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Tue 01/13/09 09:02 AM
Proceed with caution: Everyone has issues.

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Tue 01/13/09 08:55 AM
Ava

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Tue 01/13/09 08:28 AM





:smile: What is the most unusual circumstance that you met a person and ended up becoming great friends?:smile:


Back before i was married, desperate, lonely and unspiritual. I once had a date and we went back to my place and the date lasted for 3 1/2 weekslaugh :tongue: rofl rofl
bigsmile wowbigsmile


Yeah I know it was a wow moment. Especially when i woke up and thought {what the hell am I doing?}

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Tue 01/13/09 08:26 AM
Oh and your a slob

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Tue 01/13/09 08:25 AM

:smile: What is one thing you would never say to your significant others face?:smile:


You should do your make-up different. It's to heavy in places and it doesn't blend well.laugh laugh

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Tue 01/13/09 08:22 AM
Harry Carey

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Tue 01/13/09 08:19 AM



:smile: What is the most unusual circumstance that you met a person and ended up becoming great friends?:smile:


Back before i was married, desperate, lonely and unspiritual. I once had a date and we went back to my place and the date lasted for 3 1/2 weekslaugh :tongue: rofl rofl

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Tue 01/13/09 08:12 AM
Mexico, Indianalaugh laugh laugh rofl rofl

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Tue 01/13/09 08:10 AM
Walter Cronkite

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Tue 01/13/09 07:54 AM

Now I'm not usually a huge fan of text messaging, but lately I've gotten quite a few really good ones. I mean REALLY good.

My limit is fast approaching and I have deleted so many that I'd like to have kept longer. How do you decide what to keep and what to delete?


If you must keep them, and you have unlimited text than forward them to your e-mail address.:smile: :wink:

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Mon 01/12/09 10:40 PM


brokenheart Have you ever regreted meeting someone who broke your heart?brokenheart


No, there is always so much to learn from heartbreak and pain, about yourself and relationships. You learn to pull positive from it.

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Mon 01/12/09 10:18 AM
"There is no deep personal and emotional gain, without deep personal and emotional loss" ~Dave H.~

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Mon 01/12/09 10:15 AM

I have only three co-workers and they stay away from my office, as it is the gatekeeper location to my bosses office! laugh


OH! That is a nice setup. To get to them they must come to you . Beautiful!

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Mon 01/12/09 08:55 AM
Are there not enough unmarried or uncommitted out there that people have to find someone who is married or committed? I have a lot to say about this topic, so I'm done. I'm glad my situation and pain is over. I feel so sorry for those who are going through it now.

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Mon 01/12/09 08:39 AM

No way. The ramifications, the loss, the betrayal, the hatred. Especially if there are kids involved. When it's all over the positive from it is what's been learned. The 2 that are having the affair are obviously blind to any consequences of the lustful feeling. Normaly affairs are a sexual encounter or attraction. They have to walk through that unknowingly hurting themselves in the longrun. Most of the time it doesn't last anyway. They are in an affair because their marriage wasn't/isn't healthy and that person is acting on lonliness, which can be misunderstood for the affair feeling healthy or person of their dreams. They are blind to the long term ramifications of it all. I feel sorry for them for what they don't know. There is so much more as well. Affairs hurt more than just the two or 3 invovled. Kids many times are involved and that is the hardest part to look at.
Why find someone that is married. If he/she has 1 affair there will be more. How can anyone have an affair with someone and trust them? OH and the vows you take in marriage aren't just for the 2 in the marriage. There's a spiritual commitment if that's the way you believe and that is the biggest downfall.

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Mon 01/12/09 08:17 AM
Edited by dbh1966 on Mon 01/12/09 08:33 AM
No way. The ramifications, the loss, the betrayal, the hatred. Especially if there are kids involved. When it's all over the positive from it is what's been learned. The 2 that are having the affair are obviously blind to any consequences of the lustful feeling. Normaly affairs are a sexual encounter or attraction. They have to walk through that unknowingly hurting themselves in the longrun. Most of the time it doesn't last anyway. They are in an affair because their marriage wasn't/isn't healthy and that person is acting on lonliness, which can be misunderstood for the affair feeling healthy or person of their dreams. They are blind to the long term ramifications of it all. I feel sorry for them for what they don't know. There is so much more as well. Affairs hurt more than just the two or 3 invovled. Kids many times are involved and that is the hardest part to look at.
Why find someone that is married. If he/she has 1 affair there will be more. How can anyone have an affair with someone and trust them? OH and the vows you take in marriage aren't just for the 2 in the marriage. There's a spiritual commitment if that's the way you believe and that is the biggest downfall.

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Sun 01/11/09 07:46 AM
Affirmation, gifts, acts of service, quality time and physical touch. These are the five languages of love.

For the women: Which of these do you prefer? Sure you like them all but your top 3. Which of these do you recieve?

For the men: Which of these do you do? Which of these have you recieved? (your top 3)


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Sun 01/11/09 07:17 AM
Thank you for my eternity token in my casket.

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Sun 01/11/09 07:14 AM

Self-will not to debate about him but to worship him.


Well Im using my self will to debate about him.


Well you do have a choice.:smile:
I wake up every morning having the knowledge that I have a choice today. My choices are my consequences. God... may they be healthy ones.:smile: :smile:

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Sun 01/11/09 06:56 AM
Honestly Im grateful God gave me self-will. Self-will not to debate about him but to worship him. Self-will in knowing I have a choice today to go and argue about my beliefs or to go out and practice my belief. Self-will not to want to control, and to let people believe what they want to believe and live my life for what I know to be right. Let go and let God. Have a blessed day.