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...a partner!
Ladies, I am really frustrated with the way some of you claim to be single and searching for that nice guy, but when a nice guy try and approach you you rebel |
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...a partner! Ladies, I am really frustrated with the way some of you claim to be single and searching for that nice guy, but when a nice guy try and approach you you rebel TO FAR FROM ME |
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a nice guy thread........you really shouldnt have!!!!
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Edited by
Unknow
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Thu 01/01/09 11:54 AM
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You've been on this site a week and you're frustrated already? I'm thinking patience, networking, and developing friendships are not your strong suits.... Just a guess
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Sorry guy but think your profile is killing your chances. I have read some of your posts and you seem like a relative nice guy and smart so might want to think how a WOMAN would percieve your profile. Good Luck.
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You've been on this site a week and you're frustrated already? I'm thinking patience, networking, and developing friendships are not your strong suits.... Just a guess whatever happen to just asking someone on a date and they say yes....I guess now you have to network, submit a request, and wait for approval from the IRS? |
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After two years of pseudo-intensive research, I have determined that most of the women here are actually using some sort of arcane code in their posts and profiles. What you think you are reading is NOT what they are actually saying.
For example, "I am looking for a nice guy who is caring and supportive and has the same interests I have" actually means "I am looking for a violent drunken loser with a broken down 1976 Buick Skyhawk and no job but it's OK as long as he's rich and looks exactly like Johnny Depp." Yes, I have broken the code. |
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After two years of pseudo-intensive research, I have determined that most of the women here are actually using some sort of arcane code in their posts and profiles. What you think you are reading is NOT what they are actually saying. For example, "I am looking for a nice guy who is caring and supportive and has the same interests I have" actually means "I am looking for a violent drunken loser with a broken down 1976 Buick Skyhawk and no job but it's OK as long as he's rich and looks exactly like Johnny Depp." Yes, I have broken the code. very good that sounds about right |
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You've been on this site a week and you're frustrated already? I'm thinking patience, networking, and developing friendships are not your strong suits.... Just a guess whatever happen to just asking someone on a date and they say yes....I guess now you have to network, submit a request, and wait for approval from the IRS? Nooooooo..... take a look at the name of the site. Might be worth a try is all I'm saying. Perhaps the women you are interested in want to get to know you JUST A LITTLE before they agree to go out. But hey, I'm probably being silly. |
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I like your profile...
I think you're hot... the religion thing is the dealbreaker for me that and the distance if you're wanting that date RIGHT NOW... |
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Edited by
s1owhand
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Thu 01/01/09 12:16 PM
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it might be the "desperation"...
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I like your profile... I think you're hot... the religion thing is the dealbreaker for me that and the distance if you're wanting that date RIGHT NOW... yeah I am not surprised, because it is always something! |
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it might be the "desperation"... Nah, desperation is such an attractive trait |
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Lex, I think you are on to something. Nobody takes thing at face value anymore. I would like to know what some of these ladies are looking for with out the "try to figure out what I'm saying game" . Why does that need to be the way it is done. Not all are that way but it happens a lot.
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Just proclaiming to be a nice person and asking someone out really isn't going to work for many women or guys nowadays. Face it, I'm sure almost everyone on here has some baggage... and are not as trusting anymore. You need to develop friendships and prove that you really are who you say you are. Nobody wants to go down the road they have already been down before and it didn't work. The baggage compartment can only hold so much. No one is looking to add more.
Patience is probably the key...take the time to make friends and get to know people... |
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After two years of pseudo-intensive research, I have determined that most of the women here are actually using some sort of arcane code in their posts and profiles. What you think you are reading is NOT what they are actually saying. For example, "I am looking for a nice guy who is caring and supportive and has the same interests I have" actually means "I am looking for a violent drunken loser with a broken down 1976 Buick Skyhawk and no job but it's OK as long as he's rich and looks exactly like Johnny Depp." Yes, I have broken the code. I guess that's the reason I chose to write NOTHING in my profile! (Most men don't read them anyway... and if they do, they don't pay attention to what is said.) |
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Just proclaiming to be a nice person and asking someone out really isn't going to work for many women or guys nowadays. Face it, I'm sure almost everyone on here has some baggage... and are not as trusting anymore. You need to develop friendships and prove that you really are who you say you are. Nobody wants to go down the road they have already been down before and it didn't work. The baggage compartment can only hold so much. No one is looking to add more. Patience is probably the key...take the time to make friends and get to know people... I am giving up on the whole dating thing for a while, no baggage, no drama! |
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Just proclaiming to be a nice person and asking someone out really isn't going to work for many women or guys nowadays. Face it, I'm sure almost everyone on here has some baggage... and are not as trusting anymore. You need to develop friendships and prove that you really are who you say you are. Nobody wants to go down the road they have already been down before and it didn't work. The baggage compartment can only hold so much. No one is looking to add more. Patience is probably the key...take the time to make friends and get to know people... I am giving up on the whole dating thing for a while, no baggage, no drama! Usually the ones who have to say they have no drama have the most. Try being a little more patient and get to know some people. |
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