To the beach!

Sitka would melt if she left Alaska I'm going to Quezon end of this year or early next year..cat't wait! I've only been out of my state to see family in Chicago. Never really left my corner of the world. I'm gonna sign my own freedom papers...Django Unchained coming to the provinces! ....the white version

"We can now understand our relation to our schoolmasters. These men, not all of whom were in fact fathers themselves, became our substitute fathers. That was why, even though they were still quite young, they struck us as so mature and so unattainably adult. We transferred on to them the respect and expectations attaching to the omniscient father of our childhood, and we then began to treat them as we treated our fathers at home. We confronted them with the ambivalence that we had acquired in our own families and with its help we struggled with them as we had been in the habit of struggling with our fathers…"

The Oedipus complex, in narcissistic terms, represents that an individual can lose the ability to take a parental-substitute into his ego ideal without ambivalence. Once the individual has ambivalent relations with parental-substitutes, he will enter into the triangulating castration complex. In the castration complex the individual becomes rivalrous with parental-substitutes and this will be the point of regression. In 'Psycho-analytic notes on an autobiographical account of a case of paranoia (Dementia paranoides)' Freud writes that “disappointment over a woman” (object drives) or “a mishap in social relations with other men” (ego drives) is the cause of regression or symptom formation. Triangulation can take place with a romantic rival, for a woman, or with a work rival, for the reputation of being more potent...........Or maybe they just turn you on? Why question it? Answers sometimes ruin the beauty of the question Especially if you ask Freud....he's a real sick **** with those mother theories. It's the feet people who make me feel uneasy btw...we have a forum regular here who LOVES these threads Maybe she'll chime in

Damn straight! You tell em Siddy!

Get out while you can Farooq! You're gonna get waffle stomped like a turd in the shower by these brutes! Just so you know ...I'm the sensitive/angelic one around here... I only say nice $hit...now heed my advice mouth breather ...run!

God DAMN she's brutal! So thankful I never asked for a rating when I had my profile filled out No ****s given in these threads. NFG territory!

I wasn't being filthy ...I was referring to the sheep & the midget in a whimsical manner.....I'm misunderstood yet again

I guess only a couple of us weren't taking this literal. I think she was just being witty & not actually accepting applications for the "no reason love" position

If you guys are just separated then Isaac makes a very valid point.. execpt his last sentence, speak for yourself ...personally I'm what would be hatched from Gandalf's butt if he were molested by Merlin....A f**king prodigy!

To me this tells more about the descriptor ...not the one being described by them. The answers in this thread reveal an ungodly amount of insight into the people responding..... so many obviously inadvertent "tells"

So many questions but there are WAY more answers. Just go and get what you want with the healthiest possible balance of head & heart while being always protective & catious for those 2 little ones. Trust me, ending up with violent father figure can force a good hearted child to spend his life using their good heart to battle demons that were introduced through that father/father figure.
Remember, almost every monster will hide their face from you until they feel that control over you.
Be careful, be patient, protect your angels & hell yes the best things are possible. Believe it & you've already done the hardest part ...the believing.
All the best to you, if you deserve it, then there isn't much in your way. Don't allow yourself to see it as unattainable or even complicated.

Why can't I see pleasant things like you guys?! Every experience I had with such things were flat out 100% dark,menacing, evil $hits. I swear the strangest part is that I'm never scared. It's the hardest feeling to describe but it's how I'd imagine a person with amnesia being around close friends. You know something feels very off but there is always that faint, far away feeling as if these figures are looking at me & waiting on me to wake up & remember or realize that I was or am one of them.
Yes I know ...sounds completely stupid & ridiculous, but when I even get a hint of a possibility that someone out there , might even half way get it, or have experienced something similar, I always end up being way too honest ....

Case in point ⤴⤴⤴⤴⤴⤴⤴⤴⤴⤴⤴⤴⤴⤴⤴⤴⤴⤴⤴

See? damn humans...we don't need reasons for the $hit we do. If this thread makes it to the 9 page range, I'd place a bet it'll turn into a younger guy/cougar discussion or 20 posts resembling this " Is site on I can has find love haha"

Very true!

Fortunately we have the most complex, blood hungry, multi-layered beast ever in existence. Righ out in the open to be studied....=the human. Breed a unicorn with a dragon & their offspring would still be less fascinating than people. The reason the creatures of folk lore stay so well hidden is probably because they are terrified of us.....& I would not blame them

Very inspiring story. I really hoped the ending would have been different. Made me a little sad knowing it could have went the other direction. Just more proof that people should go all in & say to hell with the risks, if it's for someone you believe is your soulmate. Thanks for sharing. I'm sorry it didn't happen for you two.

pffft. I'd pull guard on his a$$, throw on an omaplata while snapping a high res pic of his face. The equation works like this [transitional chain Jiu Jitsu > Mythical Beasts]

Sure ...I never do anything with a reason. Why start now right?

Actually I look identical to the way I looked 16 years ago in the pics from then. I have to show my license to everyone who asks my age, as if I'd lie and add years ....its weird, maybe I'm not a white devil...maybe a vampire instead my sister is 50 and looks 30. Maybe we have some sort of Chinese/Pinoy/Korean in our tree. My father never met either of his parents & my mothers side is a big mystery too. So anything is possible I guess As for me..born in Chicago Illinois & raised in north Alabama.

I agree with Sacha Baron Cohen

I honestly thought he was mulatto People have thought I'm Mexican a few times lol & I'm 100% white devil ...I think