yeah so I gotta come clean and end the suspense for those keeping track at home....

she got her period...

I slept with someone else...

and we've decided to work it out...

what an end to a sh*tty week...

I don't plan to tell her what I did, as she never offered her secret openly, but I won't lie if ever confronted...

I guess I posted this whole thing online because in some sick way, maybe I want her to find out, perhaps I need her to know how much I was humiliated....

anyways thx to everyone for sharing and all the advice...

PS...everyone is inviting to the wedding...well you if it works out

LMFAO @ poor life decisions

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The Number 23
Catch Me If You Can
Vanilla Sky
Chasing Amy
Grid Locked
Boiler Room
Vantage Point

karma is a female dog....

wow guys I really can not believe how many people are sharing...

I feel much better knowing other people have had similair experiences...

Still unsure about what to do, however the plot has turned a little "Springerish" as I talked to Ms Cheater last night and she had the nerve to pull the I might be pregnant card. Of course she says it's mine and it very well could be.

She is most probably lying but I think she realizes that she does not want to lose what we had....

LOL life sucks balls

wow....thank you all

lol...dude last night I was dreaming about pulling her off random shlongs...

but thx for the joke I needed a laugh

damn guys....

thanks for sharing sometimes when something like this happens u assume your the only one who's gone through it....

I guess I should share...

well...my live in girl for the past couple years left me to move back to her mothers because well the fighting became the main focus in the relationship...

we agreed it would be a break but we continued sleeping with each other and doing the whole couple thing but just more dating then "married"...

literally we would break up everyday because of the obvious resentment...

but we always remained true that if one was ready to move on or found someone else, no surprises just brutal truth...

this has been going on for 6 months...

for the past month we've been getting along great and agreed that we are officially together again...

but I just couldn't shake the feeling that during the down time she wasn't being truthful....well long story short I found out that she did sleep with someone and yesterday I got her to admit it for confirmation....

I'm broken....do I throw away years or forgive and forget because of the Ross and Rachael rule???

Again, thanks for sharing everyone because really I haven't been able to talk to anyone about it as I am embarrassed as sh*t about the whole thing

would you just accept an apology and work at the relationship going forward?

by like the "love of your life"...

don't mean to bum anyone but is there any way reconcile after that?

did you randomly sleep with someone and say fair is fair?

what did u do?

posted in other thread but advised this may be better...

he does strange thing to your Flux Capacitor, doesn't he?

be safe and remember not to gun it to 88

finally I'm accepted....

I'd prefer Iverson....

perhaps in the sport of curling I'd go with the "other" man...

indeed...I went out and bought the first 3 seasons

People think I'm nuts I watch them over and over again, but I think I discover something new about the storyline or the "Lost World"

Like I even listen to the podcasts....

I think I may have a problem...lol

k....how bout now y'all????

sigh...

fiiiiiine, you guys win...

check it in 5 and tell me if it's telling enough without inviting an e-stalker into my life

I'm a big TV guys as is...

but this has to be my absolute favorite show on TV right now...

anyone else been following the series??

I was gonna say my ass but I thought that would have taken the joke too far

don't worry my back makes up for it

but doesn't my turquoise towel and minimum chest hair in my pic do that??

wouldn't I be whole wheat???