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Mon 04/06/09 10:42 AM

I don't have a certain song, but I listen to Loretta Lynn
while cleaning.


thats called "certain song"

laugh laugh

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Mon 04/06/09 10:37 AM

Interesting that a woman can force the man to pay child support for the child even if he wants nothing to do with her or the child.
Failure to pay child support can lead to loss of any license he holds, to practice nursing, medicine, pilots license, etc.
Failure to pay can land a man in jail.
Yet he has no say in the matter.
The woman can abort the child even if he wants the child to raise either with or without the woman's continued involvement.
The father has no legal rights in the decision, yet is legally bound by decisions she alone makes.


Interesting point.

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Mon 04/06/09 10:35 AM


Cleancation.... is done every weekend (at least for me):banana:


No, I mean when you go through everything, sweep the basement and wash the toys and lawn stuff outside, take out all the extra sheets and rewash those again... reorganize the spices and iron everything you own. I don't mean just cleaning. I mean CLEANING. laugh


you meaning cleaning CLEANING

gotchalaugh

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Mon 04/06/09 10:33 AM
Edited by therapy30 on Mon 04/06/09 10:51 AM
Songs that motivate you to shape up and clean up ??

e.g

Track: I'm gonna get through this by Daniel Bedingfield

Chore: Laundry

Why: Tackling piles of dirty underwear, stained shirts and socks require courage and strength of mind. Sing I'm gonna get through this like a mantra- it will give you both.
laugh laugh

your chore ? your song ? :smile:

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Mon 04/06/09 10:23 AM
Cleancation.... is done every weekend (at least for me):banana:

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Mon 04/06/09 10:21 AM
wow girls drinker

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Mon 04/06/09 10:15 AM
Staycation....bigsmile

A staycation is a neologism in vogue, where a person or family stays home instead of taking expensive and stressful vacations to exotic locations. It is a new travel word and is very popular what with today's recession and high prices.

would you try this holiday ? :wink:

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Mon 04/06/09 07:58 AM
Lesson 3:
A man is getting into the shower just as his wife is
finishing up her shower, when the doorbell rings.

The wife quickly wraps herself in a towel and
runs downstairs.

When she opens the door, there stands Bob,
the next-door neighbour.

Before she says a word, Bob says, 'I'll give you $800
to drop that towel.'

After thinking for a moment, the woman drops
her towel and stands naked in front of Bob, after
a few seconds, Bob hands her $800 and leaves.

The woman wraps back up in the towel and
goes back upstairs.

When she gets to the bathroom, her husband
asks, 'Who was that?'

'It was Bob the next door neighbour,' she replies.

'Great,' the husband says, 'did he say anything
about the $800 he owes me?'

Moral of the story:

If you share critical information pertaining to
credit and risk with your shareholders in time,
you may be in a position to prevent avoidable exposure.

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Mon 04/06/09 05:37 AM

I'll have to remember those.. lol biggrin


There are some more to come :wink:

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Mon 04/06/09 05:21 AM
Edited by therapy30 on Mon 04/06/09 05:21 AM

laugh bigsmile laugh

Love it! I'm gonna have to apply these!:tongue:


only the moral of the story bigsmile

rest of the lessons would be delivered when the entire class is presentbigsmile

till then revise itlaugh

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Mon 04/06/09 05:16 AM
Edited by therapy30 on Mon 04/06/09 05:18 AM
Lesson 2
A turkey was chatting with a bull.

'I would love to be able to get to the top of
that tree' sighed the turkey, 'but I haven't
got the energy.'

'Well, why don't you nibble on some of my
droppings?' replied the bull. They're packed
with nutrients.'

The turkey pecked at a lump of dung, and
found it actually gave him enough strength
to reach the lowest branch of the tree.

The next day, after eating some more dung,
he reached the second branch.

Finally after a fourth night, the turkey was
proudly perched at the top of the tree..

He was promptly spotted by a farmer, who
shot him out of the tree.

Moral of the story:
Bull Sh!t might get you to the top, but it
won't keep you there..


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Mon 04/06/09 05:11 AM
Lesson 1:
A sales rep, an administration clerk, and the
manager are walking to lunch when they find
an antique oil lamp.

They rub it and a Genie comes out.

The Genie says, 'I'll give each of you just one wish.'

'Me first! Me first!' says the admin clerk. 'I want
to be in the Bahamas, driving a speedboat, without
a care in the world.'

Puff! She's gone.

'Me next! Me next!' says the sales rep.. 'I want to
be in Hawaii , relaxing on the beach with my
personal masseuse, an endless supply of Pina
Coladas and the love of my life.'

Puff! He's gone.

'OK, you're up,' the Genie says to the manager.
The manager says, 'I want those two back in the
office after lunch.'

Moral of the story:
Always let your boss have the first say.

Good morning and have a winning day:smile:


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Sun 04/05/09 12:43 PM




their GF's abortion ???

It takes both a man and a woman to make a child is because nature
knew it would take both a man and a woman to raise that child. When the man shrugs his paternal obligation, the woman is left with burden that wasn’t meant to be shouldered by one person.

What are your views friends ???


:heart: THIS issue will never have an end in this land.
And it always cause's people to fight about their thoughts.
As for me, I KNOW THIS, it will change her life forever if she kills it, or keeps it. As for the guy,,it also will always stay in his mind on their decision, and it should be a joined decision.
But clearly the women has the last word.
In my life I have never been with a lady that had that done. Nor would I ever want her to. LIFE is LIFE..and to kill ANY life for the reason that it does not fit their life-style is insane.
But conception through rape is also WRONG and that in my mind should be allowed...and adoption should be the FIRST thought if any lady doesn't want the baby,,,NOT death by her minds lack of wanting it.
OK,,here comes the fighting,wink,..
Good luck on your post..drinker


Thanks. I hope we all would keep up harmoniously here. It is quite a debatable topic, indeed. As I have mentioned "girl friend", lets rule out rape here to narrow down the responses.


Just to clarify... rape can occur between husband and wife.


Yes it can. But, I have precisely mentioned "GF". Decision to keep the child or not between husband and wife increases the horizon, I guess.

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Sun 04/05/09 12:40 PM

Well...

... when I was in my teens, I had two different girlfriends get pregnant...

one... wanted an abortion, nothing I could do about that... she had an abortion... I thought we were in love, I asked her to marry me, she didn't give a $hit... had the abortion anyways... we broke up a year or so later... looking back, she was a psychopath, and I can see how she could justify murdering an innocent... come to find out... (this was before fancy ultra-sounds and stuff)... she was going to give birth to TRIPLETS... so she killed three babies instead of one...

the other... had the child... nothing I could do about that, either... we had broke up a month beofre she knew she was pregnant... she stiill went through with the child birth... and dated some other dude while she was pregnant... they got married and he adopted the baby... nothing I could do about any of it...

in my life, the woman chose the decision was hers... I suppose if we had been married, might have been different, but that's what happened to me...

If I had to decide from my experience which choice was better on the father, I would choose the latter, at least maybe some day I will see my daughter... with the abortion, that will never be possible...

It should NOT be a political issue... I do know that... too many politicians lining their pockets at the expense of an embryo... that's just plain unethical...

we need to educate kids and help them understand birth control... instead we still live in a society of prudes that believe it is unethical to teach children about sex (howbeits when I was a kid in the '60s and '70s it was even worse...)

generally, people like to have sex once they figure out how to use their reproductive organs... it is exciting and natural... but it also has consequences, like pregnancy... which still surprise teenagers when it happens to them... nothing about that has changed... you screw around, you get pregnant... its simple biology...

hacking the kid out of your stomach is no answer... but then it sucks when you adopt the kid and prevent the father from ever seeing the baby... for over 26 years I have wondered what Amanda Jane looks like... I mat never know... but at least I know she is alive... and didn't get vacuum-sucked out of her mother's body like the triplets I will never see..................







flowerforyou Thanks for sharing. Had it been a right of a father to have a say in the abortion, then surely you would have stopped her aborting the triplets. Thats the point. If its mutual, it can be digested otherwise not.

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Sun 04/05/09 12:32 PM


their GF's abortion ???

It takes both a man and a woman to make a child is because nature
knew it would take both a man and a woman to raise that child. When the man shrugs his paternal obligation, the woman is left with burden that wasn’t meant to be shouldered by one person.

What are your views friends ???


:heart: THIS issue will never have an end in this land.
And it always cause's people to fight about their thoughts.
As for me, I KNOW THIS, it will change her life forever if she kills it, or keeps it. As for the guy,,it also will always stay in his mind on their decision, and it should be a joined decision.
But clearly the women has the last word.
In my life I have never been with a lady that had that done. Nor would I ever want her to. LIFE is LIFE..and to kill ANY life for the reason that it does not fit their life-style is insane.
But conception through rape is also WRONG and that in my mind should be allowed...and adoption should be the FIRST thought if any lady doesn't want the baby,,,NOT death by her minds lack of wanting it.
OK,,here comes the fighting,wink,..
Good luck on your post..drinker


Thanks. I hope we all would keep up harmoniously here. It is quite a debatable topic, indeed. As I have mentioned "girl friend", lets rule out rape here to narrow down the responses.

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Sun 04/05/09 12:28 PM


i just edited my post, please read it again.
what if women wants to abort and man don't


You can't edit after having responses :tongue:

sorry dear. but that wouldn't make much change, I guess.

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Sun 04/05/09 12:26 PM
I know its tough alone but don't you think we aren't addressing the sin of terminating a life.think

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Sun 04/05/09 12:24 PM
Thanks all for sharing flowerforyou

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Sun 04/05/09 12:22 PM
Edited by therapy30 on Sun 04/05/09 12:22 PM
i just edited my post, please read it again.
what if women wants to abort and man don't

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Sun 04/05/09 12:17 PM
Edited by therapy30 on Sun 04/05/09 12:21 PM
their GF's decision of keeping or aborting baby ?

It takes both a man and a woman to make a child is because nature
knew it would take both a man and a woman to raise that child. When the man shrugs his paternal obligation, the woman is left with burden that wasn’t meant to be shouldered by one person.

What are your views friends ???