No one should ever owe anyone anything! Nor should someone expect "security", from a physical moment of enjoyment! That is what is wrong with relationships! Many seem to think it is an exchange system, instead of enjoying the moment, there always seems to be a requirement for a reward system, which in reality, turns the situation into "the oldest profession" scenario!

Pre-meditated bargaining, will never get you what you want! Live life for the enjoyment of it, and don't make demands and you won't be disappointed when you give away a "little milk"!

Hopefully, it is not a situation where you received no pleasure out of the physical encounter, and if it is why would you want to be sold as a preverbal "cow" to begin with?

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