I am not flaunting anything T have almost 2000 post and have been here for almost 2 years and I have never mentioned a word of any of this on this site till now. No pictures of my cars, my home, not even a pic of my ****.

Just want so badly to be loved for who I am and not what I got. I should not have to move into a shack to hide what I got but I would rather live in a shack with true love than in big house without it.

Perhaps I do flaunt it when I am out just a bad habit. I been finding myself retreating from life and people because of the way I get treated and I don't want to do that either.

Thanks for your input, I do appreciate it and I hope I did not come of as bragging because I am looking for a good and health answer and I thought you y'all would be safe to ask because you would tell me the truth and don't tell anybody I said this but some of you seem somewhat intelligent .



Thanks good people

how BIG??

i think you already know your answer,you say she introduces your assets before you,she doesnt know answers about your family but could tell you about all your assets what do you think she is concerned with most ..did you ask her what your name was ....

You know its not just this 1 women that has treated me like this , its a pattern of on going relationships lately and I need break this pattern.....

I would agree with most. Let a girl get to know you before she can see all the material things. I know there are alot of women out there that will see you for you. You just have to weed through all the ones that can only see $$ in your eyes. Everyone has things they need, and Im not talking about money. Sometimes its best to just be friends, even if you are attracted to the person. They learn about eachother and really get to know eachother. You will be able to she her real sides. Good luck. We each have our own problems with finding people to date.