Topic: I accidentally stood up a guy today [[advice]] | |
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Okay, so I used to go to this Church about
20 minutes from my house..and I met this guy there, and we became besties..but then I got heavily into drugs and he stopped talking to me because he didn't need anyone in his life like that, and I can totally dig that. He's a huge Christian and a youth preacher at the young age of 18, and I might just add that he is gorgeous. Well, we hadn't seen each other for years, and then this week my school held the band festival, and when I was walking up the stairs, lo and behold, here is Eric. We embrace, catch up quickly, and I meet him again throughout the day about 3-4 more times. He invites me to the mauviez, and I happily oblige. We were going to go as friends, to catch-up, ya know? Sooo today I talked to him on MySpazz and he was like, "So are we going to go catch that mauvie or what?" and I agreed..and got permission and so on and so forth. Well, quite inconveniently, my parents split up, my dad leaves, and I'm left with grandparents and a schizophrenic brother to stay with...and I fight with EVERYONE in my family. I have no ride to the mauvie, Eric is gone, I don't have his number and he doesn't try to reach me other than the two times he called, which I missed.. So I messaged him, saying I couldn't go..and he gets offline before he has the chance to read it. I accidentally stood up my ex-bestie. Wtf do i do? Do you think he'll understand, or have I lost all chances with this guy?? =[ I need help, advice, anything!! *tear* <3Lozer |
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Make him undestand, Tie him up to a Chair and Explain...
talk slow....and detailed...... ^^ |
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he seems to be a good man
i think he will understand don't worry too much sweetie |
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Okay, so I used to go to this Church about 20 minutes from my house..and I met this guy there, and we became besties..but then I got heavily into drugs and he stopped talking to me because he didn't need anyone in his life like that, and I can totally dig that. He's a huge Christian and a youth preacher at the young age of 18, and I might just add that he is gorgeous. Well, we hadn't seen each other for years, and then this week my school held the band festival, and when I was walking up the stairs, lo and behold, here is Eric. We embrace, catch up quickly, and I meet him again throughout the day about 3-4 more times. He invites me to the mauviez, and I happily oblige. We were going to go as friends, to catch-up, ya know? Sooo today I talked to him on MySpazz and he was like, "So are we going to go catch that mauvie or what?" and I agreed..and got permission and so on and so forth. Well, quite inconveniently, my parents split up, my dad leaves, and I'm left with grandparents and a schizophrenic brother to stay with...and I fight with EVERYONE in my family. I have no ride to the mauvie, Eric is gone, I don't have his number and he doesn't try to reach me other than the two times he called, which I missed.. So I messaged him, saying I couldn't go..and he gets offline before he has the chance to read it. I accidentally stood up my ex-bestie. Wtf do i do? Do you think he'll understand, or have I lost all chances with this guy?? =[ I need help, advice, anything!! *tear* <3Lozer Try to get a hold of him tomorrow and explain it to him. It sounds like he'd understand. Make a new "date", and be sure not to miss it. |
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Thank yew guys..
I mean, I would be kinda pissed, too.. but it's the fact that I couldn't get hold of him or anything. I'm so pissed at myself over this..I hope he calls. I need to apologize officially to him. =[ |
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If he is a Christian, I think he should at least hear you out on what happened. He should understand...at least. If not, he isn't much of a Christian. Sure, he may be upset and all but he has to get a clear reason before jumping the ship.
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Grab a xanax and learn how to use spell check....
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Thank yew guys.. I mean, I would be kinda pissed, too.. but it's the fact that I couldn't get hold of him or anything. I'm so pissed at myself over this..I hope he calls. I need to apologize officially to him. =[ hey, being pissed at urself is the last thing u should do it was not ur fault, u know s... happens and u tried ur best he will understand |
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what's mauviez?
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what's mauviez? movies |
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