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Topic: i want my husband to have a girlfriend
bashfultown8 Joined Mon 03/04/13 Posts: 2	Mon 03/04/13 02:58 PM
Is it fair to let him have a girlfriend only because I want one deep down inside?

Mz_StillUrHeart Joined Thu 02/21/13 Posts: 1	Mon 03/04/13 03:01 PM
How does he feel about the situation? Have you discussed this with him?

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Mon 03/04/13 03:09 PM
you two could just pick one girl...two birds, one stone (sort of)

Winlei Joined Sat 01/26/13 Posts: 4048	Mon 03/04/13 03:12 PM
I dont know how to answer this. I just want to welcome you two. Enjoy^-^

xxL4LUNCHBOX Joined Tue 02/19/13 Posts: 128	Mon 03/04/13 03:13 PM
Is it fair to let him have a girlfriend only because I want one deep down inside? let him watch but not join in that way the other girl dont feel threatned and most guys dont mind joining in if its just there girl and not a plus share scheme. a real guy let you experiment that without but be of there head you leaving them for woman so be very carefull its tnt you playing with now sweetness

xxL4LUNCHBOX Joined Tue 02/19/13 Posts: 128	Mon 03/04/13 03:16 PM
who really the girl for and have you thought about the damadge you could do to that girl that becomes iraperable to a degree

kissablekiss Joined Mon 03/08/10 Posts: 8528	Mon 03/04/13 03:22 PM
Wow ....Open Relationship somebody pass me the manual ,no idea how it work -_-

TexasScoundrel Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693	Mon 03/04/13 05:40 PM
I'm a little confused. Are you looking for a female for the two of you or is she just for him?

thiswillprobablyfail Joined Sun 03/03/13 Posts: 4	Mon 03/04/13 09:26 PM
I guess the only thing you can do is be honest with him and yourself - if this is a big issue for you it's worth discussing openly.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Mon 03/04/13 09:29 PM
Is it fair to let him have a girlfriend only because I want one deep down inside? really. I understand. It would be a great relief when they finally get a girlfriend.... something to occupy their time

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Mon 03/04/13 09:32 PM
Is it fair to let him have a girlfriend only because I want one deep down inside? You want a girl? Talk to your man about it,before you bring someone in! Does he want one also?? Bse,if the girl is just for you........ You do know that,if not handled carefully,it can easily go awry on you? Yep,explode in your face... Talk to your man about it,but,tactic and caution!

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 4976	Tue 03/05/13 01:07 AM
Is it fair to let him have a girlfriend only because I want one deep down inside? Time to go say goodbye to your guy and go your own way in my opinion, I think your relationship is over. If I felt I wanted someone else, it would be because I no longer wanted the person I was with, but I believe in monogamy.

kissablekiss Joined Mon 03/08/10 Posts: 8528	Tue 03/05/13 03:15 AM
I'm a little confused. Are you looking for a female for the two of you or is she just for him? nice picture !!! Lol She wants a girlfriend for herself but her husband wants a girlfriend also ... Real complex situation ,they should just choose one girl and share her ...marriages these days smh

Kennee77 Joined Sat 01/26/13 Posts: 236	Tue 03/05/13 10:05 AM
What da????? Why da hell did yu get Married? Just get a Divorce Please; yu Don't Know what Marriage Means

TexasScoundrel Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693	Tue 03/05/13 10:07 AM
I'm a little confused. Are you looking for a female for the two of you or is she just for him? nice picture !!! Lol She wants a girlfriend for herself but her husband wants a girlfriend also ... Real complex situation ,they should just choose one girl and share her ...marriages these days smh In the kink community women like this are referred to as "unicorns" because they are so difficult to find.

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Tue 03/05/13 10:13 AM
The best thing to do is sit down and have a heart to heart conversation with your husband, Sometimes the fantasy is not like the reality. Also you have to consider the Girl friends emotions in all these situations. Good luck and becareful.

KiK2me Joined Sun 01/06/13 Posts: 8732	Tue 03/05/13 10:20 AM
Is it fair to let him have a girlfriend only because I want one deep down inside? ...Sounds pretty K I N K Y to me KiK

TexasScoundrel Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693	Tue 03/05/13 10:53 AM
Maybe the OP should consider a move to Utah?

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Tue 03/05/13 11:06 AM
Is it fair to let him have a girlfriend only because I want one deep down inside? Honey, you need to ask your husband this question!! ...Lots of variables here and the only answer that should matter would be your husbands...!!...Now good luck to you both!

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14975	Tue 03/05/13 03:15 PM
Is it fair to let him have a girlfriend only because I want one deep down inside? Time to go say goodbye to your guy and go your own way in my opinion, I think your relationship is over. If I felt I wanted someone else, it would be because I no longer wanted the person I was with, but I believe in monogamy. I agree with this answer.