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Mon 06/30/14 06:02 PM

Sex addiction is a common misconception. Sex addicts, in other words, are not simply people who crave lots of sex. Instead, they have underlying problems -- stress, anxiety, depression, shame -- that drive their often risky sexual behavior.
Experts prefer the term "hypersexual disorder," rather than "sex addiction." By either name, it's about people who keep engaging in sexual behaviors that are damaging them and/or their families.
As examples men who spend half their income on prostitutes, and office workers who surf the web for porn despite warnings that they'll lose their job if they keep it up. They can't stop what they're doing. They're preoccupied; their brain just keeps going back to it. It often leads to loneliness and isolation.
There are no reliable estimates of how many people have the disorder. Some studies suggest that it's more common in men, and gay men in particular, than women. Those people are going to seek medical help.



This ^^^ and adding. There is a difference between someone that has a high sex drive and the addict . Although it's normal to enjoy sex to deal with different moods it becomes a issue when it's the main go to for the addict to soothe himself . Like other addictions it's an avoidance of dealing with their issues. No matter how much you love sex you will feel the detachment of that sort of partner.

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Mon 06/30/14 05:47 PM
Edited by kurly_gurly on Mon 06/30/14 05:47 PM
IDK. I probably felt some sort of attraction when I met them or would not have ended up on a date. Same thing about the conversation. That's important,some people you don't have to talk to non stop to feel comfortable with quietly.

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Mon 06/30/14 05:40 PM
If it's not cold or pouring ,you damn skippy!!

Good one Pancho.:laughing:

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Mon 06/30/14 05:33 PM
Thugging the top pic for wallpaper. Love it. I have a thing for certain trees!!:heart: Leaving something though!!




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Mon 06/30/14 05:31 PM
Several young ladies in my family , have tattoos in remembrance of my Mom,their grandmother.


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Mon 06/30/14 05:03 PM
Nope, it's not about your looks.Stop doubting your self and thinking looks are all determining factor. People can give off a vibe that sends the message that they are anxious, needy, low self esteem etc... The sharks will pick up on and attack the wounded.

Plus it's not anything personal when they just want sex.They are just representing that they have nothing else about them to offer. Weed em out!


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Mon 06/30/14 04:52 PM
It does seem problematic that you are not recognizing them right off the bat. Are you new at this? Sometimes it does takes a little time online to understand that scammers do show you who they are, just don't make excuses for odd behaviors your instincts alert you to.

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Mon 06/30/14 09:50 AM
You're very welcome Astrid.flowerforyou and a picsmile2







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Mon 06/30/14 09:47 AM
Hi There Larsonwaving Thanks !!


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Sun 06/29/14 02:51 PM

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Sun 06/29/14 02:49 PM

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Sun 06/29/14 02:46 PM
Aww , what a sweet thing to say.flowerforyou There is so much access to beautiful art, it should be shared.


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Sun 06/29/14 02:32 PM


Always depends on how much time is spent dwelling on it. Yes, we have feelings. Allow yourself a certain amount of time to grieve it as needed. Keep it short and keep it moving.

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Sun 06/29/14 02:31 PM
Let's just go with today. It varies... Anyone texting and driving. I had a BF trucker once that did that. There were many times I thought he was at his end spot for the day because he was texting me. Wrong.

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Sun 06/29/14 02:27 PM
I'm really good about letting people be who they are. If they are trying to intimidate me I usually find that to mean they are mentally slow and lack skills. Often that will mean not worth ,my time or attention.

Sometimes I like to watch them hang themselves with the bad behavior.

On occasion I cheer for them if they are doing it for reason's I might agree with .

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Sun 06/29/14 02:20 PM
Hi Athena, hope your Sunday is going good!!waving


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Fri 06/27/14 04:56 PM
Yes , that dragon has it going on!! drool I put you a pic in my fairy thread too. I saw this today and really liked it...







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Fri 06/27/14 04:30 PM
Interesting spot you got! I think I could slice a water balloon or two with this!! So careful where you launch those!!:tongue:





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Fri 06/27/14 07:41 AM
Dubster!!tongue2


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Fri 06/27/14 07:35 AM
For Larson
flowerforyou




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