so i guess you wouldn't be offended

I'm not faulting anyone but myself. The fault on other people is not many tell me where I went wrong or what I did, but I'm confident I did something...this is the pattern.

And more often than not I have. Which leads to my assumption that I am not able to sustain a relationship because of who I am, and honestly due to lack of communication that is becoming more and more of a conclusion.

I expect nothing, I just want to have a good time with whoever I may be out with. But this doesn't stop someone else from expecting perfection where perfection simply cannot and will not exist, nothing is perfect in life except what you make perfect. Herein lies the issue, my thought of perfections is simply chaotic and not shared by many people. This doesn't stop someone else from bending themselves to try and meet whatever standard they have already set for me, I don't have standards I personally don't care for them. This does not stop others from already pre-concieving that there is standards there already though, and this creates a rift when they come across as what they "think" I want instead of who they really are.

I'm me, and not many people like who I am, doesn't inheritantly bother me but does make finding someone an extremely difficult trek. So I decided I'm not dating anymore, I'm finding me, who I am and not who I could be or who I could have been.

See, that is the way I see dating. However now we have people running around with a book full of "red flags" inevitably leading the date to disaster, mainly because it is difficult anymore not to hit one of these meager excuses for "red flags". Can't do this, can't do that, stay away from this, stay away from that, and the list goes on and on and on.

That is the fundemental issue with dating anymore, it is damn near close to walking through a minefield and hoping you don't step on the switch.

I've taken the chance for all the good it has brought me, I've even walked the minefield of "red flags", again, for all the good it brought me. I'm me, that isn't changing, it seems most want this "shining prince of valour" or that person that will walk on fire for you...I am not that person, I won't walk on fire to please you, I will not risk myself in order to please you for any reason until I know without a shadow of doubt it will be worth it.

What would you think if someone told you they were "Incapable of loving someone else"?

not all people are tech geeks (thank god). we don't have the technology to post pics. be seeing you

Mace, protective orders, etc. are usually good signs.

I have al different kinds of love for all kinds of people.. my mother, my friends, my dogs.. yes love..

even though I love him, after hearing that, I feel a little better oddly.. he was so mean to me today 'i dont care if u "f*ck half of Texas". What mixed messages! Hes being so mean.

On a scale from 1 to 10, 1 being non existent and 10 being mind blowing; how would you rate your love life?

I'm going to butter your biscuits

The Government should clone you and issue one to any man that could handle it. be seeing you