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Mon 03/16/09 11:15 PM
or this one...


my name is fred.shaun is my nephew. this his website. tried to set up a page for me. but this blasted computer system ruined my pics and then would not take my profile. i am 58 years old. 6 foot 5inches tall,brown hair with streaks grey,hazel eyes. i am a widower twice,divorced once and a x girlfriend. no wife,no girlfriend. looking for friends. i love kids. to be really honest. i have 1 daughter. she is grown and married,now. i spoile dher when she was a baby.






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Mon 03/16/09 11:09 PM
an email i got from a guy that i had never had contact with and doesnt post in forums...



Lonley mid 30s man looking are uonline on want to meet?



let me tell you what a turn on that is... lol

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Mon 03/16/09 02:27 PM
i go to a couple of people.

my mom and dad, my best friend and my childrens father (though we are not a couple we are very close after being together for more than 11 years).

i take all that they have to say... think about it... and then ultimately i make my own decision.

its just nice to know what other points of view are in case you are missing something... sometimes an outsider has a different perspective on things and it makes you see something you may have missed.

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Mon 03/16/09 02:17 PM


The thing is...and always has been..since creation, that there are going to be opposing viewpoints...that is a given, and it is inevitable, that some folks, are going to disagree. Now this is not quite on topic, as the question was presented, but bear with me, i'll get there...As one poster noted above...lack of parental guidance. Now, i agree that, to a point. Sometimes, folks, people's education is only as good as they were allowed to learn.

Some of us, were afforded the luxury, of learning. Some were not..I consider myself to be highly intelligent. I was lucky, i had a good family..and even at that...i made mistakes..we all do. No one has ever walked this earth, that hasn't made a mistake.

Some people, are just down right mean, no matter their upbringing. Evil exists, people, sadly enough..it always has, and always will.

Some of the best educated people...have been some of the most evil.

It all boils down to spirit, well being, and desire to get along with others...at least the way i see it. :wink:


as the old saying goes "smile, its contagious" ~ i believe that if you live your life the best you can and learn from the mistakes you make without blaming others your outlook on life is much brighter... and you will surround yourself with other like minded souls.

still there are harsh,negative, rude, and evil people... its gonna happen and you just have to think... "how can i NOT forgive ignorance???"

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Mon 03/16/09 12:04 PM
do you think you can?

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Mon 03/16/09 11:14 AM
i dont know how you could actually teach someone to grieve. everyone has their own way. and who would be the decider on pass or fail. it would be wrong to tell someone that they grieve incorrectly.

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Mon 03/16/09 11:11 AM
i love my daddy... but i dont MAKE love to my daddy... thats seriously gross.

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Mon 03/16/09 11:01 AM
with my family i say I LOVE YOU all the time. however in a relationship i am not big on saying i love you. i believe that you should show me, and i can should show you. i want to feel it. not hear it.

i got married to someone without ever saying i love you... the first time i told him i loved him was while we were dancing our first dance at the reception AFTER we already said our "I do's"

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Mon 03/16/09 01:40 AM
i dont use stealth mode. people have their profiles up so that people will look at them. i am a person. and i look at them. usually based on their postings in the forums.

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Mon 03/16/09 01:08 AM
i have only had 2~ and both were/are very intelligent. very responsible. and both have amazing hearts.

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Mon 03/16/09 12:38 AM


marriage doesnt really mean you fell in love... possibly you got pregnant and didnt have another option???
nope, pretty sure I wasn't pregnant.


i didnt mean you peccy... i meant a girl... and actually was referring to myself.

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Mon 03/16/09 12:37 AM


marriage doesnt really mean you fell in love... possibly you got pregnant and didnt have another option???

say what? you dont have to get married because of a child.... i got married after my son was born..
there is another option.YOU DONT HAVE TO GET MARRIED!!!!!!!!
i didnt marry my daughter dad


that may be true... but at times you dont realize all options... and circumstances do vary...

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Mon 03/16/09 12:30 AM
marriage doesnt really mean you fell in love... possibly you got pregnant and didnt have another option???

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Mon 03/16/09 12:24 AM
no. though there are good memories, we are no longer together for a reason. but keeping a friendship is definately an option.

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Mon 03/16/09 12:16 AM
if it got to be an actual relationship and not just mutual liking and flirting, i wouldnt keep it a secret. nor would i make an announcement.

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Sun 03/15/09 11:31 PM
tasting

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Sun 03/15/09 11:30 PM
suspending

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Sun 03/15/09 10:25 PM
completed timely

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Sun 03/15/09 10:24 PM
fire swallower

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Sun 03/15/09 10:20 PM
titanium

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