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Wed 01/14/09 10:56 AM



and women leary of hearing I love you. Or do you like it....thoughts please...


I haven't read all of this but here is my take.

Sometimes we don't say it because we have been hurt and don't want the rejection or confrontation of it not being said back. Some are scared it takes it to a different level that they are not ready for. Some are just not done dating or playing around.




So then you won't say it as not to be hurt....then when your truly feeling it and that person dies.....and you never said it...and now have to live with that fact. I think what the heck sometimes.....say it if you mean it, don't worry about the rejection because then you will always have that wall up and that would suck. I think to to to many people have walls up....Life is life live it with all the bad, good or indifferent. Even for me with my friends I don't hold back anything...whether it be saying I love you or telling them to get off their high horse....because all of it comes from a place of Love....




I guess I was just really talking about fairly new relationships who haven't taken it to that level of I love you yet. In a healthy relationship it should be said, yes

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Wed 01/14/09 10:46 AM
romance, conversation, quality time, affirmation, gifts,

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Wed 01/14/09 10:41 AM



Don't date alcoholics


Don't date active alcoholics

Dont date active or inactive alcos


I would like to believe that people do change. I also believe that we don't have to marry a recovering alcohlic...just a date. I never know a purpose of mtg someone but there might be something for me to learn if I'm open-minded. Maybe I'm too much that the glass is half full.

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Wed 01/14/09 10:33 AM

and women leary of hearing I love you. Or do you like it....thoughts please...


I haven't read all of this but here is my take.

Sometimes we don't say it because we have been hurt and don't want the rejection or confrontation of it not being said back. Some are scared it takes it to a different level that they are not ready for. Some are just not done dating or playing around.

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Wed 01/14/09 10:28 AM

Don't date alcoholics


Don't date active alcoholics

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Wed 01/14/09 10:23 AM
That nothing not evern marriage lasts forever unless both parties WORK at it.

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Wed 01/14/09 10:21 AM

If love is blind, how come lingerie is so popular?


:banana: :banana: :laughing: :laughing:

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Wed 01/14/09 10:19 AM

I would never think a healthy relationship would be blind. But that is my point...someone could think that it's good and then when you take it apart for what it really is....they can't be blind to what it is...But they still will make excuses so as not to loose the relationship...then they ponder and think and think and ponder and then have a light bulb moment...like an alcoholic hitting rock bottom....and then say to themself, "self how could I be so blind."


We often don't realize the chains until they are around us

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Wed 01/14/09 10:04 AM
May I add that a healthy relationship isn't blind

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Wed 01/14/09 10:02 AM
I believe at times we think with our desires not our needs or what's good for us.

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Wed 01/14/09 09:59 AM
No but you can be stupid in love or lust.

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Wed 01/14/09 09:57 AM
I turn it over and look through the little fat window.:smile:

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Wed 01/14/09 09:47 AM
happiness is seeing my daughter smile.

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Wed 01/14/09 09:08 AM
Arrogance. Being unforgiving as though they make no mistakes. Those who can't admit when they are wrong.

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Wed 01/14/09 08:50 AM
laugh laugh

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Tue 01/13/09 09:52 PM
welcome

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Tue 01/13/09 09:45 PM
Cash Cab (for a game show)

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Tue 01/13/09 09:41 PM

I personally feel it should be kept out of the work place. The work place is open to all of employees and religion is a protected right to all of them.


yeah true and a good point

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Tue 01/13/09 09:36 PM


Wouldn't bother me. On another note priests are Catholic (laugh laugh I'm not Catholic but I was raised Catholic and cried til I was 3 and slept til I was 18. Got nothing out of it.) Losthuh
OK so what if you still were a practicing Catholic and your boss was ... Jewish and had a Rabbi come bless your office?


I can still believe what I want to believe.

Just depends how open-minded i am

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Tue 01/13/09 09:29 PM
Wouldn't bother me. On another note priests are Catholic (laugh laugh I'm not Catholic but I was raised Catholic and cried til I was 3 and slept til I was 18. Got nothing out of it.) Losthuh