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Sun 02/15/09 06:41 PM
rewind

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Sun 02/15/09 06:35 PM
the state of IL has a program like that.

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Sun 02/15/09 06:34 PM
not me. Too bad. I could use another day off.

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Sun 02/15/09 06:22 PM

whats a date!!!!!!!


I second that. lol

Seperated--off limits too much drama

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Sun 02/15/09 05:27 PM
meant to forward a very rude email from a student to my supervisor. Typed in my comments, hit reply instead of forward and the rest is history. OOPS!!!!

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Sun 02/15/09 05:21 PM
Dirty Harry?

"I'll be back"


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Sun 02/15/09 04:26 PM


invite him in, throw him up against the door and start ripping his clothes off. laugh


You said be honest. :)



oh....I start ripping MY clothes off!:tongue:


that works too laugh

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Sun 02/15/09 04:16 PM
Edited by ljs789 on Sun 02/15/09 04:17 PM
invite him in, throw him up against the door and start ripping his clothes off. laugh


You said be honest. :)

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Sun 02/15/09 03:14 PM
noodles

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Sun 02/15/09 02:58 PM

When I start to feel nervous I ask myself "why"? Usually it is because I want him to like me... so I tell myself that I cannot control his feelings. I can only be me and I like me enough for both of us.


That's great advice. Thanks.

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Sun 02/15/09 02:41 PM
Thanks everyone for your help. So basically, I just need to be myself and don't try to impress by being or acting like someone I'm not. Sounds like a plan.

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Sun 02/15/09 02:39 PM


So I had my first date since my divorce a couple of weeks ago and the guy never called back. Why? Because I was really, really, really nervous about the whole deal. I didn't know what to say, how to act or how to end the evening. He probably thought I was a freak of some kind. I'm not devasted by the fact he never called back, I think of it as practice. lol

Anybody got any advice?

Just roll with it and don't think about it much..Could be a lot of things but as long as it went half well thats not BAD,,so he may call ya again.
If NOT he wasn't worth your attention to worry about it.

PRATICE makes PERFECT,wink, This is true,,wink,lol
Good luck..flowerforyou drinker


I thought it went well except for the last hour and a half. Then it was pretty much just awkward. We both ran out of things to say. next time I'll have a list of questions ready. :)

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Sun 02/15/09 02:37 PM

Relax and have fun. Try to enjoy without pressure.


Easier said than done, but i'll try. Maybe next time I can get through the evening without going duh, duh, duh for most of the night. lol

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Sun 02/15/09 02:30 PM
So I had my first date since my divorce a couple of weeks ago and the guy never called back. Why? Because I was really, really, really nervous about the whole deal. I didn't know what to say, how to act or how to end the evening. He probably thought I was a freak of some kind. I'm not devasted by the fact he never called back, I think of it as practice. lol

Anybody got any advice?

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Sun 02/15/09 12:49 PM
When the thought of going home makes you sad, rather than happy.

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Sun 02/15/09 11:52 AM
Edited by ljs789 on Sun 02/15/09 11:53 AM
If I were to be proposed to again, I would like it to be a spontaneous gesture, not something elaborately planned. I think I would like it if I were snuggling on the couch with my guy watching TV and he says, "hey, you wanna get hitched?" lol I like things sweet and simple.

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Sun 02/15/09 09:09 AM
Silent Lucidity-- queensryche

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Sun 02/15/09 09:05 AM
I can deal with being alone. Sure there are days when I wish I had someone at home to talk to and snuggle with other than the dog, (when she starts talking back, then I'll worry. lol), but you know, I'd rather be alone than in a relationship based on lonliness. And your friend was right--you do need to learn to be comfortable with yourself and discover who you are as an individual rather than as part of a pair.

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Sun 02/15/09 08:53 AM
Nothing like a plate of liver and onions with fried potatoes on the side. Yum! But it has to be fresh liver, not frozen then thawed. I don't know it's just a thing I have. lol

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Sun 02/15/09 08:21 AM
Hello,

New to this site and am finding it to be one of the better ones around. Have decided to jump back into the dating pool but perfectly content just to meet new people to chat with also.

Hope to chat with some of you soon.--Lisa