Topic: Men...would you???
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Thu 04/10/08 10:21 PM
honestly do what feels right

TwilightsTwin's photo
Thu 04/10/08 10:27 PM
Thats what I do...I lay out all my cards on the table. Im not ashamed...I yam what I yamlaugh happy

viraloneontheout's photo
Thu 04/10/08 10:29 PM
says popeye

no photo
Thu 04/10/08 10:30 PM
no one should be ashamed of what or who they are

viraloneontheout's photo
Thu 04/10/08 10:32 PM
tis true let them that are without fault cast the first stone

Guyonline123's photo
Thu 04/10/08 10:34 PM
*casts a stone*

....err whoops that one slipped i swear.

bigsmile

TwilightsTwin's photo
Thu 04/10/08 10:40 PM
I think I lay out too many cards though...for example


DATE#46

Him: So do you like kids?
Me: YES! I love kids, I have a 2year old son :)

Him *Gulp*....Yeah I hope to have my own kids someday.

Me: Yeah Im thinking about adopting a someday...I can't have any more...my son is my miracle.

Him: *GULP* Whats that needle for? Why do you need to take a shot? Are you Diabetic?

Me: No, Im not diabetic. I actually have this really crazy rare heart condition. Ive had 2 open heart surgeries the last couple years and...

Him: ***Gulp***"Im sorry but I cant date you...I mean, you are an awesome girl...but when I get to know someone I get really attached, and it would just hurt too much...well...uh...if I lost you. Goodbye & Good Luck!"

Me: *GULP*

Jtevans's photo
Thu 04/10/08 10:41 PM
i still haven't met a woman that can still have kids.they're either telling the truth or they're just trying to tell me i'd produce one ugly @$$ kid but they don't want to be blunt ohwell

viraloneontheout's photo
Thu 04/10/08 10:44 PM
your not the only one who has that kind of problem

TwilightsTwin's photo
Thu 04/10/08 10:46 PM

your not the only one who has that kind of problem


when it comes to my heart condition...I AM the only person in the worldfrown

TwilightsTwin's photo
Thu 04/10/08 10:47 PM

i still haven't met a woman that can still have kids.they're either telling the truth or they're just trying to tell me i'd produce one ugly @$$ kid but they don't want to be blunt ohwell


youre not ugly

wiley's photo
Thu 04/10/08 10:51 PM

Start dating a woman even though you knew in advance that she would not be able to have kids???frown

I know this is a tough question for the younger men without kids already. I want to know your thoughts.

I have a son, Im lucky. But the doctors told me I couldn't have any more. I feel bad for what ever new relationship I get into because at some point if we got married, I couldn't give him (his own blood)to carry on. I hope whomever I end up with would HAVE to love my son just as their own...but do you think most guys would find this tough to swallow?

HONEST opinion PLEASE!


Yes. Can always adopt or if she's willing use a surrogate.

viraloneontheout's photo
Thu 04/10/08 10:54 PM
well yea but the dates going that way i meant

TwilightsTwin's photo
Thu 04/10/08 11:07 PM
Ive had some funny dateslaugh

Once I was tubbing down the river,wearing a bakini and some guy came up to me and asked why I had the scar on my chest.

I hate explaining my health problems...So I said "Oh, that? I got a boob job"

That shut him uplaugh

viraloneontheout's photo
Thu 04/10/08 11:08 PM
lmao you didnt

Guyonline123's photo
Thu 04/10/08 11:10 PM

I think I lay out too many cards though...for example


DATE#46

Him: So do you like kids?
Me: YES! I love kids, I have a 2year old son :)

Him *Gulp*....Yeah I hope to have my own kids someday.

Me: Yeah Im thinking about adopting a someday...I can't have any more...my son is my miracle.

Him: *GULP* Whats that needle for? Why do you need to take a shot? Are you Diabetic?

Me: No, Im not diabetic. I actually have this really crazy rare heart condition. Ive had 2 open heart surgeries the last couple years and...

Him: ***Gulp***"Im sorry but I cant date you...I mean, you are an awesome girl...but when I get to know someone I get really attached, and it would just hurt too much...well...uh...if I lost you. Goodbye & Good Luck!"

Me: *GULP*


Why is that guy gulping? lol That is not a bad way to reveal things about yourself, he did ask in your little scenario there, shouldn't he be prepared for whatever you're about to say?

TwilightsTwin's photo
Thu 04/10/08 11:11 PM
it worked!

TwilightsTwin's photo
Thu 04/10/08 11:12 PM


I think I lay out too many cards though...for example


DATE#46

Him: So do you like kids?
Me: YES! I love kids, I have a 2year old son :)

Him *Gulp*....Yeah I hope to have my own kids someday.

Me: Yeah Im thinking about adopting a someday...I can't have any more...my son is my miracle.

Him: *GULP* Whats that needle for? Why do you need to take a shot? Are you Diabetic?

Me: No, Im not diabetic. I actually have this really crazy rare heart condition. Ive had 2 open heart surgeries the last couple years and...

Him: ***Gulp***"Im sorry but I cant date you...I mean, you are an awesome girl...but when I get to know someone I get really attached, and it would just hurt too much...well...uh...if I lost you. Goodbye & Good Luck!"

Me: *GULP*


Why is that guy gulping? lol That is not a bad way to reveal things about yourself, he did ask in your little scenario there, shouldn't he be prepared for whatever you're about to say?
I guess not...its like a 50/50 chance Im going to freak them out

thumper95's photo
Thu 04/10/08 11:12 PM
im kinda doubting if i want kids, but its an option for me, but if she cant then she cant, thats no reason not to date her if shes what im looking for

TwilightsTwin's photo
Thu 04/10/08 11:13 PM

im kinda doubting if i want kids, but its an option for me, but if she cant then she cant, thats no reason not to date her if shes what im looking for


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