hadn't seen each other for years, and then
this week my school held the band festival, and when I
was walking up the stairs, lo and behold, here is Eric.
We embrace, catch up quickly, and I meet him again throughout
the day about 3-4 more times.

He invites me to the mauviez, and I happily oblige.
We were going to go as friends, to catch-up, ya know?
Sooo today I talked to him on MySpazz and he was like,
"So are we going to go catch that mauvie or what?"
and I agreed..and got permission and so on and so forth.
Well, quite inconveniently, my parents split up, my dad
leaves, and I'm left with grandparents and a schizophrenic
brother to stay with...and I fight with EVERYONE in my family.
I have no ride to the mauvie, Eric is gone, I don't have
his number and he doesn't try to reach me other than the
two times he called, which I missed..

So I messaged him, saying I couldn't go..and he gets offline
before he has the chance to read it.
I accidentally stood up my ex-bestie.
Wtf do i do?

Do you think he'll understand, or have I lost
all chances with this guy??
=[

I need help, advice, anything!!

*tear*

<3Lozer


DeathsTreaty's photo
Thu 04/17/08 07:45 PM
Make him undestand, Tie him up to a Chair and Explain...

talk slow....and detailed...... ^^

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Thu 04/17/08 07:47 PM
flowerforyou he seems to be a good man
i think he will understand
don't worry too much sweetieflowerforyou

Totage's photo
Thu 04/17/08 07:48 PM

Okay, so I used to go to this Church about
20 minutes from my house..and I met this guy
there, and we became besties..but then I got
heavily into drugs and he stopped talking to
me because he didn't need anyone in his life like
that, and I can totally dig that. He's a huge Christian
and a youth preacher at the young age of 18, and
I might just add that he is gorgeous.

Well, we hadn't seen each other for years, and then
this week my school held the band festival, and when I
was walking up the stairs, lo and behold, here is Eric.
We embrace, catch up quickly, and I meet him again throughout
the day about 3-4 more times.

He invites me to the mauviez, and I happily oblige.
We were going to go as friends, to catch-up, ya know?
Sooo today I talked to him on MySpazz and he was like,
"So are we going to go catch that mauvie or what?"
and I agreed..and got permission and so on and so forth.
Well, quite inconveniently, my parents split up, my dad
leaves, and I'm left with grandparents and a schizophrenic
brother to stay with...and I fight with EVERYONE in my family.
I have no ride to the mauvie, Eric is gone, I don't have
his number and he doesn't try to reach me other than the
two times he called, which I missed..

So I messaged him, saying I couldn't go..and he gets offline
before he has the chance to read it.
I accidentally stood up my ex-bestie.
Wtf do i do?

Do you think he'll understand, or have I lost
all chances with this guy??
=[

I need help, advice, anything!!

*tear*

<3Lozer




Try to get a hold of him tomorrow and explain it to him. It sounds like he'd understand. Make a new "date", and be sure not to miss it.

flowerforyou

Lozer's photo
Thu 04/17/08 07:49 PM
Thank yew guys..

I mean, I would be kinda pissed, too..
but it's the fact that I couldn't get
hold of him or anything. I'm so pissed
at myself over this..I hope he calls.
I need to apologize officially to him.

=[

chickayoshi's photo
Thu 04/17/08 07:49 PM
If he is a Christian, I think he should at least hear you out on what happened. He should understand...at least. If not, he isn't much of a Christian. Sure, he may be upset and all but he has to get a clear reason before jumping the ship. flowerforyou

FAK's photo
Thu 04/17/08 07:50 PM
Grab a xanax and learn how to use spell check....

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Thu 04/17/08 07:50 PM

Thank yew guys..

I mean, I would be kinda pissed, too..
but it's the fact that I couldn't get
hold of him or anything. I'm so pissed
at myself over this..I hope he calls.
I need to apologize officially to him.

=[

hey, being pissed at urself is the last thing u should do
it was not ur fault, u know s... happens
and u tried ur best
he will understand

bastet126's photo
Thu 04/17/08 07:51 PM
what's mauviez?

wiley's photo
Thu 04/17/08 07:53 PM

what's mauviez?


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