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Tue 01/29/08 10:08 PM
Thanks, but not looking for votes...lol

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Tue 01/29/08 10:05 PM
I understand that alot of people on here are new and want advice on how to improve their profile....however I am personally getting tired of all the rate my profile posts on here. Seriously, if you are so worried about what people think of your looks then put your picture up on hot or not.

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Tue 01/29/08 09:58 PM

First, talk to your landlord and let them know what's going on. They have to go by the rules, but they can't work with you if they don't know the situation. Then, ask your family and friends if they can help out. Those payday loan places will screw you big time. Try temp agencies that pay daily (check out their websites, alot of them will tell you) to get money pronto. Your profile says you don't have kids, so you wouldn't qualify for any cash assistance through the state. You'd maybe qualify for some other assistance, but email me if you want to know more about that...


Definetly talk to the landlord as well...you might be surprised how they would be willing to work with you if you have been a good tenent.

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Tue 01/29/08 09:55 PM
If the paperwork for the divorce has already been filed then you may be able to go after him legally...if not, most likely you are out of luck there. Either way, it doesnt help you with rent this coming month though. I would definetly check with goverment agency's to see if you qualify for emergency assistance and with churches, salvation army, united way, etc as well. Good luck to you with this!

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Thu 01/24/08 07:09 PM

Just because people are on your friends list doesn't mean they're a friend either.


Oh so true

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Thu 01/24/08 06:58 PM

Dont even have a camera phone, if there was a way there is a site i am on where i had a friend post a pic of me, and there is also this video of me dancing(basically making an ass of myself) on youtube. Maybe that would do something idk.


you should be able to go to that site and copy the picture from there

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Thu 01/24/08 06:57 PM

I wish i could put a pic up, but i have no equipment to do so, i feel like i live in the 1800's or something. I guess my biggest fear is i will grow old and not know the feeling of everlasting love. There are times i feel pathetic and not even a human being, but those are few and far in between feelings. I guess.


Even if you dont have a digital cam or cell phone to take a pic, you can even use a film camara and have the picture put on disk at places like walmart, walgreens, etc. Then just pop the disk in you computer to upload the picture to here.

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Thu 01/24/08 06:53 PM
Dont look for someone else to light up your life...find a way to make yourself happy and the rest will all fall into place. Its taken me a very long time to realize that no one else can make me happy unless I make myself happy first. Now that I am very content with myself, I find I have tons more friends and meet new people all the time. I still havent found "the one" yet but I sure have made some fantastic friends along the way. Also, put a picture up and Im sure you will get more responses on here.

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Mon 01/21/08 10:05 PM



Too bad we havent even had sex. He thinks thats part of my problem. That I am too uptight and just need to get laid. I just dont think that is going to solve the problem....ohwell


Maybe the beast in you that he brings out is really your gut telling you hes not a good one for you. Dont fall for this bs he's giving you about needing to get laid...geez


I'm not young and niave. I'm not falling for that one. Its my choice that we are not having sex.


Good for you! Seriously, if you feel this way so early in a relationship, its not good. Find someone else.

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Mon 01/21/08 10:03 PM

Too bad we havent even had sex. He thinks thats part of my problem. That I am too uptight and just need to get laid. I just dont think that is going to solve the problem....ohwell


Maybe the beast in you that he brings out is really your gut telling you hes not a good one for you. Dont fall for this bs he's giving you about needing to get laid...geez

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Mon 01/21/08 09:59 PM
I know, its rough...but, there is someone out there for you that will accept for just who and how you are. Be patient.

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Mon 01/21/08 09:59 PM
I know, its rough...but, there is someone out there for you that will accept for just who and how you are. Be patient.

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Mon 01/21/08 09:57 PM
Run, dont walk, away! He really doenst sound like he brings out the best in you

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Mon 01/21/08 09:55 PM


You know, rather than waiting a few days to call, maybe drop an email or message on here (if thats where you are "meeting" her) later that night or the next day to let her know that you had a nice time and would like to meet again. It takes the pressure off calling and puts the ball in her court while letting her know you are interested.


i dont want them to think im a coward and hide behind a computer screen cause im 2 scared to talk on the phone...


It takes the pressure off her though as well. You are letting her know you are interested but not being pushy about it. Honestly, I think you are worrying too much about what she is going to think rather than just doing what comes natural to you. Just be yourself. If that means waiting a few days to call, then wait. If shes really into you, it wont matter.

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Mon 01/21/08 09:38 PM
You know, rather than waiting a few days to call, maybe drop an email or message on here (if thats where you are "meeting" her) later that night or the next day to let her know that you had a nice time and would like to meet again. It takes the pressure off calling and puts the ball in her court while letting her know you are interested.

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Mon 01/21/08 09:30 PM


why are they so into me that night???????????????

i just dont get it....


girls can fake their interest to be nice.
sorry.


sad but true as well

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Mon 01/21/08 09:28 PM
Its easy to get caught up in the moment and have fun but when you have time to reflect on it, sometimes you see those red flags later.

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Mon 01/21/08 09:27 PM
Where's our dinner? lol

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Mon 01/21/08 09:26 PM

yes like the mysterious picture. too much mystery = red flag.




Exactly!

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Mon 01/21/08 09:24 PM



I GO OUT ON DATES, AND THEY GO REALLY WELL....BUT THEN WHEN I CALL THEM BACK IN A FEW DAYS THEY DONT RETURN MY CALL....WHATS GOIN ON HERE??????? HELP!!


First off stop yelling :wink:

What are your convos about? Do you get into her, or just talk about your self? This is HUGE.

And show interest straight up. I LOVE being pursued as long as it's not suffocating. smokin



convos are about both of us but i dont reveal 2much about myself...i like mystery.


That might be part of the problem. If I meet a guy and he doesnt reveal much about himself, it kinda makes me wonder if he's trying to hide something or that he wont be good at having a conversation with down the road maybe.