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Fri 01/02/09 02:50 PM
Age is only a number in relation to time. :wink:

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Fri 01/02/09 02:47 PM

I totally agree with Fetts.

For goodness sake, I know you're hurt hon, but stereotyping is a dangerous place to be. In fact the dictionary defines stereotyping as ignorance.

I know tons of great guys and even tho I've been burned a time or two I KNOW men rock (for the most part :tongue: ) ..

Sounds like your 'friend' wasn't much of a friend either if she took your guy up on dating .. that's a female code of ethics your 'friend' broke .. so I'd put as much on this friend of yours as the loser guy who did what he did.




Thank you! flowerforyou

*High Five*

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Fri 01/02/09 01:19 PM


I haven't been here long, but everyone has made me feel like a regular... you kids rock. :banana:



oops Did he just call us KIDS?????????noway noway noway bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile




I LOVE YOU DUDE! :laughing:


Compared to me there's alot of kids here LMAO bigsmile

And yes, you kids rock! smokin

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Fri 01/02/09 12:19 PM
*Peeks in* bigsmile

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Fri 01/02/09 12:18 PM
I haven't been here long, but everyone has made me feel like a regular... you kids rock. :banana:

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Thu 01/01/09 08:08 PM


Lex, I think you are on to something. Nobody takes thing at face value anymore. I would like to know what some of these ladies are looking for with out the "try to figure out what I'm saying game" . Why does that need to be the way it is done. Not all are that way but it happens a lot.


Well, it's pretty much an epidemic.

Most people are so afraid of being perceived as "shallow" that they refuse to say anything other than the standard boilerplate PC drivel about "looks don't matter" and "what's important is on the inside" and "I just want someone decent."

But if any of that was actually true, we would be having matches all over the place here.

The reason we don't is because the people making these claims are being totally disingenuous. They really DON'T want someone without the looks, money, status, whatever, but it just isn't acceptable to say that -- so they pretend that they adhere to the PC agenda, but they don't talk to anybody except the ones who appeal to the covert "shallow" side of them.

It's really just a failure on the part of some to be honest -- with themselves and with others.




I found the woman of my dreams, and all I had on my profile was "I'm just taking a look around, seeing what it's all about"

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Thu 01/01/09 08:00 PM
Dude, have patience... and never EVER start a thread titled "desparately seeking". Just be yourself, have fun, and you will find her or she will find you. It worked for me, and if I can pull it off, anyone can. Trust me on that one. :wink:

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Thu 01/01/09 07:51 PM

like...


Sending that first email...smitten

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Thu 01/01/09 07:49 PM



I just watched today the youtube vid --robin and lisa-- it definately gives me hope that love and understanding is out there!


I missed that...where is it?

Robin and Lisa are truly a love story!


got the link http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mqcl7krCECc


I'm gonna be making a video like that soon smitten

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Thu 01/01/09 07:33 PM

you guys give me hope! I always believed long distance could work! but after my relationship ended I figured I was just being too much of a romantic! Im so happy to here ppl who think like me


You have to be willing to make it work. You have to be willing to compromise. And to be honest, being a few miles apart leaves no choice but to take the time to get to know each other, learn about each other, and all that. After our first chat until the wee hours of the morning, we knew, but we also discussed the distance thing and how to make it work. I just spent the afternoon today with an atlas and Mapquest and an ink pen trying to figure how I'm going to get there. LOL

Communication is a big factor in making it work.

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Thu 01/01/09 07:22 PM



Yes, a very happy ending. I didn't even think I'd get a reply, and she turned out to be "the one". And miles means nothing if it's the real thing.

It's out there, as long as you don't give up.


Thank you! Thank you! for saying the miles don't have to be an issue, if ya want it, you'll make it work.


No amount of miles should stand in the way of love.

I drive race cars... a 12 hour drive in a regular car I can do standing on my head. LOL

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Thu 01/01/09 07:17 PM




After several tries on several sites as well as the real world, I finally found the one for me when I really wasn't even looking. I almost didn't even send that first message because I thought there was no way in hell she would give me the time of day. I'm damn glad I did now. smitten

If I can find it, trust me it's out there for everyone.


Ya know, I was wondering about this too...if we don't write to folks because we think we already know they won't give us the time of day or are out of our league?


I had a couple emails completely ignored. But the way I look at it, if they are the type of person to just pass judgement and turn their nose up without even knonwing me, they aren't the type of person I'd be looking for anyway. But I didn't give up, and now I am one happy camper. smitten


Yeah...a happy ending! Good for you!! flowerforyou


Thank you.

Yes, a very happy ending. I didn't even think I'd get a reply, and she turned out to be "the one". And miles means nothing if it's the real thing.

It's out there, as long as you don't give up.

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Thu 01/01/09 07:13 PM




If you were stuck on an island with Ginger and Mary Ann, would you fix the friggin boat? huh
i heard they only put out to each other they never like men haha


I am not gonna say anything, I am not gonna say anything, I am not gonna say anything. pitchfork
dont use that on me please lol they liked men tongue2


No No No, I wasn't going to say anything about wanting to watch. LOL pitchfork

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Thu 01/01/09 07:11 PM


After several tries on several sites as well as the real world, I finally found the one for me when I really wasn't even looking. I almost didn't even send that first message because I thought there was no way in hell she would give me the time of day. I'm damn glad I did now. smitten

If I can find it, trust me it's out there for everyone.


Ya know, I was wondering about this too...if we don't write to folks because we think we already know they won't give us the time of day or are out of our league?


I had a couple emails completely ignored. But the way I look at it, if they are the type of person to just pass judgement and turn their nose up without even knonwing me, they aren't the type of person I'd be looking for anyway. But I didn't give up, and now I am one happy camper. smitten

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Thu 01/01/09 06:59 PM
After several tries on several sites as well as the real world, I finally found the one for me when I really wasn't even looking. I almost didn't even send that first message because I thought there was no way in hell she would give me the time of day. I'm damn glad I did now. smitten

If I can find it, trust me it's out there for everyone.

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Thu 01/01/09 06:45 PM
Mine has every trait I want and then some. smitten

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Thu 01/01/09 06:43 PM

I don't think all men are pigs nor will all men do what he did.. It's not fair to generalize/stereotype over a few bad eggs.. Maybe you need to reflect on the type of men your you're picking and see if there's a pattern and then break it....

Good luck!


Thank you.

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Thu 01/01/09 06:40 PM


If you were stuck on an island with Ginger and Mary Ann, would you fix the friggin boat? huh
i heard they only put out to each other they never like men haha


I am not gonna say anything, I am not gonna say anything, I am not gonna say anything. pitchfork

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Thu 01/01/09 06:35 PM

good lol, i love naps, the only bad thing is the day goes so fast!!!!


Well I had nothing else to do today LOL laugh

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Thu 01/01/09 06:30 PM


If a chicken and a half laid an egg and a half in a day and a half, how long would it take for a monkey with a wooden leg to kick the seeds out of a pickle?

About as long as it would take for a woodpecker with a wooden beak to shingle a chithouse roof with a potato peeler.

So there. noway
rofl Make's sense to me!


LOL it's simple logic bigsmile

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