My friends say I spend to much time taking care of everyone else and not enough time for myself. so here I am looking for a little bit of sunshine on these cold winter nights. Im a widower that lost my wife to c.o.p.d. so Im very atament about the smoking thing. I have 3 kids and 3 grandkids 10,9,3. they are fun to spoil then send back home.... Im into home repaires,general contractor,things are starting to slow down now so I will be able to give more time to looking for that that bright lite that everyone needs in there life.. I have a big heart and lots of caring to give to the right lady.OH,I didnt mention that Im a very good cook somtimes willing to try new foods to prepare,,,Thats with a little help of course.