listen to every lies and truth she tell you because it really helps

I’ll say this it’s not automatically a red flag, but it’s not something to ignore either.
By a certain age, most adults have exes. A marriage, a broken engagement, a long-term boyfriend that’s just life. The real question isn’t whether she has exes. It’s what kind of boundaries exist now.
Staying in occasional, respectful contact is one thing. Emotional dependence, constant communication, or turning to an ex for support instead of you is another.
When a woman is truly ready for something new, her priority shifts. You won’t feel like you’re competing with ghosts from her past. Her actions will make it clear that you’re the present and the future.
At the end of the day, it comes down to your standards. If it makes you uncomfortable, don’t ignore that feeling. You don’t have to accuse her of anything just observe. Consistency, transparency, and respect will tell you everything you need to know.
A man with experience doesn’t panic he watches patterns

Love in many relationships is not always equal. Often, a man loves the woman so deeply that he carries not only his own responsibilities, but also a large part of hers. He provides, protects, worries, and problem-solves not because he is forced to, but because he loves.
When a woman is facing challenges, the man often makes those challenges his own. If 80% of a woman’s problems become the man’s concern, and he already carries 100% of his own responsibilities, then emotionally and mentally he is carrying far more.
This doesn’t mean love is wrong it shows that love is sometimes expressed through sacrifice. And that is why love in a relationship can feel unequal, not because one person doesn’t care, but because one person carries more.
Love is not always equal in relationships. Many men carry their own burdens plus most of their partner’s struggles. When a man turns his woman’s problems into his responsibility, love becomes sacrifice and sacrifice is rarely equal.