Did he have a job? Was he contributing to the household funds? If not, then you have every right to "nag" him about doing things. But, if he said he'd do something and hasn't gotten to by the time you think he should have, don't nag, just do it yourself.

If men don't like your independence, it's because they want you under their thumb. They want to have something to hold over you. I don't think that's the kind of man you'd want to be involved with anyway.

I agree with you. However, that doesn't mean I should have to fix all the things she thinks needs fixing. Especially if I never use them. If she wants a shelf, she can hang it herself. If her car needs an oil change she can do it herself or pay someone to do the job.

I ask NOTHING from a woman in a relationship except sex a couple of times a week and she takes at least as much pleasure from that as I do. So, I don't see any reason I should be asked to do anything more. She's a grown up and can take care of herself. We're EQUAL, right?

Of course it's cheating. She's having sex with someone other than her significant other. She should either explain her feelings to her man and let him know the two of them are not mutually exclusive or stop having sex outside the relationship.

Personally, I think for the OP, the former is the best option.

Hold on there. Aren't men and women supposed to be equal? Why can't she hang her own shelf or mend her own door or spend some of HER money to hire a carpenter?

If these things are important to her, she needs to take care of them herself. That's what men do.

You sir do not have things in perspective and may have a sexual addiction yourself. Nothing comes before your income.

Or maybe you get laid so infrequently you must take advantage of it when a woman finally does say yes to you. Kick her to the curb and if she doesn't like it, find another. Women are not an endangered species.

I always thought the American dream meant a truly classless society where everyone is equal. No, I'm not living it.

Maybe the OP should consider a move to Utah?

I'm not making any judgements. However, I'm sure we can agree that cooking is traditionally a woman's role.

Having said that, I do all my own cooking and cleaning and car maintenance. But, I never do yard work.

But, this isn't about you and I. It's a study that found that men that help their wives out with house work have sex less often than men that do not. Let's try to stick to the point, shall we?

It is a lot of assuming. That's because I'm interested in the ethics, not the other issues people keep bringing up to not have sex, like monogamy and STDs. These things are off topic and beside the point.

This should be a fun discussion.

http://www.nydailynews.com/life-style/health/housework-sex-married-men-article-1.1251047

It appears that helping around the house isn't to a man's benefit.

In the kink community women like this are referred to as "unicorns" because they are so difficult to find.

Double post.

You guys are missing the point. Suppose you weren't interested in a relationship beyond sexual and the addicted person had a clean bill of health from a doctor.

Now, you've found someone willing to give you what you're looking for without insisting on more. Once you've learned that person has a problem, do you still engage in coitus with them?

I have a friend that married a wealthy woman. She went as for as buying him a full service motorcycle shop.

Another friend is a very talented musician, but isn't able to earn his own living. He's been through several sugar mamas over the years.

I also know a man that married a mature woman immigrant that needed a husband to stay in this country. She paid him to be her husband until she got permanent status.

But, I've never heard of a woman spending her husband's income on her boy.

I'm a little confused. Are you looking for a female for the two of you or is she just for him?

Yeah, most guys would. But, I'm not asking what most guys would do, I,m about the ethics of doing it.

I guess it's sort of like someone offering cheesecake to a person with a food addiction. A person's mom may do that.

Sorry about all the extar posts. I have a strange internet connection in my current location.

it is that persons problem, right? But, I suppose I'd be taking advantage her her addiction.

If she was addicted to giving away money, I don't think I'd take it.

it is that persons problem, right? But, I suppose I'd be taking advantage her her addiction.

If she was addicted to giving away money, I don't think I'd take it.

it is that persons problem, right? But, I suppose I'd be taking advantage her her addiction.

If she was addicted to giving away money, I don't think I'd take it.