"I, I, I, me, me, my, I"

That's not poking holes in any theory, that's offering up one exception. I do appreciate your candor in doing so though, it was the best so far. I like that you weren't hateful about it.

On the other hand, do you know how many girls I've dated that when I meet them at the bar they talk nonstop about all the things that they do so frequently and blablabla. Yap your ear off about it for hours and then you come to find out that the thing they talk so much about hasn't even been high on their interest list in years and they have no desire to do anything other than sit at home watching TV?

There is a lot of them and if you've not seen that kind of thing going on that's cool, but I have seen it a lot and met a lot of people. Again, I'm not trying to say that everyone's like this, the ones that are wouldn't post in this thread. At least I wouldn't think, it would actually be really nice to see someone come clean on the matter!!

Cute

Frank the TANK! Frank the TANK!

lol, sorry

Ooh, I like it girls flirt with me. I might have ta scoop you up next time I'm on the road.

Good luck with that.

Welcome to mingle,

I like the profile, good luck!

Sorry, didn't notice that was your first post, welcome to Mingle2.

I'm the jerk that all women hate, you'll see them yelling at me from time to time.

Depending on your definition of love it might be all in your head.


But seriously, I assume you mean that you're looking for a guy that wants more than sex. You have two options the way I see it.

1. Find a geeky guy that you can walk all over and direct.
2. Find a guy that is fed up with women and quick to throw a couple harsh words and instead of taking it personally, try to see his point.

You just want someone who cares, I'm not going to speak for all of us but a lot of the guys who are looking for a lasting relationship just want someone to listen and try to understand us once in a while instead of fighting us all the time.

I don't know where you fall in all of this, I have no idea who you are or anything about the people you have dated, but if you are looking for a nice guy, the well dressed guy at the fanciest club in town is NOT your best bet. I know a lot of them and 99.5% of them only care about one thing, no matter what they tell you to your face.

Best places are coffee shops, museums, or wherever you find us alone in a non-threatning environment. Myself I'm often out on my own by myself thinking, drawing, writing, typing or whatever. Find that guy and just walk up and say hi. He might be a little shy (which is a good sign for you) so don't force him to say something inspiring, just ask if he minds you sitting with him. Easy Schmeazy.

Man I wish I would have been born a female. Y'all got it too easy.

If you can find a category that I will fit in I'm more than happy to hear about it, I could always use more friends, but you might wanna check out the profile first.

anytime.

You wanna ride, just stop on by shoes, but you're not allowed to touch the door, the radio, the A/C, pretty much anything (on the car) except the seat and the seatbelt

Anything else is free game.

Alright I nudged you, perv the crap out of me

Nissan 350

Because I don't want your grubby fingerprints on my paintjob.



Nobody touches the Z but me!

You should put that on your profile. I probably need to adjust mine too to say that I have 2 true loves in this life and they will always come first: My 350Z and my AXE(Laguna).

The kids need to be raised, so I would say that that should come first definitely.

And Billy and I get told that we generalize too much. Course with all the single moms out there, might be something to that understanding issue. Personally I don't think 50% of the people in the US who have kids know how to take care of them. (men and women)

I'm too honest to be an outstanding citizen, I'm just here to make forum people angry.

Hey ther, hows life in Texas, sunny and sandy I hope.

ex-zachary, Finally someone gets the point.

The real problem with this thread is that you try to start a discussion about a general topic or an anomoly that was noticed and try to dissect it and understand it, and instead of trying to understand a few people come in and want to talk about themselves and their own profile instead of seeing the bigger picture.

Secondly, if you don't want to see the bigger picture, why would you specifically walk in and start posting on a thread that isn't meant for you discusstion?? I've counted 4 people so far who really get the message of this post, included the OP (me). And so far, none of them are the women that came in here to rant.

What people generally don't understand is that everybody knows that there are exceptions to generalizations. I didn't say that every listing where someone claimed to like camping was a lie. I said that generally (90% or better) you see listings that say this kind of stuff, like "I like the outdoors" and in reality, generally about 30% of people actually live up to their "love" of the outdoors and the others don't. The difference between what people say about themselves and who they really are is twisted in our society because nobody likes to face the reality of who they are.

There was one guy or two in this thread (as well as the women who did it) that immediately resorted to talking about themselves instead of talking about the topic. There is something to be learned from that. I said in the beginning that this was not an attack on anyone in particular. I don't attack, I don't even care when I'm looking at the big picture.

There are others who love to attack and make little snide comments like "these guys will be posting about 'why am I single?'" that warrent direct responsed like "I know exactly why I'm single, because I keep turning noisy chicks out." and it gets us nowhere with the discussion, but it does rack up the pages.

Personally, I like to see all the people that get defensive about threads and post confrontational things about the opposite sex specifically to do harm to their egos. I know that's the kind of people I want to stay away from. If you are making generalizations and everyone knows that there are exceptions, then there is no reason to get upset about what the generalization is and posting the cli'che "there are exceptions for every rule" comment that everyone else in the room is well aware of and the comment is completely unneccessary.

Ever study psychology? Usually when you get offended very easily by a generalized comment its because you fit some part of that profile and your ego wont let your subconscious admit it to the conscious part of your brain (brain/mind/spirit or whatever you believe in).

***note, this is another generalization and there are exceptions, but not as many are true as are claimed, as in all cases of exceptions***

Instead of getting defensive, why don't you hostiles look through some listings on here. Not alot, say 10 or 15, then come back and comment something constructive about similarities you noticed between the threads? That would make for a healthier discussion than just taking everything to heart and being a crybaby.

^--again, didn't mean that as an attack on any one person, just sayin.