This is where I pay you to kidnap me.Have you ever just had enough and wanted to get in your car and drive and not look back.But then you realize oh I don't have a car my son totalled it along with the one he hit after a night of drunk driving.I could write a book,my kids are in there 20's and one moved back with me and brought a friend and now think they run the place.I 'm sorry for venting but I really am ready to lose it.

Take your house back... eviction notice!! they wouldnt do that with any other landlord

Sometimes having adult children is tougher than having little ones!

Time for that old tough love! You need to live for yourself and he can't go around blaming you for his stupidity anymore if he's that age. Tell him it's time to raise himself!!! God Bless you all!!!!!

Time to go off on em. Take back your life.

I'm with Giggles... eviction time!!!

My parents told me to get it straight or move out.I got it straight.

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh my girlfriend are you sure you have not been in my head. And reading my life story. heheheh Yeppiers had the same thing happen a few years ago. What did I do well at first just what your doing living with it and cursing under my breath or to anyone that would listen. Did it do me any good? Hell no still had the same problem when I went home. Not only did my son move in his girlfriend but also another friend and well his girlfriend came along too. Shshshsh I was ready to pull my hair out.

Hummm finally it took to me getting fed up with it all and finally anounced look it has been real and all but no one seems to be saving there money no one was giving me any money to help out with electric etc. So finally told them it was time to move out. They finally did then my son moved back and before long a friend of mine moved in. Shshshhs I'm a sucker for punishment I guess.

Well **** finally hit the fan my son moved out told my friend it was time for him to go as well again they did not want to help pay the bills or buy grocey's.

Now I have my house for the first time in a long time to my self. And loving every bit of it.

Ohh and the car being wrecked yeah my son wrecked my truck a few times not just once shshs. Now he is not even allowed to back mine out of the drive way.

Funny since he moved out we get along better then we ever have he comes sees me at least once a week and calls me 2-3 times a week.

Freedom is Great!!!!

Freedom what is that word you speak of.I have done all of the above.I am drained spiritually,emotionally,finacially.

A person needs to face the consequences of their drinking. If not, it's enabling them.

you can come live with me sweetie.. all my kids are young, but i have an empty basement.. all t needsis carpet,....

All but make them all leave yeah they will be mad at first then you know its funny. The come back later and make the comment they are much happier living on their own. It's called tough love took me awhile to do it too. But... finally came a time I could not take it any more it was them or me. Well since it was my house figured it was time to take it back. So I did tough love is hard at times but they leave us no choice.

I bequeeth... a boot to his head

im sorry know there your kids but tough love hun need to tell them to get out or get them moved out then have some life for you