12 pillows??? I'm not running a B&B.
I think I have 3 pillows. My own, a spare and 1 for my mum.
I do have 5 decorative cushions on my bed. When I go to bed, I chuck them on the floor.
If you regard pillows and cushions to be the same, then I got 6 during the day, 1 when I sleep.

What's with this "WE"-thing?

At first, I though that this thread was titled "looking for the sane". If that had been the case, then I would have said that you were on the wrong website.

By the way, is there a particular reason why your Mingle2 profile encourages adultery?

Long Dong Silver

Well, first I forgave him, and then some. . I'd known him for a few years. He was always quite nasty to me, and I used to wonder why he still wanted conversations with me, when he was treating me like that. He was quite young, so I'm guessing his hormones were all over the place. As much as I tried to resist talking to him anymore, it seemed it was never that simple. He was in the same circle of friends that I was, so we were constantly talking to each other. I usually would, or is it COULD, ignore anyone treating me a bit unpleasant, but in the end, he apologized, and still ever remained my friend. And to this day, no-one in our friendship circle ever knows what we did together, when away from them. It was odd, but we found a way to have fun with it. Not so simple, when you both have feelings for each other. That's why it was complicated.

I have a strange quirk.
When someone pisses me off, they get my undivided attention until they cut all contact.
Its's fun.

I've done it a few times, it can work but you both need to have a lot of trust in eachother.

I somehow don't think there is any logical answer, nor anyone who will bother to draw attention to it either,,,,

Asking a woman why she is single is almost as ridiculous as asking a beautiful woman in a wheelchair "how could someone so pretty be disabled?" Being single or disabled is not always a choice and sometimes it is.

Men who think every pretty woman is getting hundreds of offers look over the fact that they are in the majority of men who don't even ask. Or they ask in some left handed insulting or self demeaning way that is vague or gives them an out. Pretty women have to fend off drunk, angry, bitter men who assume the only way you would say yes is if you were giving them pity, bored, looking to be seen out, or hiding some terrible flaw when the reality is the rgular guys just don't ask. Often the really great looking guys don't want a pretty woman to step on their "light". Or they have zero confidence and won't ask either.

Also life is not fair. Being pretty or disabled does not give you an automatic out to life's ups and downs. Women who are beautiful have sickness, disabled children or parents, their houses get flooded, they get laid off, pick your problem pretty women have it too.

Some men are cowards, selfish, only interested in the novelty of either, and can't stand the heat once the are in the kitchen of being with a pretty women or a woman with a disability; even if they talk them self into it in the beginning.

And yes pretty women do get ask out a lot and men desire them even throw money around like it is water but it does not mean they sleep with every man who wants to sleep with them or they are a gold digger but try and tell that to a guy who knows you are popular.

What really bites is an average girl can tell a guy no and the guy can save face saying she is "not worth it" but a pretty woman tries to tell a man no and he may or may not accept it. If they don't force the situation and assault you or your property they do everything they can to trash your reputation weather they lie out right or twist the truth.

Last but not least why should a pretty woman settle for some guy who has a nasty attitude and enough red flags to start a parade just so she doesn't look like a looser for being on the site like every one else. Are they suppose to auction themself off only to the "beautiful people" or are they suppose to give the people who want to give them a chance? ,