I really love to be with an older women!but dont know why?im 28 and i love women around 40 and 50!what is that?helpppp plz :)

i think that having an older partner is feeling safe with a grown up but it depends on how and when did you first want this

Mommy issues maybe?

"We can now understand our relation to our schoolmasters. These men, not all of whom were in fact fathers themselves, became our substitute fathers. That was why, even though they were still quite young, they struck us as so mature and so unattainably adult. We transferred on to them the respect and expectations attaching to the omniscient father of our childhood, and we then began to treat them as we treated our fathers at home. We confronted them with the ambivalence that we had acquired in our own families and with its help we struggled with them as we had been in the habit of struggling with our fathers…"

The Oedipus complex, in narcissistic terms, represents that an individual can lose the ability to take a parental-substitute into his ego ideal without ambivalence. Once the individual has ambivalent relations with parental-substitutes, he will enter into the triangulating castration complex. In the castration complex the individual becomes rivalrous with parental-substitutes and this will be the point of regression. In 'Psycho-analytic notes on an autobiographical account of a case of paranoia (Dementia paranoides)' Freud writes that “disappointment over a woman” (object drives) or “a mishap in social relations with other men” (ego drives) is the cause of regression or symptom formation. Triangulation can take place with a romantic rival, for a woman, or with a work rival, for the reputation of being more potent...........Or maybe they just turn you on? Why question it? Answers sometimes ruin the beauty of the question Especially if you ask Freud....he's a real sick **** with those mother theories. It's the feet people who make me feel uneasy btw...we have a forum regular here who LOVES these threads Maybe she'll chime in

IN SOME CASES THEY ARE MORE MATURE OR JUST MORE BAGGAGE....JUST AS BERNE SAID

ITS ALL

SOCIAL INTERCOURSE......