HELLO EVERYONE; I AM NEW TO THE POSTINGS THING, BUT HAVE BEEN A MEMBER FOR A FEW MONTHS AND I AM STILL LOOKING. I GUESS IT TAKES AWHILE, I DON'T SEEM TO GET MANY EMAILS HERE. I AM A MEMBER ON A COUPLE OTHER SITES WHERE I GET MORE MAIL BUT NOT FROM ANYONE REALLY COMPATIBLE, ANY SUGGESTIONS?

best way to meet ppl on this site is to post in the forums and let ppl get to know you... then when you send out e-mails you are more likely to get a response.

You have to get involved in the forum's to get noticed.

and stop yelling

Thanks for the advice ladies, any guys out there with an opinion?

go to the match making thread it works wonders....

You might think about widening your filters a bit over 50 miles and see how that helps.

just keep posting hon you'll meet lots of potentials

go to the match makers game she is a really good person

Heya dungon .. how goes it?

Just call me IM or posting illiterate, but I don't get the don't yell or stop yelling comments,please explain!!!

When a person types in all caps, it is considered yelling. Posting in interacting with other members in the forums. The forums really are a great place to meet new people and build great friendships.

Something else that will help you change the resrictions on your profile. You have that a person must live within 50 miles to contact you. That prevents many people frome being able to contact you. I was going to email you but wasn't able to because I live outside of the 50 mile radius.

Hang in there. don't give up. Best of luck to you in your search for happiness.

Using CAPS ON LINE is compared to YELLING in the r/w

Its like field of dreams....you post....they will come. And like Solitaryman said, you might want to change your filter so you can get emails from people farther than 50 miles.

I think you have alot going for you and I think your picture is nice. Good luck.