Hey everyone, yes Im new to this site and would be intrested in hearing from some of you thats having trouble finding someone to be with. Ive gotten on 3or 4 other dating sites with very little success. Im hopeing that this might turn things around for me. Im told im not that bad looking, and that i look younger than i am .i try to be a very social person and i have a big heart and i know what i want. all of the ladys on here cant be fake.or are they all that picky? you see im a widower im not on here by choice,its not good to start to look for a mate or a lover at this stage in life. why would anyone think that by asking for nude pic. would get them a lover that would be true to them? the lady or man that would send nudes would not be a very good person at all ...these sites are to help find someone that cares i would think...so someone has to come along and fix it so everyone dosnt know who to trust. there are other sites that are for sex or what ever they are looking for..