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Mon 11/25/13 02:19 PM


I can't figure it out myself. lol Maybe someone else can shed a light on the subject.


Because I refuse to 'settle'. By that I mean that I think everyone deserves to be loved, to love and to feel loved, to feel respected, to feel secure in the relationship they're in, to be happy with the person they're with... if you're not getting that from the person you're with, then it's not something I would settle for. That's why I'm single.


ditto

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Mon 11/25/13 06:42 AM

You missed what I was trying to say. I was simply explaining why I thought he said his friends were obsessed, rather than all religious people were obsessed. Of course, only he can really exain what he meant.

At any rate, I agree that some people are absolutely obsessed with religion.


I understood that perfectly, which was why my previous response addressed precisely what you just said. And I never said anyone believes all religious people are obsessed so I'm not sure where that came into the picture. Also there's really no need for explanation. He made it quite clear what he thinks and the subtext of *his* comments, not yours, is what I was countering.

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Mon 11/25/13 06:34 AM
Lol, here here! Same

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Mon 11/25/13 06:30 AM
Edited by Mark_the_Man on Mon 11/25/13 06:31 AM

I don't think the OP was saying everyone who is religious is obsessed. He was saying those who devote themselves to religion, as in those who are always thinking about it and making it the primary focus of their lives.


I never implied he was. Although he certainly wasn't saying they are merely always thinking about it and making it their primary focus. He quite clearly, by using his definition, claimed that his religious friends are obsessed. I was countering the implication that religion is somehow tied to the cause of that obsession, when rather it is merely one of many objects that a person may allow themselves to be obsessed by.

Because the truth is, obsession will grip anyone who finds one thing important above all others and loses balance. Obsession will take hold of what it will. Not the other way around.

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Mon 11/25/13 06:20 AM
Edited by Mark_the_Man on Mon 11/25/13 06:23 AM

Yes, some people are obsessed with work, but certainly not all. Just as some are obsessed with religion.



That's certainly true, and is the general point I was hinting at with my initial post. It's the idea that in human nature there are people who find themselves obsessed, not just with religion, but with virtually anything that tickles their fancy. Religious people finding themselves obsessed are no special example of the rule, just one of many. So to observe it and take note isn't so much a comment on the effects of religion on the human psyche so much as it is a reflection of typical human behavior, in this case pronounced by extreme religiosity.

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Mon 11/25/13 06:11 AM
Edited by Mark_the_Man on Mon 11/25/13 06:12 AM





Among my acquaintances are people who devote themselves to religion. It seems to occupy their thoughts all or most of the time. Does that fit the definition of obsession?

Obsession defined: "��the domination of one's thoughts or feelings by a persistent idea, image, desire, etc.

"[From] psychiatry: a persistent idea or impulse that continually forces its way into consciousness, often associated with anxiety and mental illness

"��a persistent preoccupation, idea, or feeling."

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/OBSESSION?fromRef=true



Hmm, this definition and these symptoms also seem to fit perfectly with people who have full time jobs- occupies most of their thoughts- causes stress and anxiety. I suppose that means about 93% of Americans are obsessed then eh? Just think, they're focused on some form of labor for *8* hours a day or more. Talk about unhealthy. Possibly the result of a life that overemphasizes the importance of consumerism. Who knows. xD


I'm not really sure how the above fits a full time job. Is it just because you spend so much time at work? That's why they call it full time. Though as soon as I leave work, I stop thinking about it.

With religion, some think about it all the time, whether they're at work, home or anywhere else.


Yes, I'm aware it's called full time, hence the 8 hour reference.

And it fits perfectly within the definition. 8 hours of focus on a job or a task, daily, sometimes seven days a week. So much time spent thinking in one context is surely grounds for obsession; moreover long-term full time work inevitably leads to stress and worry. The symptoms are covered as well as the initial criteria.

P.S. I don't actually believe any of the above. I was making fun of the definition and how flawed it is. Also- people who work sometimes think about it all the time, whether they're at home, abroad, or in church I daresay. =)

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Mon 11/25/13 06:06 AM
Ditto

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Mon 11/25/13 05:41 AM
Saluting all valedictorians Auspiciously over under rakes Simultaneously eels lied vicariously entering solitude.



ILTEP

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Mon 11/25/13 05:28 AM
Be your best self. There's no better medicine for the ills around you, and more relevantly- within you.

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Mon 11/25/13 05:26 AM


Okay- what do you normally find attracts you first in a woman

her belly button bigsmile


lmao, oh gosh, hahaha

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Mon 11/25/13 05:23 AM

(@Mark: I think I've only met about 2 Elizabeths in all my life!)

Sean.



Hell and damnation. Maybe that was more of a Victorian Era fad. Hmmm.

Sarah?

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Mon 11/25/13 05:23 AM

(@Mark: I think I've only met about 2 Elizabeths in all my life!)

Sean.



Hell and damnation. Maybe that was more of a Victorian Era fad. Hmmm.

Sarah?

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Mon 11/25/13 05:19 AM

there should be an answer to the previous question , what's the point of keeping asking ?
O_o


Let's do this FOX. END THE MADNESS! Star our own pattern!


Okay- what do you normally find attracts you first in a woman, does it depend on the person? If the answer to the second is yes then what do you find has attracted you first more often than not.

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Mon 11/25/13 05:18 AM

Please lots of women view me !sad


I feel your pain broski. And I think it's just going to get worse now that I've stuck my autism and mormonism up there, haha

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Mon 11/25/13 05:16 AM


Whats an ID stroker?

Is it wrong to like a stroker as I love my head and back stroked?


I think they're referring to Freud's theory on ID (re: psyche). A part of the ego that has something to do with instincts and such. I'm a little rusty on my Freud though.


That is correct. =)

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Mon 11/25/13 05:10 AM

Er... no. Guess again, Bob?


Well she is English. How about Elizabeth?

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Mon 11/25/13 04:56 AM
Gotham city police commissioner

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Mon 11/25/13 04:40 AM

she was the waitress at Giovanni's


We, met up with Batman on the roof next to the signal. Something about the crown prince of crime or rather. I had a small nerdgasm.

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Mon 11/25/13 04:38 AM
I have no idea what the hell to do here...

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Mon 11/25/13 04:32 AM
*id* strokers. mad

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