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Topic: What Is An "Interesting" Person?
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Mon 05/16/16 10:15 AM



slaphead What does "interesting" mean to you, as it pertains to the opposite sex in personality and physical attractiveness?

AND...How does one become interesting?

think what biggrin

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Mon 05/16/16 11:00 AM
What does "interesting" mean to you, as it pertains to the opposite sex in personality and physical attractiveness?

Worth pursuing interaction with to a degree requiring minimal cost or effort, where once a certain threshold of cost, effort, or curiosity sating is met resistance to fading into the background of humanity isn't fought.

How does one become interesting?

Interesting to me personally?
Or interesting in general where the "average" person would find them interesting?
Or 3rd person completely objective, universal, absolute, "interesting" to anyone or anything that can experience the idea of "interest?"

To me personally? A myriad of complex ways that would have no relevance to you taking far longer to type it all out than show you.

In general? Facial symmetry, certain body ratios, desirable outlook, breadth and depth of certain knowledge, open body language, adaptive group bonding techniques.

3rd person universal? Represent atavistic fear or desire (hope).

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Mon 05/16/16 11:44 AM
Mmmmmm to me,

an interesting person is one whom I would like to take home...

and introduce to my parents (if they were alive)...

or to the family (brothers/sisters)...

or to the kids...

and the pets...


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Mon 05/16/16 11:49 AM
Someone who would be interesting to me would be someone totally opposite of me
That someone would show me new opportunities and ideas which would bring me out of my little world...doing new things, opening my eyes and mind

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Mon 05/16/16 12:36 PM

What does "interesting" mean to you, as it pertains to the opposite sex in personality and physical attractiveness?

Worth pursuing interaction with to a degree requiring minimal cost or effort, where once a certain threshold of cost, effort, or curiosity sating is met resistance to fading into the background of humanity isn't fought.

How does one become interesting?

Interesting to me personally?
Or interesting in general where the "average" person would find them interesting?
Or 3rd person completely objective, universal, absolute, "interesting" to anyone or anything that can experience the idea of "interest?"

To me personally? A myriad of complex ways that would have no relevance to you taking far longer to type it all out than show you.

In general? Facial symmetry, certain body ratios, desirable outlook, breadth and depth of certain knowledge, open body language, adaptive group bonding techniques.

3rd person universal? Represent atavistic fear or desire (hope).


I agree and to be content in who you are and honest to your fellow man or woman

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Mon 05/16/16 12:36 PM
mmmm...I used to think that..
need an opposite but now not so sure

oh sure it sounds great
someone who is spontaneous and likes to just drop everything and have fun
but I can just imagine it now

" hey babe let's just take off down the road and see where it takes us"

" ok...but didn't you already start dinner...is the oven still on?
seems like we rolled into this drive way on gas fumes
did you bother to fill it up today? " grumble

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Mon 05/16/16 12:36 PM
Edited by TMommy on Mon 05/16/16 12:39 PM
freakin double post..


someone interesting would be someone who has seen things, been places I have not been maybe

as long as he does not sit around bragging about all this 'stuff'
otherwise I am gonna think he's a blowhard

someone who is at least as educated as I am
otherwise I am gonna want to correct his speech and spelling bigsmile

sense of humor is a MUST or uh he ain't a gonna make it with me laugh

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Mon 05/16/16 12:37 PM

Mmmmmm to me,

an interesting person is one whom I would like to take home...

and introduce to my parents (if they were alive)...

or to the family (brothers/sisters)...

or to the kids...

and the pets...




A person who is true to themselves

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Mon 05/16/16 12:39 PM

mmmm...I used to think that..
need an opposite but now not so sure

oh sure it sounds great
someone who is spontaneous and likes to just drop everything and have fun
but I can just imagine it now

" hey babe let's just take off down the road and see where it takes us"

" ok...but didn't you already start dinner...is the oven still on?
seems like we rolled into this drive way on gas fumes
did you bother to fill it up today? " grumble


We all have our own thoughts on this including women's intuitions waving

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Mon 05/16/16 01:00 PM




slaphead What does "interesting" mean to you, as it pertains to the opposite sex in personality and physical attractiveness?

AND...How does one become interesting?

think what biggrin

Ok..First physical there has to be something there comfortable in their own skin. That will always get my attention.

Now to keep my interest it has to be
Are they diverse... passionate with life.
Are they introspective as well as good at communication.

Can they have conversations that have a whole range of topics.

Do they respect themselves and others.

Do they have body languages that I can read.

What does their eyes say when we chat.

Those are the tops ones for me.


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Mon 05/16/16 01:06 PM




slaphead What does "interesting" mean to you, as it pertains to the opposite sex in personality and physical attractiveness?

AND...How does one become interesting?

think what biggrin
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An interesting person....
A person we just met or relatively new to us. Interaction with them reveals some qualities we like in them. There is some curiosity aroused in us and we seem to want to read or hear from them.....anything laugh

People become interesting because they make us laugh in secret when we think about them. We warm up to them in secret....embarassed

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Mon 05/16/16 01:27 PM


You have it pegged pretty well smile2

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Mon 05/16/16 01:29 PM

Someone who would be interesting to me would be someone totally opposite of me
That someone would show me new opportunities and ideas which would bring me out of my little world...doing new things, opening my eyes and mind



They say opposite attracts and if so you have it down pat. winking

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Mon 05/16/16 01:31 PM





slaphead What does "interesting" mean to you, as it pertains to the opposite sex in personality and physical attractiveness?

AND...How does one become interesting?

think what biggrin

Ok..First physical there has to be something there comfortable in their own skin. That will always get my attention.

Now to keep my interest it has to be
Are they diverse... passionate with life.
Are they introspective as well as good at communication.

Can they have conversations that have a whole range of topics.

Do they respect themselves and others.

Do they have body languages that I can read.

What does their eyes say when we chat.

Those are the tops ones for me.




For me it is being comfortable in your own way and to be able to have your partner feed off this allowing her to feel the same with you.smile2 smile2

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Mon 05/16/16 01:33 PM
Oh really? Thanks.
From the mouth :lips: of the horse :horse:! blushing

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Mon 05/16/16 01:40 PM
You may be an interesting person if . . .

. . . when in Rome, they do as you do.

. . . mosquitoes refuse to bite you purely out of respect.

. . . you have taught old dogs new tricks.

. . . in museums, you are allowed to touch the art.

. . . you are the life of parties that you have never attended.

. . . you once won the Tour-de-France but was disqualified for riding a unicycle.

. . . sharks have a week dedicated to you.

. . . when you meet the Pope, the Pope kisses your ring.

. . . you once ran a marathon because it was on your way.

. . . you have inside jokes with complete strangers.

. . . while in Pamplona, Spain, the bulls run with you.

. . . you once made a weeping willow laugh.

. . . you are allowed to talk about the fight club.

. . . you friends call you by name; you enemies don't call you anything because they are all dead.

. . . Dos Equis wants you to be its spokesperson.

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Mon 05/16/16 01:46 PM






slaphead What does "interesting" mean to you, as it pertains to the opposite sex in personality and physical attractiveness?

AND...How does one become interesting?

think what biggrin

Ok..First physical there has to be something there comfortable in their own skin. That will always get my attention.

Now to keep my interest it has to be
Are they diverse... passionate with life.
Are they introspective as well as good at communication.

Can they have conversations that have a whole range of topics.

Do they respect themselves and others.

Do they have body languages that I can read.

What does their eyes say when we chat.

Those are the tops ones for me.




For me it is being comfortable in your own way and to be able to have your partner feed off this allowing her to feel the same with you.smile2 smile2


Exactly... You have to feed off one another's vibes and also be able to read on another to know when down time is needed to just breathe

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Mon 05/16/16 01:58 PM

You may be an interesting person if . . .

. . . when in Rome, they do as you do.

. . . mosquitoes refuse to bite you purely out of respect.

. . . you have taught old dogs new tricks.

. . . in museums, you are allowed to touch the art.

. . . you are the life of parties that you have never attended.

. . . you once won the Tour-de-France but was disqualified for riding a unicycle.

. . . sharks have a week dedicated to you.

. . . when you meet the Pope, the Pope kisses your ring.

. . . you once ran a marathon because it was on your way.

. . . you have inside jokes with complete strangers.

. . . while in Pamplona, Spain, the bulls run with you.

. . . you once made a weeping willow laugh.

. . . you are allowed to talk about the fight club.

. . . you friends call you by name; you enemies don't call you anything because they are all dead.

. . . Dos Equis wants you to be its spokesperson.



WELL DONE......:banana: :banana:

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Mon 05/16/16 01:59 PM







slaphead What does "interesting" mean to you, as it pertains to the opposite sex in personality and physical attractiveness?

AND...How does one become interesting?

think what biggrin

Ok..First physical there has to be something there comfortable in their own skin. That will always get my attention.

Now to keep my interest it has to be
Are they diverse... passionate with life.
Are they introspective as well as good at communication.

Can they have conversations that have a whole range of topics.

Do they respect themselves and others.

Do they have body languages that I can read.

What does their eyes say when we chat.

Those are the tops ones for me.




For me it is being comfortable in your own way and to be able to have your partner feed off this allowing her to feel the same with you.smile2 smile2


Exactly... You have to feed off one another's vibes and also be able to read on another to know when down time is needed to just breathe



You have got it!!!!!!!

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Mon 05/16/16 02:47 PM
Interesting...hmm..well read, well traveled, experienced in the ways of the world and contemplating a fourth marriage !!

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