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Start dating a woman even though you knew in advance that she would not be able to have kids??? 
I know this is a tough question for the younger men without kids already. I want to know your thoughts. I have a son, Im lucky. But the doctors told me I couldn't have any more. I feel bad for what ever new relationship I get into because at some point if we got married, I couldn't give him (his own blood)to carry on. I hope whomever I end up with would HAVE to love my son just as their own...but do you think most guys would find this tough to swallow? HONEST opinion PLEASE! You'd be my dream date, I have two and i wish to have no more to be honest, but adoption seems to bring people closer right? I always wanted more kids...I would love to adopt or find someone with kids to join my tiny family of 2. 'tis settled then, guys back off Twin n I are to be married! lol You're the one with the gun! |
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yes Iowa is definatly the twilight zone too So what are you looking for beside a guy that can except that We are more than 7 hours, Im closer to Canada then Iowa |
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in all seriousness to your question, to be honest having no children with someone new is somewhat important, but as I myself come from a split up family and took it hard as in I got married to see the silver in her hair but it worked out i will only see that from the sidelines and meaning it's hard to bring a life in this world then have that life have to be shared ya know. It's good two parents can share custody but then again it sucks cuz nothing is like having them home everyday! So to me it is somewhat important, i mean either way I'm sure I would be happy. Hope i didnt lose ya?
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Yeah...there is always adoption if so desired agreed |
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Start dating a woman even though you knew in advance that she would not be able to have kids???
I know this is a tough question for the younger men without kids already. I want to know your thoughts. I have a son, Im lucky. But the doctors told me I couldn't have any more. I feel bad for what ever new relationship I get into because at some point if we got married, I couldn't give him (his own blood)to carry on. I hope whomever I end up with would HAVE to love my son just as their own...but do you think most guys would find this tough to swallow? HONEST opinion PLEASE! You'd be my dream date, I have two and i wish to have no more to be honest, but adoption seems to bring people closer right? I always wanted more kids...I would love to adopt or find someone with kids to join my tiny family of 2. 'tis settled then, guys back off Twin n I are to be married! lol You're the one with the gun! Why are you worried? No I won't I don't believe in planning to fail...and yes my career path will make me RICH RICH!!! HA HA HA |
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Start dating a woman even though you knew in advance that she would not be able to have kids???
I know this is a tough question for the younger men without kids already. I want to know your thoughts. I have a son, Im lucky. But the doctors told me I couldn't have any more. I feel bad for what ever new relationship I get into because at some point if we got married, I couldn't give him (his own blood)to carry on. I hope whomever I end up with would HAVE to love my son just as their own...but do you think most guys would find this tough to swallow? HONEST opinion PLEASE! You'd be my dream date, I have two and i wish to have no more to be honest, but adoption seems to bring people closer right? I always wanted more kids...I would love to adopt or find someone with kids to join my tiny family of 2. 'tis settled then, guys back off Twin n I are to be married! lol You're the one with the gun! Why are you worried? No I won't I don't believe in planning to fail...and yes my career path will make me RICH RICH!!! HA HA HA |
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itd be worth the trip however long it is
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Wow! Im impressed, but I find it hard that no one sees it as a deal breaker. Ive had guys tell me I wasnt dateable because I mentioned I can not have anymore kids. What kind of jacka$$ would I be if I snubbed you over something you couldn't control? For the guys who have told you that you're undateable because of this, well, I apologize on behalf of the males of our species, some of us lean towards the unenlightened and others are flat stupid! That they had the gall to say that to you, makes me embarassed for the home team. 
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in all seriousness to your question, to be honest having no children with someone new is somewhat important, but as I myself come from a split up family and took it hard as in I got married to see the silver in her hair but it worked out i will only see that from the sidelines and meaning it's hard to bring a life in this world then have that life have to be shared ya know. It's good two parents can share custody but then again it sucks cuz nothing is like having them home everyday! So to me it is somewhat important, i mean either way I'm sure I would be happy. Hope i didnt lose ya? I know I came from a split family too, in the end Im not "broken" but when my mom remarried...I gain a whole new "side" to my family....more presents at x-mas! & more people to love me. Everything works out as long as it is in the BEST interest of the child...even if that means the parents had to split |
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Edited by
Totage
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Thu 04/10/08 09:06 PM
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Start dating a woman even though you knew in advance that she would not be able to have kids???
I know this is a tough question for the younger men without kids already. I want to know your thoughts. I have a son, Im lucky. But the doctors told me I couldn't have any more. I feel bad for what ever new relationship I get into because at some point if we got married, I couldn't give him (his own blood)to carry on. I hope whomever I end up with would HAVE to love my son just as their own...but do you think most guys would find this tough to swallow? HONEST opinion PLEASE! I would. Eventually it would be nice to have my own kids, but I have plenty of time to think about that, besides my nephew is pretty much like a son to me anyway, so having kids isn't a big issue with me. IDK if that helps you or not though.
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itd be worth the trip however long it is
How far are you from Rochester? |
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Wow! Im impressed, but I find it hard that no one sees it as a deal breaker. Ive had guys tell me I wasnt dateable because I mentioned I can not have anymore kids. What kind of jacka$$ would I be if I snubbed you over something you couldn't control? For the guys who have told you that you're undateable because of this, well, I apologize on behalf of the males of our species, some of us lean towards the unenlightened and others are flat stupid! That they had the gall to say that to you, makes me embarassed for the home team.
you think it's completely rediculous for someone to tell a woman they have to move on since she can't have kids? for some people kids of their OWN is a big deal. aint my thing, but i can see the point of view |
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Start dating a woman even though you knew in advance that she would not be able to have kids???
I know this is a tough question for the younger men without kids already. I want to know your thoughts. I have a son, Im lucky. But the doctors told me I couldn't have any more. I feel bad for what ever new relationship I get into because at some point if we got married, I couldn't give him (his own blood)to carry on. I hope whomever I end up with would HAVE to love my son just as their own...but do you think most guys would find this tough to swallow? HONEST opinion PLEASE! I would. Eventually it would be nice to have my own kids, but I have plenty of time to think about that, besides my nephew is pretty much like a son to me anyway, so having kids isn't a big issue with me. IDK if that helps you or not though.
Thats does help...thanks for the honest reply!
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I have had women tell me they cant have kids and then boom now I have 12 of them  ...are you sure these were women, sounds like a couple a litters to me...
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in all seriousness to your question, to be honest having no children with someone new is somewhat important, but as I myself come from a split up family and took it hard as in I got married to see the silver in her hair but it worked out i will only see that from the sidelines and meaning it's hard to bring a life in this world then have that life have to be shared ya know. It's good two parents can share custody but then again it sucks cuz nothing is like having them home everyday! So to me it is somewhat important, i mean either way I'm sure I would be happy. Hope i didnt lose ya? I know I came from a split family too, in the end Im not "broken" but when my mom remarried...I gain a whole new "side" to my family....more presents at x-mas! & more people to love me. Everything works out as long as it is in the BEST interest of the child...even if that means the parents had to split your right on both accounts my kids miss me but the get to spend the whole time with dad when they are here and my daughter gets excited cause she knows at 3 that there is more presents when she sees dad at holidays and her smile could melt glaciers at that |
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Hey i live close and need a green card oh wait my english is good i might not get in
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like 1.5 -2 hrs
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Wow! Im impressed, but I find it hard that no one sees it as a deal breaker. Ive had guys tell me I wasnt dateable because I mentioned I can not have anymore kids. What kind of jacka$$ would I be if I snubbed you over something you couldn't control? For the guys who have told you that you're undateable because of this, well, I apologize on behalf of the males of our species, some of us lean towards the unenlightened and others are flat stupid! That they had the gall to say that to you, makes me embarassed for the home team.
you think it's completely rediculous for someone to tell a woman they have to move on since she can't have kids? for some people kids of their OWN is a big deal. aint my thing, but i can see the point of view I agree, I mean it was a big deal to me...thats why Im so impressed with the responses. That is why I count my blessing EVERYDAY that I was able to have my son. My son who is my world and has the same brown eyes as me. 
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Your son is gorgeous and dont let anyone tell you anything different!!
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Hey i live close and need a green card oh wait my english is good i might not get in
 Canadians & Minnesotans sound alike...dontcha know?
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