WOW YOU ARE ONE BRAVE GIRL!!!
DO YOU REALIZE HOW MANY CRAZY PEOPLE YOU MIGHT BRING IN?
PLEASE THINK ABOUT THIS!
YOU HAVE YOUR PHONE NUMBER UP AND YOU ARE JUST ASKING FOR TROUBLE.
ALL I CAN SAY IS THAT I PRAY FOR YOUR SAFETY!!!

I live in Bremen, Indiana
Snowing right now and it is 26 degrees and the wind is blowing like crazy.
We are under Lake Effect Snow Advisory, suppose to get hit hard!!
I hope it waits so everyone gets safely to their Thanksgiving spot.
Safe travels to all.

I think love is better BECAUSE when you love someone you can always work on the sex part together. I think the more your in love with someone the better the sex is with your partner..I don't know if its because you become comfortable with this person or because your so much IN love with them that sex is just part of things.
Anyone can have sex but when you are IN love with someone...it is so much better. You know your partner and he knows you, it is like you don't even have to say a word..you just know. Sex is sex and you can have sex with anyone and you don't have to have any type of feelings what so ever...so I pick Love any day of the week!!!

I have made a few friends that are really amazing. We send emails back and forth and keep up with each others lives and over the time we have talked..I know that I can talk to them about anything.
There really are some truly amazing people on here. I hope to meet them in person one day and let them know that they were always there for me in the good times and bad.

THANK YOU...IT IS GOOD TO KNOW THAT I AM NOT THE ONLY ONE THAT FEELS THIS WAY!!

No matter what you post, you are going to see someone post and think..wow she really is a bytch. I know this is your post and some things that I have read I just thought wow I wish I was as perfect as you are!
You have people that are going to be negative and then you have people that are going to be positive. You just have some people that you can't stand...just ignore them and hopefully they will go away.
Just remember you will always have those that know everything..so just live your life and don't worry about what the perfect people on this site think of you.

I read your profile and I think it is just fine! You do not apologize for anything and that is a good thing. Be proud of who you are and IF someone can not accept you, they are not worth your time!
You have great pictures on there and you seem to be very out going, why do you think guys won't like you? You have to make the men know that they have to be worthy of you..not the other way around!!
Keep your head held high and have fun. Men love a woman with confidence so go out there and know that any man would be lucky to spend time with you!!
Good Luck

Welcome back Totage...looking fine as ever!!!

Wow I am sorry to say this but the women seem worse then the men on here. The women are like, MAN UP IT WAS JUST A ONE NIGHT STAND AND GET OVER IT. REALLY? I AM SHOCKED THAT WOMEN WOULD EVEN SAY THAT! Am I the strange one here or are he other women? I guess maybe its because I have never done the one night stand thing and I don't know if I could, I would think the women would be thinking this man is a sweetie.
If the table was turned and he was a woman and a man dumped her after saying that he wanted more..I think the women would be saying OMG DO YOU REALLY WANT AN ARSE LIKE THAT IN YOUR LIFE!! I guess that just goes to show you that their really is a double standard still going on out there!!

Very nice Lionsbrew, I listened to all of your music. You are lucky that I do not live closer...my youngest son is trying to get someone to teach him how to play, he is just beginning. My oldest son plays and actually sings also. He listens to a song and plays by ear..he won't teach his brother because he can not teach someone if they do not pick it up as fast as he does.
I have NO clue where they get their musical talent from because I can't play and I can't sing and neither can their Dad.
You really should do some more songs...my son told me with out music he wouldn't know what to do!! I guess a lot of people feel that way. Honestly, the only time I really listen to music is when I am in the car.
BUT I did enjoy the music...don't give it up if you love playing!!

I DON'T THINK HE THOUGHT IT WAS GOING TO BE A ONE NIGHT STAND THOUGH...I THINK HE THOUGHT IT WAS GOING TO BE A RELATIONSHIP?

DOES HE SAY HOW LONG THEY WERE TOGETHER THOUGH? YOU ARE JUST ASSUMING IT WAS A SHORT TIME...IS THAT FAIR?? WHAT IF HE WAS A FEMALE, I DON'T THINK YOU WOULD HAVE RESPONDED THE SAME WAY!!

No offense to the men here but it is nice to see a man that wants more then just a one night stand. I say shame on you to the lady that didn't say hey lets just have fun and NSA and that is it.


What if he didn't know it was going to be just a one night stand?? Did he agree to that? Or did he think it was going to be more? The way I read it, I think he thought it was going to be???

You are not dumb you are just trusting. It is hard after a divorce to get back into the dating thing and let your guard down.
I think what you need is a girl's night out and just let your hair down. Go out and have fun and have a night where you don't even think about men!!

I would never say anything on this site esp in open forum. I think that would hurt anyone.
One thing that does bother me but I never say anything is when people type like they are texting and only use one letter for a word, now that drives me crazy!!!

LOL I am just sitting here laughing thinking what in the world do I say to this. HMM I don't think you would switch sides unless you already had that urge in your mind any way?
I am sure that there are lots of us that have not had a date for a long time, me included, and I have never thought about switching sides if I don't end up getting a date soon. I just think, wow I feel sorry for the first guy I get a hold of. I have not dated for over 4 years and I am still breathing...and I am not a lesbian yet!!

How old are they? IF they keep dumping it, I would NOT spend my hard earned money to buy it. That is something they do not have to have, that is something they want. So they are the ones that are messing up not you!!!

Actually my Dad married a lady 19 years younger. They were married for almost 20 years and then he had a major head trauma accident. I truly believe that if he did not have that accident, they still would have been married until he passed away. They actually did have a wonderful marriage and got a long great!!!
She is not very much older then I am, so she was more like a sister then a step-mom. If I needed something I would go to her and she would always talk my Dad into anything I wanted! My Dad was so easy going and he always gave in to us.

Nope I just tell it like it is!!!

OLD WOMEN? DO YOU REALLY THINK THAT OLDER WOMEN LIKE YOUNGER MEN BECAUSE THEY THINK IT MAKES THEM LOOK YOUNGER? I THINK YOU NEED TO TAKE A CLASS ON HOW WOMEN THINK BECAUSE YOU ARE WAY OFF.
WHY DO YOU CALL THEM "AUNTIES?" HERE IN AMERICA AN AUNTIE MUST BE SOMETHING DIFFERENT BECAUSE I AM AN AUNT AND I LOVE ALL MY NEPHEWS BUT NOT IN THE WAY YOU ARE SUGGESTING. GOOGLE WHAT AN AUNT IS!!!
I LOVE GOOGLE!!