Its totally wrong LOL

Apparently 30% of the Men AND WOMEN on single's dating sites were actually attached and lying about their status. I decided not to be one of them because I believe women can handle to the truth if your upfront. Am I right? Hopefully you can respect me for my honesty. I never thought that i would ever sign up for this, and the decision wasn't taken lightly... but anyway, here i am! A black guy in a long term relationship looking for that perfect longterm affair - does it exist? Hey Ladies Hope your well , I never thought that i would ever sign up for this, but anyway here i am! Hopefully the females reading this that would think " you dirty rat" have skipped on to another page by now and I'm left with women who at least want to hear me out! I live happily together on the outside with one child. Inside - I am missing something or should that be someone. The passion, affection and romance has gone and I would like some of that injected back into my life. I work hard and don't get as much time as I would like to play hard. But if a woman were to offer me good reasons to play, I would certainly make the time. Very confident, happy go lucky and I have a very sharp mind - it's not easy to pull the wool over my eyes*winks* and to be honest you won't need too as im very non judgemental. I am a lover of many things - museums, theatre, cinema, books, music concerts. Too much to list and a little bit boring - ask me about those things and we have something to talk about. Open minded and very adventurous - I like pushing boundaries and discovering new experiences. I would like to speak to someone in a similar situation or someone who understands. It's some of your time and company that I would like, to enjoy each other. To laugh together,to talk, to kiss, to cuddle, to play and enjoy - am sure you get the picture... It doesn't have to heavy but If all you are after is great s _x and nothing more, we won't be on the same wavelength. I want the great s _ x and can definitely give it, but I want the other feelings also. I want to share new experiences with a woman (for me or you) and you need to be adventurous and sensual like me. Lastly, but importantly - If you are a married or attached woman please understand that while you might need to be need to be dishonest about using this site to your spouse, there is no need to lie to your lover - I will be your lie. Honesty and truth with me please. UPDATE: PLEASE!!! Only message me if you can deal with fact that I cant always get back to your messages straight away. Although i am in a "boring relationship" I do have a life and sometimes it gets a lil busy. I cant spend hours at time on here and if you can....we might not be compatible. Thanks in advance xx

Looking to talk to Non Judgmental Women IN OR NEAR LONDON ONLY for CLEAN CHAT.