OK, so I am as cute as hell,I got money, I have great job, nice house, hot cars and a big ****. And I would trade it all for a lady to like/love/want me for who I am and not what I have.

Fore instance, I have been dating this women for like three months and she is as always parading me in front of her girlfriends, at he "Charity function" around her family. (the pleasure she gets from her sisters wanting me is just sad) When introducing me to people she tells them about my job, what I drive and where I live before telling them my name.

After 3 months of dating I thought she would know me and who I am. So I put her to the test and asked her some simple questions about me. These things we had already talked about things like, how many brothers and sisters do I have? Where was I born? My moms name? Where did I grew up at? etc....after 3 months of knowing me she knew none of these answers. But she certainly could tell you about my job, my car, where I live etc... I even heard her on the phone telling a friend that I had an AMEX with no limited. How she know that I have no idea.

Now, if this just happened to me just once it would be no big deal but it keeps happening to me.

So the advice I need is how do I change this. One thing I am going to do is stop hanging in Scottsdale but beyond that I have no idea what to do. Quitting my job, getting rid of my car, selling my house and moving into the streets is not an option. So I need your help.

life just sucks sometime.

Thanks for your input and help. This is why I like it here you guys don't judge me, none of the ladies seem not to want me and man is that different, great and refreshing.

Peace,.

Is there a real question in there or is that just an advertisement for yourself?

Maybe youre showing your "assets" too soon.......

I wouldnt trade the "big ****" in too quickly. You may wantthat back some day.

can i borrow some money lol

sounds to me like she's got herself "what she thinks" is a fat wallet.....golddigger

Show a lady a good time but dont flaunt it. There are some out there looking to take you for a ride for what you have, but there are some out there who dont care about what you have as to who you are. Good luck to you.

I agree.

Lay low, don't look like you have money. Try that for a while.

materialistic attracts materialistic

Try Mutual Match.....

that profile pic creeps me out, im going to have nightmares tonight.

maybe you need to get to know the women a little better yourself before fulling revealing everything... that way you can tell those that are just looking for someone good on paper versus someone that is looking for a good person.

i HAVE friends who call guys like you "suckers" Dont give them too much, dont flaunt, dont show them that you have too much!!!

Maybe your dating the wrong kind of women???

.....I sense you already know it's not you...don't get paranoid but just keep some of that info to your self for a while....you don't need to show the whole hand to win the game....but she had some red flags from the get-go, you were willing to look past...I hope you notice them right away next time and keep your options open till you meet one that doesn't send up the red flags so soon and so many....I think you sound like a great guy w/icing, I haven't met a guy like mine in 5 yrs ...even that one was not the keeper this one is !!! Kissed a lota frogs hun...now I gotta man crossin the country on a Bike in June to meet and hang out w/me....and if he didn't tell me the stuff he does everyday I would be a doubting Simone...ima skittish little thing...lol...lol...but an insatible flirt...lol..thats a tough package to impress or trust...I'm feeling very lucky so don't think I'm belitteling the process, not in the least !!!


~wicked~

And your telling us this because?/

You could always get a mail order bride, they usually just want the green card. As has been said don't flaunt what you have, have fun, loosen up a bit and enjoy this limited time called life.

OK, since this is so long, I'm going to have to chop it up and hopefully can point out a few of the problems you are mentioning, simply because, well you asked!



Now, in the above, do you think a truly good woman really cares about all that chit??? You mention cute as hell, money, nice house, hot cars and a big wanker.

I didn't see anything about caring, loving, romantic, supportive, a great listener, loyal, faithful, etc, etc. Those are the things a REAL good woman wants, not all the other chit (ok maybe some of it ).



OK, just the grammar and presentaion thing.

Overall, best advice I can provide. First, work on your comprehension skills then do some studies, find some good reading on what good women are looking for. Ask female friends and if comfortable any female that you can openly talk to about it. Just make sure you are GENUINELY seeking this information and don't play games with it, because that will get you nowhere FAST!

If you are REALLY looking for the GOOD stuff, then LEARN about it and then put that learning into practice.

Besides..i highly doubt that the big **** part is true