ok damn i added a letter lol my bad just seen that

lol i guess we are all thinking at the sametime lol anyways mine was for
fort...now mine for fart is...start

colt

i'm not out for how much money a man has...as long as he can help me pay
bills and keep his job thats as far as i go with the money stuff i'm
more into how he treats me and my son how good of a man he is isn't how
much money he can throw down on the table. Respect is something else i
think is inportent goes both ways. so u think most woman are looking for
money as i am thinking most guys are looking for barbi. each to his own
and hopefuly we both can find what we are longing to have good luck

what are guys in there 20's erly 30's rely thinking? See i read all this
commints about who's sexy,who would u be with, who's the hottest woman
on JSH and the best one ever...what realy maters ok we all say that its
the person on the inside that maters whats on the outside doesn't hah
hah hah!!! i want to know why people say this things knowing that
everyone pays more att. to whats on the outside more then the inside.
Take all the modles,actress,etc. more than most guys would say that the
skin one is the best i fill like the guys in my age range could care
less about who i am,were i'm going,and what a grate person i am just
because i'm a thick girl now the qustion is what are they rely thinking?
Are they rely thinking about whats behind the skin or just because us
thick girls aren't size 8 there rely looking past us?

thinks "seahawks" i know i will someday some how i will find what i'm
looking for....i just hope i'm not on my death bed whin it happens j/k i
know i have to take my time or it wont be as good as i'm hopeing it will
be thinks agin

well i've tryed going out with friends not just to meet new men but just
to get out of the house and hang out with my friends. My son is my life
and i work and do everything i can to make sure he his having the best
life i can give him. and my friends also tell me to stop looking that a
guy will come to me and i have been trying not to look but its hard. my
life has been so mush beter sence my divorce i fill so much beter about
myself couse my ex would live me at home all the time and not spend time
with me and if were were out in public he would walk 10ft in frount of
me couse it look as if we were not togeather...i kind of thinking this
too maybe why i have such a hard time is becouse i rely felt as if
something was wrong with me sence he tryed so hard to play single. maybe
this is why i fill that guys aren't looking my way because i've had a
bad time with men in the past hummmm something to think about

ok and forums? u said and this may sound stuped but whats that?

i've been on this site for mths. now and just started doing the
community chat stuff so i guess u can say i'm new at this too i
hope everyone is right about finding new friends on here. everyone so
far seems realy nice and helpful

thinks Marie55 go ideas and i have gotin over the hole divorce thing
thats why i'm asking...now that i am over it and ready to move on why is
there not anyone. I starting to fill like there is something wrong with
me i have friends that whin we do go out guys talk to them sometimes
even as for a dance (not that my friends are takeing them home) but at
lest guys are talking to them i fill like i'm off in a diffrent world
like guys don't see me or something

ok i got a Divorce in Dec.2006, my ex left me of 5 yrs back in March
2006 couse he is just a player and cheated on me the whole 5 yrs and he
wanted to go his way so i filed for divorce couse i don't have to live
like that but anyways he has had a girlfriend sence we have been appart
was like with her the very next weekend he left...thats on him but my
question is why not me? I am so ready to be in a good heathy
relationship with a good man i don't understand why my ex "such a loser"
can be so happy and get with someone so fast and me being a nice woman,
i have my head on my sholders and i'm rasing my son alone with no help
from his dad, why am i stell alone and now that i'm ready to date and
posably get into a new relationship there is no one at my door step? i'm
not a skiny girl, but i'm not too big i don't think i look to bad and i
have alot going for me so Why not Me? can anyone explan that to me?

yea happy St. Paddy's day to u all. this day is a grate day in my books
my son was born 4 yrs ago on this day...he is growing up so fast i
didn't relize how fast time flys...whin he was just a little man i
thought to myself some day he will be going to school and guess
what...now its here he will be starting school this next year in Pre-K
so much fun anyways everyone have a happy St.Paddy's day and keep safe

i've been hurt in every relationship i've been in by problem is i fall
in love to fast i let people in to fast i found out that i just have to
back off and keep a gard up until i can trust that the person can be
trusted to be let in my saying is better to love and get hurt then to
never love at all. now to find someone to try this all out on is my new
problem lol

i have 4yr old son who has a toy gun well maybe 2 of them...anyways most
of the time he isn't playing with them at first he liked them but now
that he has had them he doesn't play with them much i don't think its
wrong to let kids play with toy guns no if there is a real gun in the
home it sould be under lock and key and have every safty thing u can put
on it most kids that have been hurt with guns are kids that have never
see one or been alowed to know what they are and why they don't tuck
them so whin they find a real one at home they check it out couse its
cool looking and sence there mom and dad didn't teach them or show them
why they can't play with guns then they or someone else ends up hurt
realy bad. i think if we teach are kids right and keep it in there minds
we will do ok but have u looked at your TV? there is so much fighting on
there that kids see everyday or have u looked at some relationships?
people fight in frount of there kids and then we want to know why our
kids are vilent well its all about what we show and teach them if they
don't see it at home or on TV there seeing it everywere people are just
meen now days. oh and the ex thing...most of us have bad ex's but we
have to dill with them

ok just for a ex. whin i was with my ex husband trying to make my
marrage work couse he was a lier and a cheater i tryed to change who i
was...i thought if i changed me trying to be the girls he was sleeping
with then he would stop and just be with me and we would live happly
ever after...wrong all i got was my heart brock couse i couldn't change
myself to match what he wanted why? couse his just into cheating and lie
he will never change and i relized that. i was only hurting myself
couse its hard to be someoneless so don't try and change it only hurts u
in the end.

DWHITESD...u know i was thinking...u could have been a lawer too they
put on a realy good act..lol j/k

don't go out and play the fild just because u think it will make things
better...it doesn't go out whin u are ready give yourself sometime to
rest if u find a girl u like problem is u maybe stell thinking of your
ex and then whin u find out that u are trying to replace your fillings
with someone new whin u didn't even have a chance to brith u could whind
up hurting someone in the prosise u don't want to hurt someone because u
were hurt u maynot mean to hurt them but if your heart is stell with the
ex u could hurt someone else. Take sometime out for yourself gether your
thoughts and your fillings forget the ex she ovesaly doesn't want to do
anything but hurt u more. its hard to just drop someone u loved but to
stop the hurt in your heart u have to drop her...i was married for 5 yrs
to a lier and a cheater he wasn't good to me but i loved him with all my
heart and i tryed so hard to make it work now that i have been divorced
from him i fill better it took me a long time to get over what happen
and somedays are better than uthers. i just know that i didn't want to
hurt anyone like i'd been hurt so i haven't dated anyone but now i'm
ready to move one i know now that my heart has held from what has happen
and i can now be happy with someone new. i think u sould just set back
and relace for a while dont start anything new yet wait till u are realy
ready.

well my guess is if there not under the rock thin some lucky ladies have
found them or maybe there on a island that we need a map to get too lol
j/k i know there is a man in this big world for me somewere someday i
will find him or him find me i hope that day will come soon but girls i
just want to say there out there just like the big fish i keep trying to
get out at the lake i've been trying for years to get him i know his out
there swimming around i got to be getting close to getting him on my
line just like the fish we will all find the man thats for us. DON'T
GIVE UP GIRLS...I'M NOT!!!

"PAMPERED" whats that lol j/k i've never had a man do anything nice for
me...well unless he did something wrong i got flowers but just doing
something nice for me makeing me fill good and makeing me fill like i'm
a person is what i would want i've never had that so if any guy was to
"pamper" me i'm not sure if i would know what he was doing lol

well all weman are diffrent we all want diffrent stuff in a man for
me...i want a man who will respct me,love me for how i am,make me
laph,someone who will wack up beside me and not say anything just smile,
i want someone who will love my son as his own will tech him how a man
is to be (unlike is daddy) someone who will take me out in public and
not walk 10 ft. in frount of me someone who will walk beside me,so one
who is prode to have me on his arm not stord away at home. I want a best
friend someone i can shere my secrits with, someone who will not judge
me, someone who will help me provide for a family and my list can go on
and on but i'll stop here...i hope this has givein u an idea of what a
woman wants but like i said all weman are diffrent what i want maynot be
what another woman wants.