One of the biggest flaws why a real woman can't find an honest guy is because they want to find a guy that's muscilar who is perfect. Sorry for your luck but this isn't some fairy tale or Romeo & Juliet. everybody has their own preference and let's face the facts there are a lot of dishonest women out there just as well as dishonest men. that's why I don't do the whole online dating anymore. for the simple fact getting hooked up with some chick and not knowing what she's doing.. I have trust issues with that kind of stuff.